society
Under the influence of public opinion, obesity seems to be an unacceptable sin in society. Fat people should take part in all kinds of slimming activities. Fat people must control their appetite and stay away from high-calorie foods. However, many "fat people" are out of control because of diseases, genetic defects and side effects of drugs, but society still attributes them to laziness.
Society exerts mental violence on everyone who is already obese or getting fat, calling them "losers". It seems that we have long fallen into this pattern: "We should show our best side to the world"-"Only in this way will the world be friendly to us"-"Then we will be very pleased". I don't mean to hit anyone, but this is really a serious lack of self-esteem. The popularity and proliferation of advertising images in the media make us think that this is the correct aesthetic in the world.
himself
Many girls think: thin = beautiful. They like to wear thin clothes and eat a little food in winter. They think it will make them look thinner, but they comfort themselves with snacks when they are hungry. In addition, boys seem to prefer girls with good figure, so the mate selection tendency of the opposite sex will also drive women to pursue thinness.
We have crazy high standards for our appearance and figure. When we take selfies, we spend a lot of time looking for our own satisfactory angle, and then use different special effects and filters. Some people go to Korea, liposuction, bone grinding, injections, make themselves unrecognizable, eat fat-reducing meals, and feel dizzy with hunger. In order to reach the "standard" and look like a star in a magazine, we try our best to torture ourselves, but it seems that we can never satisfy ourselves. Even if it is recognized at some time, our hearts are still full of inferiority and anxiety. Because we forget, we should learn to love ourselves first, not please others.
The pursuit of beauty is the innate right of human beings and admirable self-control. You can control your body and make your life healthier, instead of being kidnapped by universal social judgment standards. When we think that girls are fat and beautiful, don't think that thin girls are unhealthy. What we should learn is not to judge anyone by their weight, but to respect and trust their bodies, choose a comfortable figure and live in harmony with their bodies.
All girls have a long life, love their own advantages and lack of self-acceptance, grasp the scale of body management, and achieve the goal of body shaping soberly and healthily. No one can control your life.