1, lie down. This is my first thought. Lying in bed or anywhere else will make people lazy, relaxed and happy. Just a few scenes:
On the blue sea and blue sky beach, there are comfortable rattan chairs under a row of big awnings. You can wear sunglasses and lie comfortably on one of the loungers. Is it comfortable?
In a hotel in Hong Kong, the big bed is next to the floor-to-ceiling glass, and the beautiful urban buildings outside the window are unobstructed. You are wearing a white bathrobe and lying on a soft white bed.
In a two-story restaurant in Monaco, there is a circle of short columns around the rooftop on the second floor, and a circle of fallen rice is paved along the short columns. The dining table is placed on it, and just a few recliners and pillows are seats. Just lying on it, drinking local coffee and milk tea, watching the scenery outside the window …
2. read a book. Paper books yyds. But I like the smell of ink in paper books, which is comparable to the smell of gasoline in gas stations (how many people like me, raise your hand quickly. )
In the corner of the balcony, I sat on the couch next to a whole French window, drinking a cup of warm ginger tea, turning the pages gently, and the years were quiet.
Step 3 take a walk. I am really lucky to be born in Hainan, a beautiful island, and live in Haikou, a livable city. In this place, walking around is the best exercise. Besides, I don't feel tired walking in Tuo. All you can see is the scenery, and you can walk for half a day, let alone ten kilometers.
Go all the way along Binhai Avenue, either the park or the sea view. You can also go to the arcade to feel the Nanyang style, and climbing the mountain in the crater geological park is another taste. ...
4. Sing. Occasionally, I feel that I sing well and fantasize about becoming famous. This feeling often happens when you think your voice is clear. It's strange that I always think I will be famous one day.
Of course, I want to sing, relax and decompress with my good friends. But I prefer to sing it myself, that is, to the bar at home. Of course, every time I finish singing, I can't help but be beaten back to reality. The level is really amateur.
When I was in college more than ten years ago, there was a ranking online-"Loneliness Index Ranking". From the first level to the tenth level, a list of what a person has done is given. It seems that the first level is to go to the supermarket alone, and the tenth level is to have surgery alone. Going to KTV to sing alone seems to rank sixth. In a word, I haven't made this table except 10 grade. The operation must be accompanied, otherwise I think I will do it myself.
It was more than ten years ago, when I was in college, I sang in KTV next to the school. Loneliness is definitely loneliness, but it is also a great happiness to immerse yourself wholeheartedly in music. I wonder, if I was born in this era, if I recorded the video of myself singing alone and sent it to a certain tone, would I gain some friends to chat with and dispel the loneliness at that time?
5, massage. Why is there such a comfortable way of entertainment? It makes me feel guilty. Chinese massage, back massage, pedicure, ear gouging and other forms of massage are the core souvenirs of my life.
I remember a few years ago, a three-hour spa in Thailand cost more than RMB 1000. It's a massage room in a five-star hotel in Phuket. I remember that as soon as I entered the courtyard gate, I was arranged to put on comfortable flannel slippers, step on pebbles and cross a path to the wooden porch outside the massage room. There are two rattan sofas on the veranda, and there is a matching rattan table between the two sofas. Delicate snacks and tea have already been prepared on the table. Although I don't remember what I ate and drank, I remember that it tasted really good. The air is still filled with a delicious smell like agarwood.
Walking into the massage room, the decoration inside is full of Zen, simple but not simple, and the fragrance inside is slightly different from that outside, which makes people calm. I remember that there are several ways to massage, using essential oil and mud, and what else I don't remember. I can't remember the details. In short, I feel very professional and comfortable.
6. Stay in a hotel. My father, who grew up and traveled everywhere, stayed in many hotels. I don't have to stay in a five-star hotel. I also like cheaper homestays.
The best thing I inherited from my dad is probably that I don't recognize the bed. I can sleep soundly anywhere. I should be very suitable for wandering around like this. Instead, I feel homesick, which is very strange. So I'm wondering if short-term travel and staying in hotels everywhere can solve my inner contradictions.
7. Short trips. This is undoubtedly a kind of entertainment with a little economic threshold. Do you need a reason? The world is so big that I want to see it.
8. Find a friend who can make you feel happy and have a chat. Friends like me, although not in other places, don't often contact here.
My college roommate and best friend and I returned to our hometown after graduation. We only talk on the phone once every two or three years and talk for two or three hours at a time. Without strangeness, magic is not magic. Every time I talk on the phone, the chances are uncertain, such as which star I see like her and how she looks at me when I meet her …
When I was lovelorn a few years ago, I inexplicably thought of a netizen brother in Shanghai. I remember we didn't have much contact for half a year, but I don't know why I thought of him at that moment. I sent him messages and asked questions day and night for two whole days at the weekend, and he made an objective and calm analysis. Then on Monday, I dare not say that I am fully recovered, but at least it will not affect my work.
After a week like this, I will be fine, and my mouth is really not hard. I lost weight because I was lovelorn. I feel beautiful as soon as I lose weight. Then I began to be a demon in the circle of friends, taking some beautiful selfies from time to time, and even began to look forward to the next relationship. I am very grateful to this friend.
I usually brush some entertainment gossip and have something that touches me, so I really want to share it with my former colleagues and sisters in the local area. I think she is another emotionally stable me. We are both a little cold but very active, and like to be bystanders to analyze everything around us. They are all born little beauties, but they are very traditional emotionally. Accurately speaking, they are particularly fond of fantasy and demanding, which leads to a blank in their emotional experience.