If you want to be strong in the face of difficulties, the way is not to "endure" tears, but your heart can really bear it! If you are really strong, then you will not cry in the face of difficulties, instead of "forbearing" your tears with your strength.

Your character is not strong enough because you have experienced too little, undertaken too little and had too many smooth sailing. Our generation of only children, parents spoil too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, when difficulties come, we will always hide behind them and watch them solve and bear. When they are old and have to do many things by themselves, we are used to being afraid.

No one is born strong, and strong people only know how to bear it after a lot. To be strong, you must know how to experience. When misfortune and pain really hit, it was very painful; The second time, maybe you will be better; The third time, maybe you learned to comfort yourself; The fourth time, maybe you start to calm down ... One day, when misfortune comes again, you stop crying, but think calmly and smile to comfort people who are as painful as you!

It is really strong not to give up on yourself. It is hard to be strong if you can admit your shortcomings. Modesty, hard work, integrity, kindness, compassion, remorse, pursuit, self-love and forgiveness. To learn to be strong, we must first learn to cherish ourselves. But giving up is the greatest strength. Dear friends, in fact, you are stronger than most people I know, because true strength is not the external performance of the body. Those who can maintain kindness, joy, peace, gentleness, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, patience and temperance are the truly strong. Many people think they are strong without crying or laughing, but that is actually the hardness after losing strength. Don't give up on yourself, let alone live by people's evaluation. You should know that our lives are far more important than what they see. Christ the Savior sacrificed himself for me. He said that wealth in the whole world is not as important as a person's soul. So you should know how important you are. Although many people actually live less, you can't live without it. The value of your life is not estimated by yourself, let alone by others, but by the Lord Jesus. He is willing to give up glory and even life.

In fact,

Some of us can't control the direction, but at least we can adjust the sails.

Some things are beyond our control, but at least we can adjust our mood.

Being strong is one of the ways to adjust your mood and make yourself happier.

No one wants to live a miserable life every day. If you can make yourself happy, why not be strong, but if your strength doesn't bring you happiness, then you can give up being strong. After all, happiness is the ultimate goal.

Leave your dependence. I don't believe that you are not strong if you work hard in society alone. If you are not strong, you will starve to death. The average person's desire for survival is greater than everything else. At that time, you were not strong, strong.

These are just some materials. You can give an example according to some facts in your life.