The role model of parents is to accompany their children all their lives. Parents should be consistent in words and deeds, and always remind themselves that "I am a role model for children, and I must be upright and worthy of my heart." Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds have a great influence on their children's growth and development. What influence will parents' bad role models and good role models have on their children, as follows:

1. The influence of bad role models on children: Parents' bad role models are mainly manifested in some bad habits and immoral behaviors, such as smoking, drinking and gambling. It may have a bad influence on children. Specifically, parents' bad role models will:

(1) conveys incorrect values and behavior patterns, making it impossible for children to establish correct moral values and behavior norms.

(2) Breaking children's trust, making them feel insecure and losing the foundation of parent-child relationship. (3) Causes children to follow their parents' bad behaviors, thus increasing the probability of children being involved in bad behaviors.

2. The influence of good role models on children: Parents' good role models mainly show some positive behaviors and attitudes, such as strong sense of responsibility, optimism and helpfulness. These behaviors may have a good influence on children. Specifically, a good example for parents will be:

(1) Set a correct example for children and let them learn correct values and behavior patterns.

(2) Cultivate children's self-confidence and positive attitude, and encourage children to pursue their dreams. (3) Guide children to learn to fulfill their obligations, be honest and trustworthy, treat others sincerely and other excellent qualities from an early age, and develop good habits and behavior patterns. Generally speaking, a good example of parents can better stimulate children's potential and help them grow and develop better.

Therefore, parents should be good role models for their children and shape the correct behavior orientation and spiritual pursuit for their growth.