Now this situation, give you an analysis:
1, you invite a friend to your home, and after telling your boyfriend, he invites other friends to your home. There are several possibilities for him to do so:
A Your friend is a friend, his friend is also a friend, and his friend is still a friend, so he feels nothing;
B He is crazy about mahjong these days, and it's really hard not to play for one night.
C he forgot;
D friend wants to play, because he has played in your house before, and he can't refuse.
But whatever the reason, from my bystander's point of view, he did something wrong.
2. Women should not nag too much, especially when friends are around. Although I can understand your feelings, I can also understand his feelings. And in that kind of excitement, your words may be a little intense.
I don't think you're doing very well at this point. Nagging can be annoying. Even if you have reason to be angry, it will make him angry and make your reasons disappear.
3, he hit you, this must be his fault, all wet! I also strongly believe that a man like BS will be allowed to kneel and rub the washboard when he has the chance in the future! No washboard? Use CPU instead!
4. You call him back until it causes PK? I can't see if you did it right, but I can see that you are so stupid! He is a big man, you PK with him? Don't you feel bad unless you are better than him or ask a few sisters for help? I can understand your feelings at that time, but I hope you can control your emotions in the future, otherwise you will always be passive.
He and his friends often come to your house all night, which affects your rest with your neighbors. Did you tell him? If not, then you are also responsible. However, it can be seen from this that your boyfriend is a little self-centered and doesn't care much about others (including you), but this may be his character (it doesn't mean that he loves you or not, but it is possible that you love him because such a person is cool).
He ran away from home and didn't come back all night, which gave you time and space to calm down, so you can't say that he did anything wrong. Maybe you will complain that he doesn't give you any news, which worries you, but think of two people who have just finished fighting. He will tell you, "Honey, I'm very angry tonight, and I'm going to run away from home"? Besides, he didn't come back all night, and he was not contacted until noon the next day. One thing is certain, you take the initiative to contact him, which means that you have forgiven him, whether he is right or wrong. And he doesn't answer your phone, which means he hasn't forgiven you (in his eyes, you must have done something wrong).
After the analysis, let's talk about emotional problems. Sometimes you can't find right or wrong. What you see may be wrong in his eyes, and what he sees may not be wrong in your eyes. Different positions will lead to different conclusions. If two people want to be together for a long time, they should consider the problem from each other's point of view. Don't pursue who is right and who is wrong, it is important to find out the reasons for right and wrong.
Let's analyze the future development of things:
Judging from your performance, you care about your boyfriend very much, so the following analysis is based on the premise that you will no longer get even with him. If you still want to find someone to beat you back, then you don't have to look down.
If he comes back, there are two reasons:
One is that he is not angry; The other is that the more he thinks about it, the more angry he gets, and he comes back to get even with you.
The former, he should apologize to you as soon as he comes back, at least he will say that he is wrong, and then you will say that you are wrong and ask him to forgive you, and it will be OK;
In the latter case, he may say that he has a problem, but mainly you are wrong. You shouldn't do this or that, or what you did before and what you are doing now. At this time, you have two choices: A, you can admit what he said, but if so, the future will be difficult; He said you were wrong. If you think you are wrong from both sides, you should admit your mistake. If he only considers the problem from his point of view and ignores your feelings, you can let him put himself in his shoes. If he knows how to put himself in his shoes, then don't say anything. Choose the first place or give up. There are still many good men in this world.
After analyzing the situation of his return, there are two reasons why he does not return:
One is that he is still angry, and the other is that he can't let go of his face.
Either way, the first thing you have to do is to find out where he is (note the premise: you are not angry). You can call him. If he doesn't answer or even turn off his phone, it means that he is still in the first situation: angry! Otherwise, he will walk down the steps. If he is still angry, you can go to his friend and see if he is there (pay attention to the way) until you find him (if you find him, you will make yourself angry, then don't find him, otherwise it will only make you even angrier). Find out where he is, if he doesn't come back, give him more time to think, don't push him until he comes back. After he came back, he returned to the analysis of "if he comes back" just now.
The analysis of "he can't come back" is over.
In this case, it is impossible to see his parents. Of course, it is also possible that he is a dutiful son. Think of those guys who temporarily rent boyfriends back to work. This possibility is quite large. But if you want 100% unchanged, you'd better solve your current problem first.
Whether we can still be together, we will know if we can still be together after solving the previous problems.
You don't know what to do? Then do what you should do, eat when you should eat, sleep when you should sleep, and don't lose weight because of this. Of course, if you happen to have a plan to lose weight, that's fine.
Oh, I didn't see your problem until I wrote this. . . I don't want to answer him yet. . . ",it seems that I do useless, vomiting blood. . . .
Tips for knowing letters:
Going home tonight?
There was no ice last night, was there?
I caught a cold last night.
Hurry up, go home and wash the dishes, there are no bowls to eat!
XXX, your wife wants you to go home for dinner! (Note: XXX is your boyfriend's name)
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