He can guide men and women in love and bring them temperature.

Morphy hosted If You Are the One 10 year. In the face of so many beautiful women,

But I have never been tempted, and I have always kept zero gossip.

As the host of the dating show, Murphy has helped countless people solve their emotional problems.

In my own feelings and marriage life, I adhere to the concept of "simplicity is true and simplicity is bliss".

He married his first love at the age of 2 1 and only dated one person in his life.

0 1

Murphy 197 1 was born in Chongqing, and he is an out-and-out "mountain boy".

His parents are both engaged in the radio and television industry and transferred to Xi TV station very early.

Therefore, young Murphy grew up with her grandmother.

Murphy's childhood in Chongqing was smooth and happy.

When Murphy 12 years old,

His parents moved to Nanjing because of their jobs, so they took him over.

Murphy was ecstatic and finally reunited with his parents.

But soon, he was under the pressure of his parents' strict education.

"Study hard" is the mantra of parents.

Looking forward to their children becoming Jackie Chan, they have very high requirements and expectations for Morphy.

By his parents' side, Murphy never lived as freely as before.

As the saying goes, twisted melon is not sweet,

Although his parents were strict with him, Murphy didn't like studying since he was a child.

The results are also very serious.

He is good at liberal arts and won the first place in the composition competition in Nanjing.

But science is too poor to pass the passing line.

So it is not surprising that Morphy failed in the college entrance examination.

Morphy, 18 years old, left the society early without going to college.

He has set up stalls, worked as a security guard, delivered water and lived by coolies.

199 1, Morphy overheard that the printing factory under Jiangsu Radio and Television Station was recruiting people.

He thought it was a stable job, so he signed up as a printer.

Murphy would never have thought,

After many years, I will counterattack and become a brother of Jiangsu Satellite TV.

The working environment of the printing factory is very poor, full of dust and waste gas.

And the monthly salary is only a few tens of dollars.

At this time, Morphy finally understood the importance of academic qualifications.

But I don't have a diploma, so I have to continue to work in the printing factory.

Until a serious work injury changed Murphy's life trajectory.

One day, Morphy just finished the night shift, cleaned the machine and was ready to go home.

Unexpectedly, he accidentally got his hand stuck in a roller that could only hold A4 paper thickness.

Murphy later recalled that "blood spurted out like a special effect of a martial arts film",

Murphy held his almost squashed hand and twisted it painfully.

Even after returning to China for two months, he still has a lingering fear of this experience.

When Murphy returned to his post, the factory fired him because he was not suitable for the job.

In those gloomy days, Murphy thought he was a complete failure.

I didn't go to college, and I lost my job in the printing factory because of this work injury.

He always thinks, "am I going to live like this in my life?" Where is the way out? "

Just when Murphy was unhappy, a girl appeared, bringing him warmth and sunshine.

In fact, as early as in middle school, Murphy had a crush on a girl in her class, Sydney.

Sydney is a native of Nanjing, gentle and sweet.

Murphy didn't dare to delay others' study, so he kept this secret love in his heart.

After graduating from high school, Sydney went to work in the business system.

Morphy often feels estranged from her, and the distance between them seems to be getting farther and farther.

But what Murphy doesn't know is that Sydney has always appreciated his literary talent and humor.

When Betty learned that Murphy was injured at work, she immediately came to comfort him.

I also took the initiative to show my mind to Murphy.

Murphy was both surprised and timid. He asked, "There are so many excellent boys outside, why do you like me?"

Betty looked Murphy in the eye seriously and replied, "I have liked you for a long time." In fact, you are very talented and have a good personality. You should also have confidence in yourself. " .

After listening to Betty's words, Murphy's throat was filled with joy.

The two also confirmed their love relationship.

With Betty's encouragement, Murphy also cheered up.

He comforted himself with the spirit of Ah Q, because there is always a place to shine.

Therefore, he intends to take the adult college entrance examination to make up for his lack of diploma.

At the same time, I will work hard for the future of two people.

Murphy, who got good grades in Chinese since childhood, was admitted to the Chinese Department of Nanjing Normal University.

He studied hard and accumulated a lot of literary knowledge.

It also laid the foundation for him to talk and laugh in the programs he hosted in the future.

At the same time, with the help of his parents, Murphy entered the sports group of Jiangsu TV Station as a temporary worker.

He didn't get the chance to host immediately, but became a cameraman.

But I finally started my journalism career.

Before that, Morphy actually had no photographic experience.

But in order to make himself competent, he studied hard and asked his predecessors for advice.

Running errands, answering phones, carrying equipment and tripods, rushing to do all the hard work,

Therefore, I have accumulated a good relationship in Taiwan Province and gained the appreciation of the leaders.

1993, Morphy finally got the college diploma.

This also gave him confidence. He doesn't want to be a handyman in Taiwan Province all the time.

He always stays at his desk after others get off work, watching videos repeatedly and taking notes.

Almost became the last person to stay in Taiwan Province.

Murphy studies hard, and Betty supports him behind his back.

Sometimes he works late into the night in Taiwan Province.

Betty came to him with a midnight snack. After eating, they rode home together.

Murphy was still a poor boy at that time. In order to make him look good in Taiwan Province,

Sydney often uses her salary to buy him suits and leather shoes.

Although those days were hard, they were also sweet.

Although only in their early twenties, they have deep feelings and know each other.

That year, Murphy got up the courage to propose to Betty.

He couldn't afford a ring, but he cooked a table full of food.

He said to Betty, "although I have nothing now, please marry me."

We will redouble our efforts to make us live a better life in the future. "

Sydney nodded and said, "I believe you".

In this way, two young people got married when they had nothing for each other.

Although their feelings do not have enough material foundation, they are still firm.

After getting married, Murphy worried that there would be friction when his daughter-in-law lived with her parents.

So I want to move out and rent a house with Betty.

But Sydney disagreed: "we don't have this economic condition, so we can save it." We will live with your parents and I will respect them. "

The gentle and virtuous Betty is a very filial daughter-in-law.

Not only does she always take the initiative to do housework, but she also gets along well with Murphy's parents.

When Murphy's parents take a nap, she will walk around the house in socks.

Gently avoid affecting their rest,

Murphy's parents also like Betty very much, and the family is happy.

With a home, Murphy is more motivated to work.

02

1994 after two years of hard work,

Morphy was recognized by the whole station and successfully became a full-time worker of Jiangsu Satellite TV.

Finally found a stable job, but Murphy hasn't settled down yet.

He wants to make programs independently and become a producer.

That year, he worked as a cameraman in the large-scale documentary "The Customs of the Western Regions" of the Ministry of Culture.

This documentary also participated in the international exchange that year.

Murphy's dedication and talent left a deep impression on the leaders of Taiwan Province.

After work, I teach myself to write, direct and write articles, and my ability is outstanding.

In the 1995 sports documentary Towards Atlanta,

Murphy served as a screenwriter, director and chief photographer for the first time and won the second prize of national sports TV.

His versatility in the field of radio and television has gradually emerged.

You can complete a whole set of work from writing, shooting and interviewing to editing and dubbing by yourself.

A little famous in Jiangsu Satellite TV.

1997, Murphy is on the right track,

His wife Betty also surprised him and gave birth to her daughter Meng Xingya.

Murphy regards this daughter as the apple of her eye.

However, the work of TV stations is increasing day by day, and efforts are still needed.

I don't have much time to accompany and take care of my daughter at home.

Murphy's parents are still working,

The burden of taking care of her daughter falls on Betty's shoulders.

Sydney resigned after giving birth to her daughter.

I am at home as a full-time wife, taking care of my daughter and doing housework wholeheartedly.

Although Betty doesn't have to go to work, she is busier at home than at work.

Every morning at six o'clock, before the children get up,

She will get up early to prepare breakfast for her family before going out.

After the child gets up, she will be with the child all day.

Morphy's income was not high at that time.

You need to be careful if you want to support your wife and daughter and support your family.

Sydney is also a thrifty woman.

Sometimes Murphy and her in-laws send holiday condolences, and she always leaves them behind.

I will give it to my parents and relatives as a gift when I return to my parents' home during the Spring Festival.

In order to reduce the cost of some gifts,

When Murphy gives a bonus and wants to buy Betty a present, she often refuses.

He said to him, "The child is still young, so we have to leave some flowers for the child."

In 2002, Murphy's career ushered in an important turning point.

Morphy, who has performed well in large-scale events and programs for several years in a row,

Boldly activated by the leader of Taiwan Province, he decided to tailor a TV program for him.

Murphy later said, "If you want to meet Bole, you must first be a swift horse".

In this program called Nanjing Zero Distance,

Murphy refreshed the audience with his sharp views and outspoken hosting style.

Almost subverted people's cognition of traditional livelihood programs.

After the launch of Nanjing Zero Distance, it became the most watched TV news program in Jiangsu.

Morphy, 3 1 year-old, began to shine.

He is very popular, and he also set up a comment column on "Morphy reading newspapers" in the program.

Murphy, who has always been witty and talkative, shines brightly in the post of host.

It was also in this year that Murphy finally saved enough money to buy a house.

I moved out of my parents' house with Betty and my daughter, and officially lived a family of three.

Seeing her husband finally succeed, Betty felt happy and gratified.

But Murphy's parents are a little reluctant to let Betty move out.

In their hearts, this daughter-in-law is as kind as a daughter.

After living under the same roof for so many years, they all saw Sydney's filial piety and kindness.

When he moved away, Murphy's mother said to him, "Betty is a good child, so you must be kind to others." ,

After that, I shed tears.

Sydney also took Murphy's mother's hand and said, "We will definitely come back to see you often." .

After the young couple moved away, Murphy's mother often brought some delicious food from home to see them.

Sydney is also very wise to keep this small family in good order.

In her spare time, she often goes to Murphy's parents' house.

If anything happens, Betty is also busy dealing with it.

She always said, "Murphy is busy at work now, so don't let him worry about things at home." ,

With such a good wife,

When Murphy works hard, he will have no worries.

03

Nanjing Zero Distance made Murphy famous in World War I, but it also brought him many "psychological shadows".

After hosting the live news for nine years, Murphy felt exhausted.

Because in these nine years, he worked under high pressure every day.

Writing and recording day and night, especially the daily news commentary of 1000 words, is very torturous.

Murphy said frankly, "I only took a vacation once in those nine years, and I was often awakened by dreams in the middle of the night." ,

Such intense work led to Murphy's hair loss.

So that when he starred in "If You Are the One", he simply shaved his head.

If You Are the One is the second important turning point in Murphy's career.

At this time, Murphy already had the experience of hosting livelihood programs and enough literary literacy.

In the program, his street flavor and literary flavor complement each other.

He can always find the bright spots in every guest keenly and express his views sharply.

Perhaps it is God's blessing that Murphy's role in If You Are the One is irreplaceable.

This program has become a well-known classic TV program.

Memories of youth also belong to many people.

After "If You Are the One" became famous,

Numerous TV stations have launched similar blind date programs.

But most of them were eliminated by the market after a period of time.

Only "If You Are the One" hosted by Morphy has been doing well.

The "iron triangle" composed of Murphy, Le Jia and Han Huang is becoming more and more popular.

Morphy's hosting career reached its peak.

Later, he hosted dating programs such as "New Dating Conference" and "90 Matchmaking".

Became a brother of Jiangsu Satellite TV.

In the program, Murphy is a famous host. He talks about Kan Kan with a halo on his head.

When he came home, he was an ordinary husband and father.

Murphy understands that his wife has also contributed to his success through years of hard work.

If Betty didn't take good care of him and his daughter and manage the family affairs so well,

I can't have the light and heat today,

Murphy is very grateful to Betty for her hard work over the years.

He always said to her, "You have worked hard. I will leave all my money to you in the future, and I will listen to you. "

And Betty has been with Murphy for so many years, and it's never about money.

Instead of spending money lavishly, she spent all her money on training her daughter.

Sydney educated her daughter Meng Xingya very well. She has been a child with excellent academic performance since childhood.

20 15 Meng Xingya graduated from Nanjing Foreign Languages School and went to study in the United States.

Betty has never been stingy with Murphy's parents.

After the economic conditions are good, she often buys expensive health care products for her parents.

I will also take my mother-in-law to soak in hot springs and travel together.

After retirement, my parents often go to the hospital because of poor health.

It was Betty who accompanied them personally and helped them.

When Murphy was under pressure to host the show,

Sydney always gives him a glass of milk before going to bed.

She persisted in this habit for more than ten years.

04

In 2020, Murphy and his wife Sydney were walking down the street together.

Encountered by netizens and took photos.

At this time, both of them are 50 years old, and Betty's face has many traces of years.

Coupled with her simple dress, she looks like an ordinary housewife.

Many netizens said that Murphy now has a successful career and his wife's status is too unequal.

Said he chose to be with his wife because of duty, which is not love.

Murphy immediately retorted, "I love my wife very much. We are a husband and wife who share joys and sorrows. Without her, there would be no me now. " ,

Later, Murphy was invited to participate in the "Covenant between Lu and Yu". When recording a day's trip,

I also specially introduced Sydney to everyone, and the two seem to have a very good relationship.

Enough to show his wife's position in Murphy's heart.

When Murphy was asked, why did he choose to fall in love only once in his life?

He compared the experience of two uncles buying refrigerators.

Say: "Not after you choose and choose, your happiness will be higher. Sometimes what you see at first sight is what suits you best. "

Morphy has always adhered to the simple and ordinary concept in her relationship.

As a host for so many years, I have also faced countless beautiful guests and stars.

However, his heart can only hold his wife at home all the time, and he will never leave after a great success.

Murphy and his wife have gone through ups and downs hand in hand for 20 years and never had any scandals. For so many beautiful women in If You Are the One, all he thinks about is his wife.

Now, they live a happy family of three with their adult daughter.

Murphy is no longer absorbed in his work as before.

At the age of 50, he now knows more about the importance of family.

The host has also become an ordinary job for him.

Now he wants to go home from work on time and stay happily with his wife and daughter.

Get together with friends occasionally and have a drink. This is the life he wants.

Morphy once said that "a man who doesn't love his family and wife is a man with low emotional intelligence",

And he only loves one person in his life and only talks about love once in his life.

It also proved sincerity and singleness with actions.

We also wish Murphy a happy family and a successful career.