What does it mean to marry a rural woman? It is such a group: ordinary origin, average ability, but high spirits, bent on marrying a man with excellent conditions in all aspects, and satisfied. Below I sorted out what it means to marry a rural woman.

What does it mean to marry a wife but not an idyllic girl? 1 Since ancient times, marriage has been one of the most important things in life. "Book of Rites" said: "Those who are unconscious of rites must have the second surname, which is the ancestor of the temple and the next generation of descendants." For individuals, marriage can form a new family, have children together and feel the warmth of the family. There are also people who don't get married in modern times, advocating so-called freedom and not wanting to be bound by marriage, but in some ancient dynasties, it was impossible not to get married.

At the beginning of the Western Han Dynasty, the imperial court expressly stipulated that a woman must get married at the age of fifteen, otherwise the loss would outweigh the gain. "Han Hui Diji" records: "Women over the age of 15 to 30 don't marry, count five." The "five calculations" here means five times. If a family's daughter is between 15 and 30 years old and is not married, the government will levy a five-fold tax.

Wedding night,no. 1, just ten words, tells the importance of marriage. Normally, everyone wants to find someone who loves each other, and they don't want to experience the ups and downs of love and marriage. There is an old saying in the countryside: "If you marry a good daughter-in-law, your family will prosper for three generations." For a family, a wife plays an extremely important role, and a virtuous wife is the pursuit of all men.

Of course, the feudal society requires women to observe the three virtues, which is out of date and does not conform to the principle of equality between men and women. Modern people's understanding of virtue is mainly reflected in their understanding of husbands and filial piety to in-laws. Being able to do these two things is enough to be a good wife and mother. When choosing a spouse, which types of women are best to stay away from each other? The author has heard such a piece of advice: "Don't marry an idyllic girl when you marry." What exactly is an "idyllic girl"?

"Rural woman" is a hot word on the Internet in recent years, which means that she has average conditions, but she has extremely high requirements for her future partner, and she can't wait to marry a handsome and rich super-rich. For example, a girl's face value is not outstanding, her knowledge is very general, and there is no background and property at home. When someone introduced her to someone, she put forward various conditions, demanding that the other person be handsome, have a good family and be one of the best in character.

I remember there is such a concept of marriage on the Internet: "You are responsible for making money to support your family, and I am responsible for being beautiful." It is true that men work hard to make their families live a better life. However, as wives, we should take care of the housework, take care of the elderly and children, or work together and share the housework, instead of a woman who is only responsible for beauty and dressing up beautifully and touches nothing else.

"Rural women" don't know how to empathize and lack self-knowledge. She has no better conditions than others, but she thinks highly of herself and thinks that only very good boys can deserve her. In addition, too much emphasis on material conditions, always self-centered, put their own interests first. The "rural girl" has a high heart and high eyes, and always wants to find a perfect husband, ignoring her own conditions.

In all fairness, the process of choosing the other half should be based on the actual situation. For example, a person with a monthly salary of 3,000 looks ordinary and always wants to marry a handsome, hardworking and practical husband with an annual salary of several hundred thousand yuan, which is no different from a toad trying to eat swan meat. In marriage, I just want to be a rich wife and don't want to eat at all. I just want to get married. Without the princess's life, I got princess disease.

The ancients have long said that a happy marriage depends on two aspects, one is the other's personality, and the other is the right match. In the eyes of rural women, they never understand the meaning of being suitable for each other, and it is very important that the conditions are basically equal. If you want to find a high-quality man, you must first be excellent, either gentle and virtuous, or really beautiful, or well-off, otherwise others are so excellent, why would you choose you?

If you are unfortunate enough to marry a "country girl" wife, it is difficult to get happiness. If you can't earn the money she wants and give her a very superior material life, you will be rejected by her all day. A good marriage is never a silent effort by one person, but requires the joint efforts of husband and wife. If you meet an "idyllic girl", you'd better think it over. Readers, do you think there are many "rural girls" now?

What does it mean to marry a wife instead of a rural woman? I believe everyone has heard of a country cat and a country dog. The so-called countryside can be understood as unique to the local area. There is such a woman in reality, called the pastoral girl. This kind of woman is more annoying than the devil who helps her brother, and she is blacklisted for marriage.

Why is that pastoral girl so annoying? Crucially, rural women are women who demand equality between men and women, but actually let men pay for their own interests.

Reader awei met an idyllic girl on a date. Her family condition is average, 29 years old. She also has a younger brother with a college degree at home. Her appearance and figure are ordinary, and her monthly income is only 3000 yuan. For the purpose of dating kindness, awei still didn't abandon the communication with women after understanding.

Therefore, women expressed their views on spouse selection, that is, men are required to be only children, have urban hukou, parents have stable jobs, pensions, houses and cars, do not smoke or drink, respect women to share housework equally, and earn more than 65,438+100000.

To tell the truth, even so, awei met most of these conditions, but awei was not satisfied. However, why did this woman make such a request? Obviously, his condition was crushed by this woman, and it is easy to find someone better than her, but this rural woman still feels that awei has got a bargain. This is the case with rural women, who are not only average in conditions, but also extremely demanding and want to take advantage of everything.

This made awei very angry and blacked out the other party after the blind date, but this blind date really gave him a bad experience.

Why can't rural women get married? Mainly these three characteristics.

1, get married and drag a man back.

A normal wife will help a man and make his career better and better, but rural women are different. She is incompetent, but demanding, and it is easy to hold him back.

2, the personality is melodramatic, no princess has princess disease.

Most rural women are more melodramatic, but the princess's illness does not kill her. They can't find local tyrants, but when they can't find them, they try their best to squeeze ordinary people. When a man marries her, he will feel very stressed and tired.

3. Double standards, unequal powers and responsibilities

To put it simply, I am strict with others and tolerant of myself. My ordinary point is called advantage, and others' bright spot is called ordinary. To paraphrase a popular saying, rural women are so ordinary but so superior.

In short, I want nothing, I want everything. Speaking of rights, equality between men and women, giving and being a gentleman.

Conclusion: Rural women are disgusting, which is essentially a manifestation of selfishness. Such a woman will make men feel very tired when she marries home, and smart men will avoid it.

What does it mean to marry a country girl? Tell a real case.

A female colleague of my previous company, we met on 20 16. She was born in 1986 and just turned 30.

At that time, she was single and clamored for my help to introduce her.

Let me talk about her personal situation first: she was born in 18 small counties, her parents are ordinary working-class people, and she has a younger brother who is five years younger than her.

I graduated from an ordinary undergraduate course and went to work in Beijing after graduating from college. At that time, my salary was about 10 thousand. I want to add here that her salary level is relatively low compared with people with similar work experience in our industry.

The height and appearance are average, there are no big flaws, but they are not very beautiful.

Personality belongs to some strength.

Asked about her request, let me really surprised:

1, the family must be an only child, both parents have pensions, and most importantly, the family must have good financial ability, preferably in first-and second-tier cities, and at least two houses at home.

2. The man's salary should be at least three times that of her, and he needs to have a Beijing hukou (because she doesn't have a hukou herself, for long-term consideration in the future), and at the same time, he must be able to buy a house of about 100 square meter in full.

3, the man's height, face value should be online, there can be no beer belly, bald people do not accept, do not talk about hygiene. ......

In addition, there are age and geographical requirements.

I asked her, is this a little high? Especially in Beijing, how many people can buy a house in full, except those who are particularly rich at home or can earn their own money?

She smiled disdainfully and said, you are so stupid. Isn't it necessary to find a good condition to get married, or what will you do with it in the future? Don't we girls have the responsibility to be beautiful and find a husband to earn money to support our family?

By the way, your boyfriend is very nice, but the conditions are too general. You should be careful. Are you sure you don't want to watch it again?

Of course I didn't introduce her.

However, at that time, she didn't seem to be in a hurry. She always said that she would make a good choice, preferring not to marry alone rather than marry a man with average ability. One more thing, she doesn't want to consider any potential stocks: in her words, the risk factor is too large, who knows whether the potential stocks can successfully counterattack in the end? Still ready-made and reliable.

As a result, she is still single. ......

So when I saw the word "rural girl", I remembered this former female colleague.

The so-called "rural women" are such a group: they are of ordinary birth and average ability, but they are arrogant and bent on marrying a man with excellent conditions in all aspects. Men who can't meet their requirements will not be considered at all.

Their philosophy is: in marriage, they are mainly responsible for beauty, and the other party is not only responsible for making money to support the family, but also has good face and taste. It is best to do housework and take care of yourself in all directions. They pay attention to rights and materials, but are unwilling to undertake corresponding obligations, and put their own interests first in many things.

Some netizens teased: rural women with a monthly salary of 2w are afraid that they will have to earn an annual salary of one million to pursue academic qualifications, but they are only academic qualifications. What else is handsome, talented, single-minded, interesting to do housework, and so on.

This reminds me of Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy. First of all, she is a "brother helper", not a younger brother. It is her brother and family who want to suck her blood-she has to keep giving money to her family, buying a house for her brother and supporting her family.

When it comes to marriage, she has the concept of "country girl" in her bones: she wants to marry a rich man with her beauty, and then change her life class and live a rich woman's life that she envies and yearns for.

The object she is looking for, it is best to be satisfied in all aspects, Gao Fushuai, considerate of pain, but also respect her and tolerate her infinitely ......

On the other hand, what is she willing to pay for her marriage?

When I was with Wang Baichuan, I didn't see her concern for each other, nor did I see her determination to work together with each other. What I saw was that she repeatedly asked Wang Baichuan to do this and that-asked Wang Baichuan to work hard to earn money to buy a house, asked Wang Baichuan to lend money to her family, asked Wang Baichuan to buy her this and that, and put up with her bad mood at any time. ......

In this way, she is not satisfied with Wang Baichuan: Wang Baichuan is a potential stock at best, so she can't live a better life directly, and she may have to suffer with him.

In marriage, they just want to be vested interests and don't want to work hard. Essentially similar to "fishing for women."

But with this idea, it is difficult to find a satisfactory object with great probability. Even if you find a marriage, is this marriage really strong?

A happy marriage is never the effort of one person, but the effort and management of two people. If you just want to enjoy and get it, such a marriage will be unbalanced sooner or later.

The best marriage is not because you understand my efforts, I understand your hard work, share the same values and deep emotional connection, and create a better life together?