They are responsible for another family. A person who is devoted to marriage will certainly not have too many entanglements with other members of the opposite sex. Even if your other half is not so good, so excellent, and the other side is so attractive to you, you should stop the loss in time, cut the gordian knot and let this inexplicable relationship end as soon as possible. When two married people fall in love, the best outcome is never to contact again. Otherwise, you will get deeper and deeper. Once you do something wrong, you will not only be spurned by the world, but also make the other half unable to forgive yourself. Many people once said that marriage was a cage that bound their freedom, and even compared themselves to a besieged city. But the people who kept saying that they wanted to get married and spend the rest of their lives with each other were themselves. Why do they wait until they really get married before they start to resent it? Isn't this a bit of a double standard? It is true that facing the same face for several years seems a bit boring and monotonous, and the words between each other seem to be less and less. At that time, I was in the bottleneck of my marriage. Once I broke into the attractive opposite sex at this time, everything seemed unpredictable. The original freshness is aroused again, and the feeling of love is just around the corner. Many people may be desperate to pursue their love, ignoring that they already have a family. Even if you have a child, you should pursue the so-called love in your heart. Don't take boredom with each other as a reason to deceive you. In the face of temptation, most people think that what they do will not be discovered, but once discovered, it is not as simple as being ruined. If you are tired of the other half, or have problems with the other half, you can sit down and communicate with each other. If you really think that two people are not so suitable, there is an option of divorce. Why don't you want a divorce, but you have to get entangled with others? This is a matter of principle. There are many things around us that make the marriage break up because of the intervention of a third party, which is undoubtedly a tragedy. Obviously, there can be a relatively peaceful ending, but it is necessary to make a chicken fly and a dog jump. I don't know why. The more two people have families, the easier it is to attract each other. Maybe it's the same boat, or other reasons, but this can't be a reason to cheat. It is said that there is no absolute right or wrong in things, but cheating is a mistake, and no amount of rhetoric can change the nature of mistakes. My ex-wife is also a beautiful and moving girl. She also likes to wear skirts and go shopping beautifully. But for the sake of life and family, she had to give up her career, put on an apron and face daily necessities. I also have wrinkles in my eyes because of too much work, but I am not willing to spend money on cosmetics. In the end, she will be rejected by her husband as a yellow-faced woman. Ex-husband is also a proud teenager. They love basketball and e-sports. They want to make a career in their own field, but because they have families and children, the burden on their shoulders is heavier. I have to give up my dream and start a nine-to-five life in a down-to-earth manner, just to make my salary look richer and support a family and children. The cost of going to school and the daily expenses at home all make this big man breathless, but he has to be rejected by his wife in vain. When we are tempted by the outside world, we must not forget the man or woman who has been accompanying us without complaint. The best outcome of two married people falling in love is that two people with families fall in love, which is harmful to both families. When I was young, I was a child and didn't care about anything. Love depends only on feelings. As long as two people like each other, nothing else matters. But in the world of adults, life is not only romantic, but also daily necessities. Love will bring more responsibilities, especially after having a family, I bear the rise and fall of the whole family. Two people with families fall in love, and if they stick together, it is tantamount to abandoning two families. In Jinghua Women's Picture Book, Chen Ke's best friend's husband cheated on her. The best friend said this: "If a person cheats, it may be cool for a while, but then what?" Have they thought about the future? "What will happen if you abandon your family for a moment of happiness? The hard-earned family collapsed in an instant, and the three views that the ignorant children have not yet established were immediately distorted by reality. What followed was the sadness of family members, the coldness of relatives and the disgust of people around them. Once people have a family, many times they can't just look at their feelings, but how their hearts are sorted. Family, lover. Money, work. When people reach middle age, everything is in order. Enjoying the warmth of family means taking on more responsibilities. For two families, let go of love again. Two people with families fall in love because they don't understand. I had a similar problem in Zhihu some time ago. A man asked, "What should I do if I meet someone I like better after marriage? "There are many answers below, and my favorite ones are these two. There are so many things you like in this world that there will never be an end. Sometimes when you are ready, you should know how to stop. It is true that everyone's circle is too small, and everyone has worked hard all his life. In fact, there are only a few people you can know. I think this is good today, and I will think so tomorrow. If you can betray your wife, you can betray your lover. Real life is not always longing for the beauty outside, but knowing how to cherish the beauty in front of you. Everyone who has feelings for others after marriage once loved his half deeply. Only in the years, they gradually lost their original freshness, and the two men went further and further. Years can precipitate a lot of beauty, but also cover up a lot of true feelings. People always habitually ignore things that are commonplace. It's like a cheating man always covets the beauty of his lover, but he doesn't know that his wife is also more beautiful than the sky, but she is too long. Therefore, whenever you are ready, you should know enough is enough. Only when people know how to be satisfied can they be happy. The best ending when two married people fall in love. Maybe the less they have, the more they want. Because I haven't tasted the intensity of love, I want to know what love is, and then I meet a man who really makes her move and makes her madly love. This man finally appeared, but not at the right time. After all, she is married and tied down by her family. This man was an acquaintance of her when she was young, and there was an ambiguous love at that time. Seeing each other again after years of separation, her heart still beats uncontrollably. Men are perfect in her eyes. At the moment she saw him, she felt inferior. In order to get close to men, she spent nearly half a year, lost weight crazily, lost nearly ten pounds, and basically recovered her youthful appearance. This gave her confidence to get close to the man she loved. But she didn't take the initiative to find the man. This step is not so easy for her to step out. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, she received a greeting message from a man, which was actually a mass holiday message. But she still couldn't help adding the man's WeChat according to the man's short message. In this way, after contact, she realized that in fact, over the years, men have her in their hearts. This made her a little ecstatic, but that man, like her, was married and had children, and happened to have two children. Hate not to meet and not to marry, at this time, she really understood the meaning of this sentence. Some things, once started, can no longer be controlled. She quickly fell in love with a man and secretly had such a relationship. Both of them are infinitely addicted, and they regard each other as the favorite of their lives, knowing that it is wrong, but they are madly in love. Both of them tacitly said nothing about the future. She said that she also knew that no matter how much she loved this man, it was impossible between them. But the more impossible it is, the more sad it will be, perhaps unwilling, perhaps too deeply in love. She is suffering from this kind of suffering and can't extricate herself. Then she asked me, what will happen between her and that man? I asked her, what will happen? Do you want to divorce and stay with him? She told me that although they love each other very much, they are both sensible and never want to divorce together. In that case, it will ruin the fate of four children. She can't do that. So I said to her, since you already know that it is impossible to be together, although you enjoy this feeling now, even if you are careful, this relationship is risky for you. As for what you should do, I don't think I need to tell you. After listening to my words, she was silent for a long time and told me that she knew what to do. I think she really understood. Just last night, she found me again. She said that she had a deep chat with the man she loved deeply, and we all knew that this relationship could not continue. The two agreed not to meet again, but to keep this feeling in their hearts. I feel lucky for her, but fortunately I didn't go further and further on a wrong road, and then I didn't forget to tell her: I hope you can keep your word. Although some feelings are out of control, as adults, we should decisively end an unworthy relationship and stop loss in time before everything becomes out of control. In fact, two people who have families but love each other, leaving each other alone, is the best ending. If only from the emotional point of view, if you really love each other, then letting them be alone is actually a kind of love. At least in your heart, you want the person you love to be happy and carefree. After all, not every relationship will have a result. What's more, when you really want to pursue a result, the price you have to pay is not affordable for everyone. In fact, it is the best ending to fall in love with people outside marriage without disturbing each other. Even if you have a lot of reluctance, if you really love, if you know that it is impossible to be together, then you really have to let go. Why do you have to go to the end, lose both sides and turn against each other?