Inner cultivation is personal cultivation. Only by shaping one's own image can one enhance one's personality charm. \x0d\ Why do some people give people a wonderful feeling when they talk, gesture, even smile or greet, or even answer the phone, while others do the opposite? This is related to a person's cultivation. From the bottom of our hearts, each of us appreciates such beauty. This kind of beauty is not necessarily the beauty of appearance; You don't necessarily have a brand-name watch, and you don't necessarily have a good voice. Beyond the golden jade, it is defeated. However, people with high self-cultivation are the easiest to stand out among ordinary people, which is also the personal charm. \x0d\ If you want to deepen your self-cultivation, you must first start with "change", "acceptance" and self-requirement. So how exactly should you start? \x0d\ 1, we should change our writing, modify and change our thinking: the most basic communication between people is language. If we speak without art, or if we don't speak properly, it will be difficult to get others' good opinion of ourselves. In character, if our habits are heavy and our bad heart remains unchanged, Jaken in our hearts will be jealous, stupid and arrogant. Only in this way can we make continuous progress. \x0d\2。 We should be educated, suffer hardships and suffer indignities: on the road of life, why can some people keep making progress, while others retreat instead of making progress? The problem is that he can't accept it. This is the same as learning to read. Some people make progress easily because they are willing to accept it. Some people tend to regress because they can't accept it. In the process of deepening self-cultivation, we must first learn to be educated. To be educated is to absorb things into your heart and then digest them into your own thoughts. \x0d\ We should not only be educated, but also suffer indignities. If a person can only accept the praise of others, it is impossible to give himself strength completely forever, but also learn to accept criticism, guidance and even harm from others. In a sense. Only when you suffer indignities can you make progress. \x0d\3。 You should think, think and think again: you must think twice before you do anything. Thinking is wisdom, and everything is well thought out, which will get twice the result with half the effort. \x0d\4。 You should dare to speak, do and be human: some people dare not express their ideas, and even dare not express them publicly when they have opinions. Dare not do anything. If you dare not be responsible, you will not be responsible. If you don't take responsibility, you can't gain others' trust in yourself, and your cultivation will not be improved. Therefore, as long as it is a good thing, we must learn to dare to speak, dare to do and dare to be human. \x0d\ Therefore, if you want to deepen your cultivation, you should: \ x0d 1. To change us, we should. Thinking. \x0d\4。 Dare to speak, dare to do, dare to be human. \x0d\ A person's charm is embodied in cultivation, and cultivation usually comes from details. Behavior forms habit, habit forms quality, and quality determines charm. Start from the things around you, learn to know the overall situation from the details, start from your own words and deeds, and improve your overall quality.