As we all know, even though there are many ways to provide for the elderly, in general, most of us will choose three main ways to provide for the elderly when we are old: children's care, nursing homes, and hiring nannies, not because they are good. It is mainly a habitual psychology at work, but in recent years, the emergence of this new way of providing for the elderly has made many of us "eager to try". The so-called "holding a group to support the elderly" means that at least two old people are combined together, and then everyone leaves the traditional family and moves to the countryside or suburbs that are particularly suitable for the elderly to live together. So this kind of pension sounds good, but is this kind of "holding the group to support the elderly" reliable? One of our 63-year-old aunts bluntly said: "Last year, I also found several sisters, and then we got together to support the elderly. But it didn't take long for me to think that this way of providing for the aged sounds beautiful, but it is actually full of disadvantages. To tell the truth, I don't want to live like this either, but I can't find any other better way to support the elderly, so I have to. Just last year, I met several rural elderly people online. Then the news report that everyone came together to hold a group for the elderly deeply attracted me. Seeing several old people living a happy old age in the countryside, I can't help itching. To tell the truth, at the beginning, it may be a novelty or other reasons, so during the time when the six of us lived together, we got along quite well. We buy food and cook together, do housework together, plant flowers and grass together, climb mountains and enjoy the scenery together, and so on. We really get along like sisters. This is no exaggeration. Some elderly people usually like to eat vegetarian food, which they think is good for their health. However, some of our elderly people think that eating vegetarian food every day has no nutrition at all, and we should eat more meat, fish, eggs and other foods to increase nutrition. Even when cooking, we sometimes have serious differences on whether it is light or spicy. When other sisters saw these problems, they should resolutely stop, criticize and correct them. But what I never expected was that instead of doing this, other sisters followed suit. Over time, this situation became more and more serious and even reached an uncontrollable level.

Compared with the above, the key problem is that our six sisters had a good relationship, but because of living together for a long time, we often showed a seemingly separated situation. Although we are talking and laughing on the surface, the relationship seems close, but in fact, everyone has long regarded each other as strangers.