Influenced by it, many people also entered Dandan's circle. Modern men dressed as women are called cross dressing. In Hebei, there is a cross-dressing actor Ouyang, who earned millions by cross-dressing performance, but gradually became fascinated with cross-dressing in his daily life. His wife and daughter thought he was shameful and abandoned him. How is he now?
Drama male Dan
1958, Ouyang was born in an ordinary family in Zhangjiakou, Hebei. Because his mother always wanted a girl, she often dressed Ouyang as a little girl. He is very handsome, with pigtails and a flowered skirt, but he really looks like a girl. And this also makes his personality a bit like a girl.
At the age of 8, Ouyang's parents divorced and he lived with his father, but his father quickly reorganized his family. His stepmother was not good to him, so he ran to find his mother, but her mother also had a new family, and Ouyang became the most redundant one. At the age of ten, his father sent him to a troupe.
Ouyang is a man's material. At the age of eighteen, he was already a famous figure in the troupe. He can dominate the stage, and his career is just in time. His performance experience in the troupe also laid a good stage foundation for him.
At the age of 23, Ouyang met the actress of another troupe. They had endless topics and got married soon. After marriage, they had a daughter.
Indulge in cross-dressing
To 1986 With the rise of film and television dramas, it is becoming more and more difficult to do national dramas. Hu Wenge's record of six consecutive performances inspired many men to change jobs. Under the pressure of the situation, Ouyang also switched to the cross-dressing industry.
Ouyang was at a loss when he first came into contact with the cross-dressing, but he soon found that his previous performance experience as a male dancer made him comfortable in playing the role of a woman, and women's manners and posture could perform well.
At that time, the cross-dressing actors in the troupe were scarce, which made Ouyang get rich rewards every time he performed on stage.
The wife didn't think there was anything wrong with her husband's cross-dressing career at first, because she was also an actress and used to it. But after a long time, the wife found her husband completely immersed in the role of cross-dressing.
On weekdays, you should also wear women's clothes, high heels and beautiful makeup, and dress up better than your wife herself. This gradually made her feel uncomfortable, and the continuous gossip of her neighbors made her feel even more embarrassed.
Ouyang himself doesn't think this is a problem. He feels that he can do whatever he likes, so why care so much about other people's eyes.
My daughter has grown up and is sensible, and she feels that her father is abnormal. At school, her classmates learned that she had an unusual father and kept laughing at her. These accumulated feelings made her resent her father and made her feel ashamed to have such a father.
Ouyang usually gets together with his wife and daughter because he is often busy with performances. And when you get along with your wife, you will inevitably quarrel. Ouyang doesn't want to quarrel either, but when he doesn't quarrel, his wife keeps criticizing him, and his days are as violent as lava from a volcano.
In the end, the wife divorced Ouyang with her daughter.
Ouyang, who was youthful at the beginning, did not regret it. He was still immersed in the cross-dressing performance and put more emphasis on his work. But now, Ouyang is 62 years old. He has been engaged in cross-dressing for 30 years and earned millions of dollars, but he has lived alone for many years.
He still said that he didn't regret entering the cross-dressing industry. He really loves this job, and he is destined to shine on the stage. But there must be some indelible regrets and sadness in his heart, and he can only cover up the scars in his heart with his favorite performance.
About gender
With the development of society today, most people still can't tolerate such things as women disguised as men. British writer Woolf once said a theory called "androgyny", that is to say, each of us has a male side and a female side, just like the two dominant forces. In men's minds, men dominate women, while in women's minds, women dominate men.
The most comfortable state is that these two forces are in balance and exist in a person's body. Woolf also believes that any pure male or pure female is fatal. Some people don't like cross-dressing, but others like it, and regard it as a kind of love for life, which should not be criticized by the world, because it is not immoral and unnatural, but people tend to be confined to the secular vision.
Those movie characters who can be called great movies or classic movies are actually not "pure men" or "pure men". Can be said to be beyond gender. Maybe the director just wants to express this point: gender is not something that needs too much attention.
Cheng Dieyi in Farewell My Concubine is the best example of gender identity transformation. Neither Man Lang nor Nv Jiao E can say that. In him, we should see the absolute idealism that is neither crazy nor alive, and we should also see valuable loyalty. He is a real person who is not assimilated by society, and he always upholds spiritual identity beyond material and society.
This is the value of this character. Cheng Dieyi, a character, is interpreted beyond gender. Dong Fangbubai, played by Brigitte Lin, can gulp water in the water in a red suit, showing his natural and unrestrained demeanor, and can stand on a high platform and look down at everyone with cold eyes.
Gong Er, played by Zhang Ziyi, has a woman's tenderness in her bones, but the restraint in her heart only makes tears slide down her cheeks. As a woman of that era, she was willing to give up love and marriage for revenge. Their charm is transgender. This society needs a more inclusive and rational vision. When Farewell My Concubine was released, Leslie Cheung said in an interview: "It's 92 years now, not 29 years."