When Dabao was still in my belly, I bought Yin Jianli's A Good Mother Is Better than a Good Teacher and studied it carefully, secretly vowing to be a patient and wise mother like Teacher Yin in the future.
Almost all the prenatal lectures held by the hospital have been there, and I often communicate with my mother about the precautions of giving birth to a baby, for fear that I am not a famous mother.
Almost every night, I will read ancient poems or tell stories to Dabao in my stomach, and let the father of the child participate.
When I was pregnant with Bauer, at the beginning of pregnancy, except for going to work every day, the rest of the time was vomiting and vomiting. It is no exaggeration to say that I woke up when I opened my eyes and vomited until I closed my eyes and went to sleep. Reading? Ouch. . . Communication? Ouch. . .
In the second trimester, I met the bankruptcy of the company project and didn't pay my salary for three months. Every day, I rush to the road with my colleagues with my newly swollen stomach. Reading ancient poems? The labor bureau has put it on record. Do you want to find an aid lawyer? Tell a story? Ya, this boss is also very unscrupulous, working hard and not giving money! Shit!
Finally, the salary is paid and the house is ready to be decorated. So, either run home with a big belly, or search online for all kinds of decoration experience to share, and run on-site supervision every once in a while. It takes at least 5 hours for the new house to go back and forth from the place where it lives. Dabao will be sent to kindergarten in the morning and will come back to pick him up after school in the afternoon. Reading ancient poems? Want to sleep. . . Tell a story? Want to sleep. . .
When the house is decorated, the expected date of delivery has arrived.
Occasionally, I feel a little guilty about Bauer. Compared with the treatment when I was pregnant with my younger brother, this is simply the best portrayal of my mother VS my stepmother.
So, while reading or telling bedtime stories with Dabao's parents, he secretly said to Bauer in his stomach: Baby, listen carefully, mom will tell stories. Perfect! Yeah!
After Dabao was born, he went through a series of processes such as jaundice hospitalization, breast abscess, weaning and lactation. Before he was born, he had to go to the hospital every day. By the time Dabao was full moon, I had succeeded in slimming down to be slimmer before pregnancy.
When Bauer was born, although the birth process was a bit slow, the mother and son were safe. The bitch was discharged from the hospital at the same time, stayed at home for 30 days before going downstairs, and finally had a real confinement. My mother has been whispering that giving birth to Dabao has suffered too much, and giving birth to a second child needs to be made up. At the full moon, adults and children are all fat in vain, which is festive.
When I brought Dabao, the Encyclopedia of Parenting written by Japanese pediatrician Mr. Daoxiong Matsuda was my parenting guide. The book gives a detailed explanation of the developmental characteristics, common symptoms and coping styles of infants from month to year. It can be said that it is a treasure book that novice mothers must start with.
Personally, I feel that this book is more rigorous and practical, and it has a very strong operability compared with various dazzling parenting apps and official WeChat accounts. It is definitely a centering needle for mothers to take care of their babies.
When Dabao was half a year old, he suddenly had a fever one day. At first, it was a low fever, no runny nose and no cough. I checked the parenting encyclopedia and said that this one-month-old baby will have a low fever because of teething, so just pay attention to observation.
One day later, Dabao changed from a low fever to a high fever, but he still had no symptoms such as runny nose and cough, and he cried for a day and a night. I checked the parenting encyclopedia again and found that the symptoms were similar to children's acute rash. The child will have a high fever for 3 days, and the whole body will have a rash. It will be fine if the rash subsides. There is no need to use drugs, but to use physical cooling.
After three days and nights of high fever, Dabao's body temperature dropped. I finally found several rashes on his head, and then rashes broke out on his limbs, chest and back. Sure enough, as the book said, the rash was gone, and it disappeared in about two days, and Dabao was alive and kicking again.
In the meantime, I hesitated to do what the book said, but I persisted when I saw that the baby's symptoms were exactly the same as those in the book.
Children's acute rashes mostly occur between 6 months and 2 years old. If the baby has an unexplained high fever, it is best to take it to the hospital for diagnosis. Generally, experienced doctors will not give drugs to children without knowing their condition. If you meet a young doctor, you can remind him whether to consider acute rash in children. If you don't see a doctor in time because of adults' inaccurate judgment, it will delay your illness and aggravate your illness.
It's much easier to take Bauer with you. From birth to half a year old, we are both healthy. Although there were some minor problems, such as diarrhea, Dabao also experienced it at that time. After taking the stool to the hospital for testing, there is no problem, so don't worry at all.
With Bauer, Dabao sticks to me more. So in order to accompany Dabao, I had to put Bauer on the bed or stroller, or directly on the ground, and let him play (zi) by (yu) (zi) and (le). So Bauer will turn over in three months, crawl in more than five months, sit in less than six months and stand on the sofa in more than seven months. The whole big exercise was advanced.
Since he can climb, Bauer has not only thoroughly explored his home, but also traveled all over the community. Are you worried about getting dirty? Never mind, just go home and take a shower. Are you worried that he ate a mess? It's okay. I'm watching.
When I brought it, I mainly referred to the official WeChat account of Wang He and Juzijun, where there were many dry goods. Coupled with some parenting experience with Dabao, it is basically a relatively relaxed state, even if it is a fever, a cold and a cough.
Bauer is a baby with personality. She has been reluctant to take medicine since she was a child. She doesn't eat sweet or bitter, even if she feeds her, she will spit it out. Don't eat, don't eat. Keep observing and drink plenty of water. I'll go with him as long as my condition doesn't get worse.
Dabao is a gentle child. He grew up drinking every mouthful of medicine, even a drop of bitter Chinese medicine.
Now, Dabao is a third-grade student, and Bauer is about to go to kindergarten. The two brothers are putting on a story of "love and killing each other" every day. I never want to be a judge.
Watching the two children grow up day by day, alive and energetic, those sleepless days, those tiredness and hard work will all disappear. Although I can't be an ideal good mother, I am satisfied because I can grow up.