Indeed, although they are all pregnant, because each pregnant woman's constitution is different, everyone's state is different. Some can easily spend the whole pregnancy, while others have to go through various difficulties to give birth to a baby.
What are the difficult things during pregnancy?
The first is the difficulty of morning sickness.
At the beginning of pregnancy, many pregnant women will have some discomfort, such as backache, nausea, lethargy, fatigue and so on. The most uncomfortable thing is vomiting during pregnancy.
According to research, 70%~80% pregnant women will have different degrees of morning sickness.
Let's talk about why you throw up after pregnancy.
Morning sickness is due to the increase of human chorionic gonadotropin in pregnant women. The increase of this hormone level will inhibit the secretion of gastric acid, which will directly lead to the deterioration of gastrointestinal function and digestive ability of pregnant women, and at the same time will be sensitive to some odors.
Therefore, pregnant mothers generally want to vomit, and they want to vomit even more when they smell bad smell, which is more obvious, such as the smell of lampblack.
Some pregnant mothers only vomit slightly for a few days, which does not affect their normal diet. Some pregnant mothers are so serious that they can't eat at all.
Even some pregnant mothers spit out malnutrition, give up ⅹ UE and eat yαo, which is simply a doubt about life.
This kind of situation usually starts in about 4~6 weeks, reaches the peak in about 8 weeks, and gradually disappears after 12 weeks.
There are also some pregnant women who will alleviate this situation after 20 weeks of pregnancy, and more seriously, it will last for the whole pregnancy, which is very serious. About 65,438+0% ~ 2% of them have severe morning sickness.
There are many such pregnant women around lazy mother. Some vomited to Xue, some vomited to hang nutrient solution, and some vomited throughout pregnancy, including lazy mother herself, until her ribs ached, which lasted throughout pregnancy.
Morning sickness is really uncomfortable at all, and I am really scared in retrospect.
But for most pregnant women, it is not helpless. We'd better:
(1) The diet is light. Let yourself accept these foods better and avoid greasy foods, so as not to increase the burden on the stomach.
Eat less and eat more. At this time, pregnant mothers can eat as much as they want, but eating too little is not enough to maintain their own needs. We can eat less and eat more.
③ Try to choose your favorite food. Although there are certain requirements for diet after pregnancy, if morning sickness is serious, sometimes you really don't have to worry too much. Simply put, if you want to eat it, it will not affect the fetus, so you can rest assured.
④ Eat some alkaline food properly. For example, soda cookies or a glass of soda water will have a better effect on relieving morning sickness.
⑤ Exercise properly. Proper exercise can promote gastrointestinal peristalsis, help digestion and divert the attention of morning sickness.
If morning sickness is really serious, we need to know that there is a place called a hospital, where the most professional doctors help.
The second thing is the difficulty of pubic pain.
During pregnancy, pudendal pain is also very difficult, and many pregnant women will have different degrees of pudendal pain in the late pregnancy.
Pregnant women's pudendal pain is because the fetus is growing up, gravity is constantly pressing down, and the body also secretes relaxin. Under this pressure, the pregnant mother will have pubic symphysis separation, and the thigh root will feel very painful.
Of course, not every pregnant woman will have this situation, and even if there is, not every pregnant woman will be so serious.
Pregnant mothers with multiple births, too large fetuses, or pregnant mothers who have had this situation are more likely to have this situation.
Some pregnant mothers just feel slight pain, which does not affect normal walking. Serious pregnant women even walking is a luxury.
Lazy mother has seen the most serious pregnant woman. She is about four months pregnant and can't get out of bed because of pudendal pain. She spent the second and third trimesters in bed, so she couldn't go to the toilet and get out of bed alone.
And there are really many pregnant mothers with pudendal pain in the third trimester, so be careful when walking.
But anyway, if you have pudendal pain,
The third thing is the difficulty of insomnia.
At that time, the two most important things in life were eating and sleeping, which shows how important sleep is, especially for pregnant women, because long-term insomnia will affect the normal development of the fetus.
However, many pregnant mothers can't sleep for various reasons, either they are not sleepy, or the fetus is kicking their stomachs, or they want to go to the toilet, or the pregnant women are imagining things. ...
No matter what causes it, if pregnant women have insomnia, we must find ways to improve it.
You can drink a cup of hot milk before going to bed to calm your nerves.
You can soak your feet with hot water to soak away all your fatigue.
You can listen to some soothing music to calm yourself down first.
Drink as little water as possible two hours before going to bed to avoid affecting sleep due to defecation.
Choose a more comfortable posture when sleeping.
For pregnant mothers with poor sleep quality, if they don't get enough sleep at night, they can make up for it during the day, as long as they don't sleep during the day and play at night.
The fourth thing is the difficulty of constipation.
Well, constipation is really a difficult topic.
It is a fact that gastrointestinal function becomes worse after pregnancy, and gastrointestinal peristalsis will slow down. Moreover, in the early and late pregnancy, because the uterus will directly compress the rectum, it will make it difficult for many pregnant women to defecate.
Constipated pregnant mothers are really in a dilemma. If you don't push hard, you can't get out. It's quite uncomfortable.
I want to exert myself, but I am worried that excessive abdominal pressure will lead to premature rupture of amniotic fluid.
Many pregnant mothers have hemorrhoids because of this, and hemorrhoids are easy to aggravate. In short, it's not easy.
Of course, in most cases, constipation can be alleviated by adjusting the diet structure.
Pregnant mothers can eat foods rich in dietary fiber, such as various vegetables and miscellaneous grains. From personal experience, apples, sweet potatoes, sesame paste, pitaya, honey and lemonade are all very good.
Exercise can also relieve constipation, because exercise can promote gastrointestinal peristalsis.
Pregnant mothers should also develop the habit of regular defecation.
If all the above methods fail, remember that there is a place called a hospital and a person called a doctor.
The fifth thing is the difficulty of all kinds of troubles.
Some pregnant mothers seem to have no discomfort, but it is really hard to understand that they live in fear every day.
All this stems from the pressure of a mother, who is worried about the birth of fetus L in the early pregnancy, the health of fetus bu in the middle pregnancy and the birth of fetus Z in the late pregnancy. It's really all kinds of worries.
This seems to be no problem, but it is actually a problem of pregnant mothers. Excessive anxiety is not a good thing, and it will have an impact on pregnant mothers and fetuses.
It's easier said than done. Everyone understands the truth, but it's hard to say.
This requires pregnant mothers to know how to mediate their feelings in peacetime, do something that makes them happy with friends, and let the fetus grow up in a happy environment.
It can only be said that every pregnant mother's experience is different, and it may be because of other reasons, such as low back pain and headache, that pregnancy is very hard. It's better not to have this experience.
However, being a mother is just right. Although it may be so difficult, I believe pregnant mothers will be able to solve it and usher in the final victory.
The hardest part of pregnancy is careful nursing and giving birth to a healthy baby at full term. I have experienced seven pregnancies, and the first six failed. Every time I find out I'm pregnant, I think of my first pregnancy. I'm so happy that I can't wait for the whole world to know that I'm pregnant. But a few days later, I was cursed, biochemical pregnancy. I will have several miscarriages in the future, either ectopic pregnancy or fetal suspension or missed abortion. Experienced two palace cleaning operations and four spontaneous abortions. At the beginning of despair, I wish I hadn't woken up from the operating table and wanted to escape from reality. Finally, I'm looking forward to it, but I'm not looking forward to getting pregnant. Afraid of disappointment. Fortunately, I met a good doctor, Dr. Liu Xiangyuan, the director of the Third Hospital of Beijing Medical University, where I found out the cause of abortion, and I finally succeeded in getting pregnant for the seventh time. 6 weeks is the most afraid of abortion, and it can be accurate every time. I hardly saw red for more than 7 weeks. Take the doctor's anti-abortion drugs, immune drugs and so on with a try attitude. I passed 1 1 week safely. When I visited Director Liu again at that time, I still remembered what he said to me and told me kindly that you had passed the critical period and succeeded this time. I was still worried at that time, and I was so happy. I didn't know this was real life until I heard the baby's fetal heart for the first time. Although I give heparin to my stomach every day, my stomach is black and blue, but I am still very happy inside. I didn't realize that I had a child until the child came to the world one month in advance, and I really became a mother. Thank you, Director Liu Xiangyuan, for escorting me and realizing my dream of being a mother. Looking at the children around me is very gratifying.
I am a bystander because I am in charge of delivering babies in the delivery room. Although I don't have a baby of my own, I have seen too many parturients. The most intuitive one is my eldest sister-in-law and one of my colleagues. Their pregnancy will scare you. Although I haven't experienced it personally, I can feel the same.
Let's start with my sister-in-law When I was just pregnant, when I was only 45 days old, the reaction began and I began to vomit. She can't eat anything except pickles and rice porridge. She was even more exaggerated when she was two months old. When she ate it, no matter what, she spit it out intact.
But for the sake of the children, she insisted on eating. I know what it's like to throw up, because I will do the same for a few days every month. On that day, let alone go to work, I couldn't get out of bed at all, and I had to take painkillers almost every month to stabilize. It's no use eating, because you throw up everything you eat.
Therefore, I fully understand the pain of the eldest sister-in-law. During that time, I went back to take care of her after work every day. I can't stand watching her vomit like this. Her pregnancy made her fat and she became thinner. In the first three months, she lost nearly 10 kg. She only weighs 90 kilograms. Looking at her weight, I really feel like someone who can walk in the wind.
My eldest sister-in-law vomited for five months before she got better and began to gain weight. Fortunately, she had morning sickness throughout her pregnancy, which made her feel uncomfortable, and there was nothing else uncomfortable, but my colleague was not so lucky. Her pregnancy is just a deadly rhythm and violent vomiting.
My colleague's morning sickness, that is, hyperemesis gravidarum in our textbook, is exactly the same. Let me explain what hyperemesis gravidarum is first.
What hyperemesis gravidarum? She is one of them. She vomited until she was dehydrated, and that day she vomited until her stomach bled. She is hospitalized in our department, with an injection of water, and can't eat anything. She lives on needle water every day. She is only two and a half months old now, and it usually takes 12 weeks to slowly relieve hyperemesis gravidarum. She needs at least another month. Yesterday, she still had some symptoms of bleeding and threatened abortion.
How to treat hyperemesis gravidarum? First, try to keep pregnant women away from the smell and food that can easily induce her morning sickness.
Second, it is best to eat from your mouth, even if there is only one bite. One bite at a time is better than rehydration. Try to eat less. Now she eats two meals an hour. Although she is still spitting, she is still working hard for her children. It's really not easy.
The third is hospitalization, correction of dehydration, antiemetic treatment, and maintenance of fetal nutritional status.
Now she's just lying in bed, hydrating and doing nothing, which scares us unmarried people. It is not easy to realize morning sickness once, not to mention other examinations during pregnancy and the nutrition of the child. In this period of pregnancy, pregnant women and babies are the most special and need to take good care and rest.
Well, that's what I'm talking about. I hope everyone can get pregnant smoothly and give birth to a healthy baby, because pregnancy is not easy, and I hope all your baby dads can be more considerate of Ma Bao's difficulties and get through this difficulty together.
Life at the delivery room door is different. The most beautiful sentence is "Mother and child are safe". When it hit your heart, I was a midwife, sharing what I learned and what I met.
I am a nanny of two children, and I still remember when I was pregnant.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, it was already more than two months later. At that time, it was mainly dizziness, drowsiness and loss of appetite. If I eat too much, I will vomit. I didn't expect a cold, and I ate some healthy water. Soon after the confirmation, the road of morning sickness began, and it was sour and refreshing until 5 months. I'm still a little scared [wronged] when I think about it now. During the period, I also had a fetal dream, dreaming that my daughter was abducted, and my husband rode a bicycle to recover it desperately. My daughter is sitting in the basket with watery eyes looking at me. After she was born, her eyes were really big and watery. Maybe I am a pig. I like to sleep [money] during the whole pregnancy, but I can't sleep well and my waist is very sour. I don't particularly want to eat sour or spicy food. I don't eat much, my daughter's stomach is also big, and her weight has increased by about 40 pounds.
Having a son is a similar symptom. After five months of pregnancy, I vomited and had a fetal dream of a snake (it is said that the snake gave birth to a boy). My appetite increased greatly and my back pain was lighter than the first child.
At the beginning of pregnancy, because of progesterone, I have no appetite to eat, and I dare not eat the heavy food I usually like. When I brush my teeth, I feel very sick. Don't brush your teeth after eating, otherwise what I eat is equivalent to not eating (throwing up). In the middle and late stage, because the stomach gets bigger, the body will be obviously heavier than before, so it will be very tired after walking for a long time. The most troublesome thing is that when I wash my hair, I can't bend over to wash it. I have to stand up straight. I don't want the most painful thing to be sleeping. I was going to prepare some oxygen bottles for my bed, because I would fall asleep and get dizzy if I couldn't breathe well. Changing positions sideways every time is a difficult task, and the frequency of going to the toilet is very high. I have to go to bed and toilet three or four times almost a night. Can I sleep well? And I have to get up early to go to work the next morning. I think it's really hard when I'm pregnant, and I finally got through it! It is also safely uninstalled! Being a mother means being strong. I wish all expectant mothers a smooth and safe time!
This pregnancy belongs to the older second child. I didn't feel well during pregnancy, but I didn't throw up much, just I didn't feel energetic all day. In the middle and late period, I always woke up around four in the morning, didn't have a good rest and felt uncomfortable all over. Take a few steps, you need to breathe for a long time, especially in the later stage, turn over at night and breathe. I can't breathe every day. There is always phlegm in my throat, and sleeping at night will block my throat. At the age of seventy or eighty, I feel like an asthmatic. Snoring, apnea. Depressed every day. Always take a deep breath, or you will feel lack of oxygen. These problems are all cured after giving birth.
Personally, I can't enjoy two hobbies in my life. One is to drink coffee; The second is smoking. There are also skyrocketing weight, sweating easily, leg cramps in the middle of the night, and various postures are uncomfortable when sleeping. Work is also affected, and the boss alienates you and doesn't invite you to dinner. I want you to resign and leave quickly. ...
Although I gave birth to two babies, the pregnancy process was not easy, but it was different.
When I was pregnant with Dabao, my classmate just got pregnant and had to go to the hospital for infusion to supplement nutrition. When I was pregnant, I was afraid that I didn't have the symptoms of other mothers vomiting. I could eat and drink, but I saw redness in the third week of pregnancy, but my stomach didn't hurt. I had to have an abortion at home, and then I took progesterone for three months because progesterone was oily.
But then I passed all the way and nothing happened.
When I was pregnant with Bauer, I was not so happy because I was pregnant unexpectedly. At that time, menstruation always came a little, and my stomach was still rising. I thought it was irregular menstruation, but I didn't take it seriously. As a result, it happened in two months, and I was afraid it was a gynecological disease. I was really nervous. In fact, I feel a little sick when I eat in the car, but I didn't expect the pregnant place. Later, I went to gynecology to have a pregnancy test. The doctor directly asked me to draw blood for pregnancy test. At first glance, more than 200,000 HCG were directly bombarded to obstetric examination. Later, except for the morning sickness in the first three months, the whole pregnancy process went smoothly, insisting on going to work until 37 weeks. You know, I have to take a bus for four hours every day. Now that I think about it, Bauer is also quite strong.
During pregnancy, every expectant mother will experience all kinds of difficulties, but every mother has also turned into a super girl, and all kinds of upgrades on the way to pregnancy will be blamed until they are unloaded. So every expectant mother must be strong, because you are the patron saint of the baby!
I vomited three months before pregnancy, and I have no spirit at all. By 456, I have been much more comfortable in these three months. Everything smells good, you can eat and sleep, your stomach is not too big, and you can move freely. In recent months, my stomach has grown very fast, accompanied by edema, inconvenient movement and poor sleep. What I can't stand most is the pain and discomfort in my genitals, and I often have to go to the toilet at night because my stomach is pressing my bladder, but everyone's situation is different. In short, it is not easy for every mother, not easy during pregnancy, not easy after childbirth, and not easy to take care of the baby. May all mothers be healthy, safe and happy.
Answer: I have been there before. I can only say that pregnant women have too many difficulties.
For me, first of all, physically, I am pregnant, I can't come during my menstrual period, progesterone secretion is too high, and various skin problems follow, such as acne and large pores. Nose enlargement During ..................................................................................................................'s pregnancy, she had pregnancy reaction at first, dizziness, headache, morning sickness, and the food she ate was not fragrant. It can be said that eating at this time and vomiting at that time are really painful. Don't eat, I'm afraid the baby will have no nutrition. At first, the doctor said that progesterone was low. In order to protect the fetus, I have to take medicine and injections every day. I ran to the hospital every day for more than half a month, and my ass was hard. As the baby grows up day by day, the uterus grows bigger and bigger, which has been oppressing the bladder. I often have to go to the toilet for half an hour, especially in the middle of winter, which is particularly cold. ...
Secondly, mentally, I am pregnant. I must be very careful in order to keep my baby healthy. I can't do this or that I'm always afraid and nervous. I am always afraid that my baby is short of vitamins and calcium, so I need to make up and eat some foods that I don't like. In addition, I used to care about fitness, and I also paid great attention to slimming. When I am pregnant, I can only eat more for the baby's nutrition, and I don't care about losing weight at all. I have to be fat in the later stage ... I can only say that it is really not easy to get pregnant. Only mother is good in the world.