However, in the whole drama, Luo Xiaobei is not wrong. She was one of the good guys。 From beginning to end, she has never discriminated against the Chunsheng family, let alone done anything wrong to them. With the interpretation of the plot, later, I felt a little sympathy for Beckham. Because, later Chunsheng became more and more out of tune, which was a bit disappointing. For example, after a conflict, I ran away alone, leaving my family and children behind. This is an irresponsible performance. Later, it was easy to divorce his wife for a woman who was sick because of her own injury. This is not what a good husband and father should do. What is even sadder is that Luo Beckham finally got a kidney of his own for this marriage.
Throughout the whole drama, I only have a feeling that nothing can be forced, and everything must be natural. As the saying goes, twisted melon is not sweet.
Lao Luo owes his family a debt of gratitude, but this debt is not repaid by the marriage of his children. Luo Xiaobei doesn't love He Chunsheng. All they have is the friendship of friends and classmates, or a family relationship when they grow up. What is left is just the wishful thinking of any family, a sense of psychological balance, comfort and satisfaction. None of this is because of love.
Therefore, "Mendi" is a teleplay with great concern, and there are too many inequalities between people. There is also importune and possession, which is an extreme or distorted mentality. Maybe you don't feel it, but it has actually brought pain and harm to others. So, this is a sad drama.
For love, there is no family difference. For marriage, appropriateness is very important. He Chunsheng, the hero, and Luo Xiaobei, the heroine in the play, are actually quite miserable. They were all kidnapped by family differences and the grievances of the previous generation. They gave up the right of personal choice for their loved ones. Fortunately, the ending was not tragic. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, they finally found themselves and how to deal with all the problems in family life.
David's hero, He Chunsheng, likes Luo Xiaobei since he was a child. His father died to save Luo Xiaobei's father. Luo Xiaobei's father booked an early marriage for his two children because of guilt. With the growth of age, He Chunsheng became the cashier manager of the supermarket from the initial lofty ideal to the gradually extinguished dream, while Luo Xiaobei was admitted to his ideal university. He knew that the gap between himself and Luo Xiaobei was getting bigger and farther. But I still insisted on sending a letter to Luo Xiaobei. However, Luo Xiaobei already has a suitable object, and the girl He Chunsheng once saved fell in love with him without hesitation. Since then, He Chunsheng and that girl Ding Xiaoman have taken many classes, and the reasons are still tangled. Ding Xiaoman's appearance affected his and Luo Xiaobei's family life. ...
Luo Xiaobei, the heroine played by lorla, is an urban white-collar worker. She comes from a good family and is used to a good life. After marrying the poor boy He Chunsheng, she experienced many things, such as quarreling with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, emotional entanglement with Ding Xiaoman, entanglement with her ex-boyfriend, illness and so on. , and sued her boss for sticking to his duties at work, as well as falling in the family ... After these experiences, she was no longer a Jiao Jiao girl, but became stronger and more independent.
They just started a complicated marriage life because of a promise from their parents. The favored son of heaven leads a poor boy's lifestyle every day. Luo Xiaobei didn't like to live in a big yard, so He Chunsheng had to live in Luojia with Luo Xiaobei and was ridiculed by the nanny. Because Luo Xiaobei gave birth to two children, she must be taken care of by herself at home. He Chunsheng chose to take care of them, regardless of gender. He has to have his own life. He has no money to look after the children at home. Be scolded by Luo Xiaobei. He Chunsheng felt that his self-esteem was hurt and went out to look for a job, so he had to work with Ding Xiaoman. Luo Xiaobei also met her ex-boyfriend at work. Before the child was born, He Chunsheng actually suspected that the child was not his own. During this period, He Chunsheng was misunderstood and Ding Xiaoman had something to do. Finally, after experiencing the ups and downs of life, they returned to their respective families, realized each other's mistakes and lived happily together.
Once, things like "poor peasant" origin could be proudly written in files, but now rich dad is the most dazzling aura. I used to think proudly that I didn't have such great parents, but I believe there will be a bright future the day after tomorrow. Later, I found that some people with high starting point were too lazy to squeeze a wooden bridge with us, or they were born with high IQ, which could easily smash me into slag. What's more, people work harder than me. Then I was brainwashed by the cheap saying that "it is better to marry well than to do well". When I saw Cinderella in the TV series, I replaced it myself. But the reality is that if you don't play at a high level, the probability of the second reincarnation role breaking out is simply lower than the first time. Rich people don't want to tear it down and play again. Even I guess they didn't even think about it. Poor people often say, "If your father hadn't died, our family would be the Luo family …" Then, for a verbal joke many years ago, they made great efforts to marry a rich girl. There are no best people in the play, some are kind and some are selfish. Even I think that Sister Anthony WONG is a normal person with flesh and blood. However, when Chunsheng really married Beckham, he was already wallowing in the abyss. China's screenwriter still likes happy endings, otherwise the ending of Jack in Titanic would be there. When Chunsheng earned money by driving a taxi, Beckham took a look at Du Mu and completely denied it. I want to go in and shake Beckham and say, He wants so little self-esteem. Can you die for him? When I was a child, when adults talked about who had money, I couldn't understand the huge difference between having money and not having money. Later, I understood that when there is no money, the world is the same, and when there is money, the world is different and better. So, to some extent, the poor are often more cruel. When they see others suffering, they often say that our life is even more difficult than his. Who pity me? However, people who are relatively rich and comfortable will say, I don't know how to spend such a life, and it's pitiful (of course, nouveau riche is not included). In China, there are no hereditary nobles, so money has become the yardstick of division. When you can't choose your own background and environment, you may think like a rich man, so that you can really study both inside and outside, which I recently saw in Poor Dad and Rich Dad. It is not unreasonable for China to pay attention to the right match. Not only money, but also seemingly illusory things such as outlook on life and values can actually make people crazy at any time.
I feel that this TV series has a strong sense of tragedy. I didn't read it all, but I felt uncomfortable after reading part of it. In fact, this is a practical life problem. It doesn't matter if something is wrong at home, but two people must face it calmly. Don't be influenced by others. Adding a mother to this TV is actually showing a close person's attitude towards this kind of thing. Nowadays, the extravagance of comparison in society is too serious, which sometimes leads to the deviation of people's value orientation.