50 kinds of wisdom to change fate
1, the reason why people don't fight with dogs: people beat dogs harder than dogs; Dogs are better than people, even dogs are inferior; Even like a dog.
2. Humans should learn from animals: get enough sleep and sleep whenever you want; Eat moderately and eat when you are hungry; Exercise every day; Don't worry about yesterday or tomorrow.
3, a person can fail many times, as long as he has not blamed others, he is still not a loser!
4. A hundred sheep under the leadership of a lion are much more terrible than a hundred lions under the leadership of a sheep.
The flies in the crown are not more valuable than those in the toilet.
6. Fists can kill wild boar, but they can't stop people's mouths.
7. In the office, you can offend busy people because they don't have time to dispute with you. Never offend idle people, because they have time to deal with you.
8. If you made great achievements yesterday, it means that you haven't done well enough today.
9. The more children are respected, the less they respect their parents. The more democratic the family, the more dictatorial the children are. Parents don't use authority, the more difficult it is for children to control.
10, the last time a person came to this world, it should be regarded as going to a banquet, eating and drinking, and going home comfortably. This is natural. What's wrong with it?
1 1, ideal life: 100 years old, 80-year-old mind, 60-year-old wisdom, 40-year-old will, 20-year-old passion, plus two or three-year-old childlike innocence.
12, each piece of wood can be a Buddha, as long as the redundant parts are removed; Everyone can be perfect, as long as they are willing to get rid of shortcomings and flaws.
13, smart people can understand, smart people can see accurately, and smart people can see luck accurately. The voice of a wise man is the direction of a fool. If you can't give up your ignorance in the past, you can't walk into the hall of wisdom. Prejudice is more important than ignorance.
14, do anything, don't complicate it artificially, once it is complicated, it will affect your decision. I don't know how many decisions to make in my life. If you look forward and backward, you will often accomplish nothing.
15, learn to bend over and accept everything, and you will get everything. We can't do anything, enjoy what we have with a calm mind, so that life is real, and we also need this attitude towards life when we are doing things.
16, if you can't let go of yourself, there will be no wisdom, and if you can't let go of others, there will be no kindness. Everyone should know how to let go of himself and others and not waste his life in a dead end. The road of life is long and broad.
17, you don't have to expect any miracle, because nothing in this world can be called a miracle except yourself. Instead of expecting a miracle, give yourself a miracle. It is better to ask yourself than to ask others. Everything depends on yourself. In the process of pursuing life, we should keep a contented heart and work hard to create a miracle, which is the real miracle.
18, don't let your goodwill become a burden to others. A speaker should have enough confidence in himself; An obedient person should also have a broad mind. Giving people words is as heavy as pearls and jade; It hurts more than words.
19, connotation is more important than appearance, and a kind heart is the beginning of all cultivation. Having a kind and beautiful quality is like putting on armor for yourself, which can help you resist evil and get double protection; If we can strengthen the cultivation of mind and nature on the basis of these qualities, it is like building a successful iron wall, and the road to success will always be unimpeded.
20. Running for the goal is a state, striving to challenge the limit is a kind of happiness, and smiling beyond suffering is a kind of happiness. Many times, fatigue and tightness do not depend on the event itself, but ultimately on our attitude towards the event. In fact, we often find that being tired is also a kind of enjoyment and happiness.
2 1, tomorrow's sun will not rise because of your disappointment; The moon won't stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Just because you are blindfolded doesn't mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light belongs to Bai Ji!
22. The maturity of any soul has to go through the baptism of loneliness and loneliness. Those lonely days are also the best time for us to know ourselves and accumulate strength. It doesn't matter whether I change or not, what matters is whether I can stand my tolerance; Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are depressed in the arms of loneliness.
23. We should look down on everything, look down on everything and see through everything. Everything is lost, nothing can be left, and it is difficult to have happiness and happiness for a while.
If habits are not restrained, they will become necessities of life, and bad habits will change the direction of life at any time. People's habits are often difficult to change, because they have created habits, and as a result, people have become habits!
25. Some people, some words, can only be understood more truly if they are understood with their hearts. There are some things we can move, but we can't cry, because once we let go of our feelings, we are afraid that we will cry.
26. Not every effort will be rewarded, but every effort must be made. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.
27. The wind does not understand the fluttering of clouds, the desolation of rain in the sky, and the weakness of tears in the eyes. Not everyone must be happy, and not every pain must be told.
28. The iron pestle can be ground into a needle, and the wooden pestle can only be ground into a toothpick. The material is not hard and useless.
29. Can eggs from all over the world unite to break stones? ! So be realistic. ...
30. Don't walk into spring just because there is no sunshine; Don't forget to grow because there is no rain and dew; Don't itch your pursuit because there is no song; Don't lose your ideals because there is no applause.
3 1, don't wait to climb to the top of the ladder, only to find the wrong wall on the ladder; Don't be busy dreaming, but you lose your dream because you are busy.
32. People who are diligent in learning from others are humble people; He who can listen to others' opinions is a wise man; People who are willing to accept criticism are introspective people; A man who is good at analyzing gains and losses is a wise man; The combination of these four qualities creates tolerance. With tolerance, we can have a true, beautiful and perfect heart and move towards the most beautiful state regardless of good times and bad times.
33. People who are afraid of suffering will suffer all their lives, and those who are not afraid of suffering will only suffer for a while. Poor people must have something hateful. People who have no spare tire awareness will have great risks in their lives. If you want to live a different life, you have to think differently. What the eyes can see needs vision, and what the eyes can't see needs vision.
34. Be a simple person, don't indulge in fantasy, don't be at a loss about the future, take the road today and live a good life now; Don't admire prosperity, don't carve, be simple and practical to people; Don't be too ostentatious, don't be too persistent, know how to choose and learn to pay; Don't bear the burden of your soul, don't pretend your spirit, let your steps be light, and let happiness exist forever; Don't be greedy for perfection, don't flaunt yourself, keep a low profile when you succeed, and be free and easy after you fail.
35. Don't forget that health is capital. Without health, you can't enjoy all the pleasures of life. Don't take fame and fortune too seriously, after the glitz, it will eventually pass; Don't think that it is the doctor who can save lives, but it is actually yourself. Medical care is more important than saving lives. Don't think that there is a reward for giving. Only if you don't care about the reward can you repay good for evil.
36. A true friend is happy for you when you succeed, but doesn't support you. I will give you timely support and encouragement when you encounter misfortune or sadness. When you have shortcomings and may make mistakes, you will give correct criticism and help. We should ask our friends like this. Such friendship is really valuable.
37. There are so many things that I feel happy: I won the first place; Got a surprise; Laugh till your stomach hurts; Received remuneration; Someone cries for you; Let others move; Someone sends you a text message in the middle of the night; Someone takes care of you when you are sick; Walk with the person you love until your leg hurts; You are the first thing people think of when there are good things.
38. The biggest enemy is yourself; The biggest failure is arrogance; The greatest stupidity is cheating; The most pitiful thing is jealousy; The biggest mistake is inferiority; The greatest pain is obsession; The greatest humiliation is flattery; The most dangerous situation is greed; The most troublesome thing is to compete for fame and profit; The greatest sin is self-deception; The most pitiful temperament is inferiority; The biggest bankruptcy is despair; The greatest strength is to push each other.
39. Fate is not to give up, but to work hard. Fate is not luck, but choice. Fate is not waiting, but grasping. Fate is not a noun but a verb. To change your destiny, change your mind first!
40. It is not today that determines today, but yesterday's attitude towards life; It's not tomorrow that will determine tomorrow, but what you did today. Our today is determined by the past and our tomorrow is determined by today!
4 1, victory depends not on physical strength but on intelligence, and success depends not on miracles but on trajectory. Success lies not in getting good cards, but in playing bad cards well. The most important thing in life is to know where you are going!
42. It is not that there is no water in the pond, but that it is not dug deep enough; Success is not surprising, giving up is quick. It takes wisdom to get one thing and courage to give it up!
43. Seeds will be dried on the concrete floor, drowned in the water, and take root and sprout in fertile soil. Choice determines fate, and environment makes life.
44. People who know how to avoid problems are better than those who know how to solve them. In this world, when you don't know what to do, letting nature take its course may be the best choice. Winners are often not abilities but ideas!
45. Use actions to control emotions, and don't let emotions control actions; Let the mind enlighten wisdom, not let the ears dominate the mind. The difference between people is mainly the difference between ears!
46. He who has no long-term worries must have near worries. Find a spare tire when people are good, and find a way when people are bad; People should find a way out when they are proud, and find a way out when they are frustrated!
What matters in life is not where you come from, but where you go. When you are immersed in your work, you must look up at your direction. Wrong direction, efforts are in vain!
48. No matter how long the road is, there will be an end. No matter how heavy the rain is, it will always stop. Dark clouds can never cover the smiling sun!
49. Fish can't muddy the sea, fog can't crush mountains, thunder can't knock down mountains, and fans can't drive away the fog. A deer's neck is no longer than its head. No matter how long a person's toes are, they cannot be longer than his feet. People's actions are faster than their thoughts!
50. I think that water can't flow backwards, but I haven't found a way to invent the water pump yet; I don't think it is possible for the sun to rise in the west, but I have never lived on a planet where the sun rises in the west. There are only unexpected things in this world, and there is nothing impossible!