A: I don't think I am doing it. Does the other party think, I don't know? Why not give me a chestnut and tell me what kind of girl a boy wants to be?
Wang left me a video link (please go to Zhihu to find out for yourself: What it's like to have a good girlfriend).
That is to say, the female ticket should lose weight, and the male ticket supervisor is required not to eat dinner until dinner time. The man said you wanted to lose weight, so the woman broke up angrily.
Let me tell you about it. Let me analyze your mental journey with you, and you will understand:
First of all, speaking of losing weight, I really want to lose weight. After all, I was definitely not hungry when I raised the flag, and I can't remember how uncomfortable it was to be hungry. And now you are hungry and cold. When she is in pain, you not only don't understand her, don't take care of her, but also want her to continue suffering! ! !
Second, in fact, she knows that it is quite a slap in the face to say that she wants to lose weight and eat. She has finished playing in her heart. It is really because she can't stand being hungry that she will have the pain of hitting her face and ask you for something to eat. As a result, instead of rubbing her little face, you actually hit her face with your backhand! ! ! In fact, many times when people are talking, they know that they should not talk, but they have to talk because they are helpless, so they are particularly afraid of being rejected. After being rejected, they are particularly angry! Yes, become angry from embarrassment, that's the word-become angry from embarrassment! Your girlfriend became angry from embarrassment.
Third, didn't you claim that you didn't think my mother was fat? Then why don't you give me food? So deep down, you think I should lose weight, right? You are not only duplicitous, but also dislike my mother! For your own visual enjoyment, let me starve here, you don't fucking love me! ! Yes, your girlfriend is online, and girls fall in love with online, which, well, may be due to human nature. ...
Fourth, who is in a good mood when he is fucking hungry! ?
To sum up, you don't like her from the bottom of your heart. When she is unhappy, you make her feel uncomfortable and severely hit her face. It is strange that she is not angry with you. ...
After listening to it, the other party suddenly felt as if it really didn't count. In the final analysis, it means unreasonable. The above reasons seem to be enough ...
Then the problem is coming, how to solve it?
In fact, it is particularly simple! ! ! Support her whatever she wants, and make it clear that she is not fat! !
When she shouted to lose weight, you said, honey, you are really not fat, really not fat, ah, you want to lose weight, right? Well, I don't think you are fat, but since you want to lose weight, it won't be too difficult for me to go on a diet, exercise and lose weight with you.
When she called for dinner, you said, Do you really want to eat? That's right! You weren't fat at first, why did you lose weight? How distressed I am if you are hungry! Let's go! Let's go if we want something to eat! Ah, still want to lose weight? You know what? I'll take you to eat seafood. It's delicious. Are you hungry? How's it going?
Look, how simple it is! !
Wang said to him, it seems that there are reasons and solutions, but why do I feel so tired?
I said, aren't you tired when you are happy? So many things ~ ~