There are many people with loud voices around me. They are generally bad-tempered, giving people the impression that they have no quality. I'm sure some people will say that talking like this all the time has little to do with quality.
I'll just listen to this. I don't believe that around me, people with mild temper are generally quality, polite, educated, and have jobs, and they are generally high-quality people.
As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together", everyone likes to play with people who are similar to themselves. Suppose your child is a grumpy person who doesn't care about the feelings of people around him, others will definitely not welcome him.
Nowadays, noise is forbidden in many places. I have seen many examples. Some people make a hullabaloo about answering the phone on the bus, completely ignoring the feelings of people around them. Some people are disgusted. Sometimes they tell the person who answers the phone to keep it down. Unexpectedly, instead of lowering his voice, the man quarreled with others.
This is a very common phenomenon. Some people may think it's okay to speak loudly. I want to tell you that this matter is very serious and must be taken seriously.
My daughter is an example. Her grandparents talk loudly with her father. Sometimes they speak louder. At this time, the daughter will say, grandparents, don't quarrel, you can't quarrel.
The child didn't realize that talking loudly was a quarrel until he was over two years old, and he didn't realize it. This is the difference in concept. When a child is in a noisy environment for a long time, her personality will gradually become very irritable and her voice will become the same as theirs.
Environment can change a person, which is really not just talk. We must pay attention to it and change ourselves. If we can't change the environment, then we will change the environment. We must make changes for our next generation.