But at that time, men and women were not allowed to fall in love freely, or should they abide by the so-called "love marriage"? Parents' orders, matchmaker's words? . Under this premise, it will lead to many lovers and eventually become sad people who are strangers.
In fact, ancient people should abide by their parents' secrets when they get married and choose their husbands. In fact, there are many customs related to marriage. Especially in some remote rural areas, there are even many marriage proverbs. Although the words of these proverbs are not beautiful, they contain a lot of life experience and truth. ? A good man has hair but no good wife, and a good woman has a fat five? It is the ancestors who know the secret of people's fortune-telling.
But this proverb looks vulgar, but it is more in line with the ancient people's criteria for choosing a spouse; Or the basic conditions for judging a person's good and evil, and the premise of whether he can continue to get along.
First, the old saying? Good men have hair but no good wives?
In ancient society, it was difficult to reach the standard, and it was necessary to have thick body hair. In fact, this standard of judging a good man is also very practical in modern society.
Tall, strong and powerful are the basic elements for the ancients to judge a good man. Because only with a healthy body can you become an invincible general on the battlefield and a good hand in farm work.
Whether fighting on the battlefield or working in the field, you should have strong basic elements. If you are weak or weak, not only can you not adapt to the cruel battlefield, but it is also very laborious to do farm work in the field.
Therefore, when ancient people observed a man, they would regard whether he had body hair as an important symbol.
Although judging whether a man is a good man according to his physical characteristics is not only particularly arbitrary, but also groundless. But it is undeniable that this standard is the embodiment of the wisdom of the ancients. At the same time, it can also provide an important basis for modern people to know people.
Really? Good men have hair but no good wives? What is the final core idea? No good wife? .
In fact, this popular saying is actually related to
A good man has no good wife, lai Han keeps flowers?
More similar. Why can't a good man marry a good wife? This proverb is obviously biased.
It's not that these good men can't marry good wives, but that their temper is too impatient, which leads to the relationship between husband and wife becoming cold.
In fact, women living in ancient society, in? Three obedience and four virtues? Under the bondage of thought, I am actually very cautious and obedient to my husband. What makes it? No good wife? , not a person's reason.
Second, people's ancient knowledge? Good girls can't get out?
Good girls can't get out? When men got married in ancient times, they all liked plump women.
This is mainly because? Do you have any fat? It is a symbol of health, and the chances of having a son will be greater. Although there is no scientific basis for this statement, it is undeniable that? Do you have any fat? Among women, not only are they particularly healthy, but they can also do farm work.
Therefore, when choosing a spouse, most ancient men were more interested in fat women.
Although in the eyes of modern people? Obesity is a crime? A slim woman is a kind of beauty. But in the ancient society where obesity was the beauty, women with thin bodies would become? Leftover women? .
Good girls can't get out? Are you online? Five outs? I believe many people can't guess the mystery. If combined? Good women are fat? Let's analyze it. What can you find? Five outs? It is five virtues.
In short, it is filial piety, carrying on the family line, moral integrity, loyalty, good health and so on. Every virtue is well worth learning by modern women.
In the eyes of the ancients, filial piety is the most basic virtue. The purpose of marrying a wife is not only to carry on the family line, but also to be filial to parents.
As a virtuous woman, if she can't meet the requirements of filial piety, then she won't be the object of men's choice, and she is not a fat good woman at all.
What is the main reason why good health can become a kind of beauty? Good women are fat? . So from this perspective, we can know that women living in ancient society would not have it if they were skinny? Five outs? .
Of course, this is just an idea of the ancients. In modern society, thinness has long been popular.
conclusion
A good man has hair but no good wife, and a good woman has a fat five? These two sentences are the basic standards for the ancients to know people. Although a good man is hairy and a good woman is fat, we only observe a person's personality from the outside. But if we can combine the ideology of the ancients, we will find that strong men and obese women are still the best criteria for choosing a spouse in their minds.