Reminds me of her seven-year relationship with Guo Tianwang, and then think about the scene of Guo Tianwang marrying a "sister-in-law".
It is really a silent sigh. It's all right now. It's nice not to marry someone who doesn't cherish you.
Once she reminded me of the lyrics of Happy Break Up:
Love can be moved by joy, without asking right or wrong.
If he always holds an umbrella for others, why are you waiting for him in the rain?
Now she reminds me of the following lyrics:
In fact, Valentine's Day is celebrated for the right person every day.
Just like the portrayal of her happiness now.
At that time, Xiong Dailin sent an Weibo: I shouldn't be too sensible, and it will become a matter of course after a long time.
How many men and women in love are deeply moved by this sentence.
The girl who had a crazy time may have given everything to others but no one cherished it.
That drug addict may have lost all his money, but all he got was "no chance, no see"
Jiao Jiao is a girl with a story.
Jiao Jiao has been with a boy since junior high school, even though his parents stopped him.
Jiao Jiao is not beautiful and has a bad temper, but the boy is simple and beautiful, and his feelings are warm and sincere.
In the end, Jiao Jiao, like countless girls, changed from a casual attempt to having to be him.
In this way, they went through high school, college and graduation. Although we quarreled countless times, we made up quickly and never really blushed.
Someone joked that the seven-year itch is a definite score.
Some people solemnly say that you must get married, and I rely on you to believe in love.
Love is like drinking water.
Jiao Jiao doesn't care that others bet on breaking up and say that they believe in love.
Because only she knows what kind of feelings she has left over the years.
So they graduated from college,
Jiao Jiao said, "As long as you don't go to Beijing, we can go anywhere, and it doesn't matter if we earn less.
You want to stay in the south, I'll go to the south. You want to go home, we'll go home. "
Because of heredity, Jiao Jiao's respiratory tract is not good, so she can't accept the air in Beijing.
My boyfriend also said, "I'm not going to that place in Beijing, so I'm going to stay in the south."
Jiao Jiao is very happy and full of longing for the future in which two people will struggle together.
After graduation, Jiao Jiao packed her bags, prepared to go home first, and then went to her boyfriend's city to find him.
As a result, her boyfriend returned to his hometown a week early. Jiao Jiao thought that her boyfriend must have come to meet her, and she was very happy.
Until one day, I suddenly found a plane ticket to Beijing in my boyfriend's wallet.
Jiao Jiao paused and asked her boyfriend, "Didn't you say you wouldn't go to Beijing?"
My boyfriend replied, "My family asked me to go to Beijing and said that my sister was there for easy care."
Finally, Jiao Jiao found an internship job alone in the city where she graduated from college. During this period, my boyfriend tried all kinds of persuasion and begged for forgiveness.
He also talked a lot about their future plans and always flew in to accompany Jiao Jiao. Jiao Jiao finally compromised and went to Beijing.
Jiao Jiao can't adapt to the air year after year. He always coughs badly and even takes medicine.
Every day in the morning rush hour, my shoes and skirts are trampled. So year after year passed.
Slowly, Jiao Jiao changed from a grumpy girl to a professional woman, and interns and leaders argued endlessly.
Jiao Jiao's boyfriend once said with a smile:
"When you come to Beijing, I will support you, including food and shelter."
I Raise You is actually a beautiful love story. Jiao Jiao was very moved at that time.
Jiao Jiao thought that when her boyfriend was in college, she spent several months making instant noodles just to fly to see her and take her on a trip.
The pressure in Beijing is too great. Jiao Jiao can't bear the hard work of her boyfriend, and she also has her own pursuits.
Therefore, from her boyfriend's own rent, Jiao Jiao tried to rent AA from her boyfriend.
I don't want to pressure my boyfriend. When a boyfriend sees a friend get married and occasionally laments how much it costs,
Jiao Jiao also comforted: "I don't want you to buy a car or a house when I get married, as long as that person is you."
Later, slowly, Jiao Jiao spent more and more money.
When her boyfriend occasionally said that she didn't have enough money, Jiao Jiao bought everything by herself.
Electronic products from boyfriends to home toilet paper.
And the enthusiastic boy, also slowly become indifferent.
I forgot my holiday and bought a flower or a box of chocolates.
Even during the Double Eleven, Jiao Jiao paid directly for what her boyfriend wanted to buy.
My boyfriend said afterwards, I'll give it to you 1200. I see you bought a few things, so I won't give you a few hundred.
Jiao Jiao can't understand at the moment. In fact, Jiao Jiao thought she could pay, but her boyfriend said so, which made her feel very uncomfortable.
But in this way, Jiao Jiao still felt tolerable and comforted himself by saying
"We are all older, together for more than ten years. We will not fall in love, which is normal. "
This year, Jiao Jiao is 28 years old, and she thinks it's time to talk to her boyfriend about getting married.
Or don't want a car, don't want a house, don't need any money, just two people simply have a meal and get a certificate.
In terms of family, Jiao Jiao can convince himself that Jiao Jiao has been resisting all family pressures for so many years.
Whether it is marriage promotion or marriage experience, Jiao Jiao always makes up his mind that as long as this person, money is not important, can work together.
Jiao Jiao thinks her boyfriend will be happy to marry her, and they can save money slowly in the future.
It doesn't matter if you can't afford a house in Beijing. You can buy it together in your hometown, dreaming that you can have a dog when the conditions are good.
But her boyfriend's attitude broke all Jiao Jiao's illusions.
Boyfriend said, "I haven't decided yet ..."
They have been together for 14 years, 14 years is enough to let you know a person deeply.
Enough to let you know how much meaning is hidden behind this person's words ...
Jiao Jiao seems to suddenly understand that after so many years, the veil of self-deception has been lifted.
Jiao Jiao still didn't believe it, and always wanted to know the real reason, even though she had already felt it.
Finally, my boyfriend told the truth, "I dare not marry you. I never wanted to marry you. I'm afraid of the days after I marry you. "
Jiao Jiao said, "Are you going to break up?"
The boyfriend said, "No, I didn't think about it."
However, if we don't break up, tomorrow is the future. What is the difference? Isn't tomorrow "the day after tomorrow" ...
Jiao Jiao finally understood that all her "feelings" over the years had created this child who never seemed to grow up since junior high school.
This child, he doesn't know the responsibility, he doesn't know the growth, and he doesn't even know how to cherish it. ...
Besides, she is no longer the child in junior high school ... She is 28 years old. ...
Their relationship is really like Weibo in Xiong Dailin: I shouldn't be too sensible, and it will become a matter of course after a long time.
I don't know if Jiao Jiao's boyfriend really loves her. All I know is that she is unhappy.
Jiao Jiao wanted to break up with her boyfriend, and then he agreed to get married. Jiao Jiao said that there were no waves in her heart.
She just wants to be happy, but now she has lost the ability to feel happy.
Because in more than ten years of life, that person has changed a lot, and she can't accept it, but she has to force herself to accept it like an adult.
To make a choice, to make a decision, as if a person is split in two, that mature and sophisticated self laughs at that desire for love.
Finally, Jiao Jiao chose to travel alone. After wandering in the north for so many years, Jiao Jiao never rested.
I have been working hard, because she knows that the future of herself and her boyfriend needs two people to work together.
Today, however, she doesn't know why she is trying, because that person is gone.
She went to a strange city alone, watching the pedestrians coming and going and the rainy sky.
She suddenly felt it didn't matter. Love doesn't ask right or wrong, and the ending is always sad and happy. Whether it is sadness or happiness, it is an unforgettable and beautiful memory.
She knows how to deal with this problem and how to face this man. ...
No questions asked.