With positive people, you won't be depressed;

If you walk with the wise, you will be extraordinary.

If you associate with excellent people, you can reach the top.

In real life, who you are with is very important, which can even change your growth trajectory and determine the success or failure of your life.

When you try to build a circle of positive energy for yourself and get close to excellent and positive people, you will involuntarily find that you will also plant their poison.

Friend s is a living example.

She knows her character better than anyone else. The enthusiasm for doing things for three minutes stems from herself on the one hand and the atmosphere of the circle on the other.

Every time she inspires to lose weight and become a slimming expert, people around her always throw cold water on her, or ignore her determination. When something happens, she cries for a midnight snack and insists on the theory that "the stomach can't wronged anything". Therefore, S never loses weight, so she simply gives up.

S is self-motivated, but people around him don't understand. Many years after graduation, they still go back to reading and doing research. They can't calm down and even feel a little redundant. S has also been discouraged by such voices around him, and reading is also lacking.

Recently, however, I found that S has changed. She seldom makes friends and seldom comes to eat midnight snack. Suddenly I heard that she was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, and with her boyfriend, she insisted on running and fitness every night.

A little out of my expectation, then S sent a message in the circle of WeChat friends: What kind of person you are with, what kind of person you will become, thank you for giving me support, giving me energy and making me excellent.

There is a picture under the text with a time watermark. At 6: 30 in the morning, her running background in sportswear is very youthful, sunny and positive.

I think her boyfriend must have given her this power.