The 24-year-old girl chose to stand in front of the stage and report her weight to everyone.

"My weight is 77 kilograms. For many people, this is a weight that needs to be lost. "

What does this mean for a young girl?

When most people hear this number, they will subconsciously prejudice her: should she take care of her body? Will she be unhealthy?

Every girl has more or less experienced the days of physical anxiety.

On July 13, Wang Hongxiaoran of Hangzhou suffered from systemic infection due to liposuction, resulting in multiple organ failure and death, which caused a heated discussion.

I can't help thinking, is this "beauty" really admirable?

Attacks on women's appearance and figure are not uncommon.

Before, a male anchor filmed a girl live and thought he was humorous. He said, "There are two tanks sitting in front of me."

At the just-concluded Oriental Olympic Games, China Olympic athletes won 38 gold medals, ranking second in the medal list.

Among them, the women's shot put champion won by Gong is of great significance.

After the interview, the reporter opened his mouth and said:

"What Gong left me was the image of a woman."

"Do you have any plans for the girl's life next?"

"In fact, I think if you wrestle with him (the male photographer)."

In this incredible scene, the first female Olympic gold medalist in the track and field history of China was teased by reporters: You are a woman, not a woman, and you are suitable for arm wrestling.

What logic is this?

Why no matter how excellent and successful a woman is, as long as she is a woman, even if she just cried to win the championship, she only cares about her figure?

In this era of information bombing, following a series of body-drying trends such as "vest line", "knee-over-shoulder", "backhand touching navel", "putting coins on collarbone" and "dimple pen", a new beauty craze has emerged on the Internet:

A4 waist, slapping, chopsticks legs, cartoon waist ... Compared with themselves, many women tend to "sit in the right position" and fall into physical anxiety.

Can women only be talked about their appearance?

Psychologists' research shows that when people hold a negative attitude towards their appearance and feel that their bodies do not meet social expectations and self-expectations, they will have physical anxiety.

Behind this anxiety is actually the aesthetic convergence. Many women blindly undergo plastic surgery, go on a diet to lose weight, and equate their appearance with themselves. When their appearance is denied, their self is in doubt.

1.？ The more anxious, the more plastic surgery, the more fatal plastic surgery.

Not long ago, the famous actress Gao wrote a long article about her unfortunate experience of failed rhinoplasty, and was also scolded by hot search.

She said: A simple operation turned into a nightmare-being hospitalized for 6 1 day, inhaling hyperbaric oxygen every morning and evening, taking medicine by infusion, showing symptoms such as rejection, inflammation and even necrosis.

As a result, she lost her job, lost 400 thousand, and faced up to 2 million damages for breach of contract.

Recently, a 3 1 year-old woman in Shenzhen had a rhinoplasty operation in a beauty and plastic surgery institution without telling her parents, and her heart stopped after 5 minutes of anesthesia.

The accident caused her to be disabled at grade six and her intelligence deteriorated to one year old. She needs lifelong companionship in the future.

Han Huijing, a Korean singer, sang sweetly and looked beautiful when she was young.

But she still couldn't resist plastic surgery, but she opened Pandora's box and became addicted to plastic surgery. Because the face was swollen after long-term injection, the plastic surgeon finally refused to operate the knife.

She never gave up and bought silicone injections from illegal channels. When you hear the sound until your face is swollen and disfigured, you are called "Aunt Fan".

I haven't slept for more than ten years. I had a 17 operation to make my condition better.

A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is her lover.

There are many cases of taking risks in order to become beautiful like this. Unconsciously, facial anxiety has become a time bomb for many girls.

It is understandable to love beauty, but it is really not advisable to let it endanger life.

2. Multiple beauty is the real beauty.

There should not be only one standard of beauty in the world. If you want to broaden your horizons, you might as well walk more.

After quitting her boring job, Mihaela Noroc, a 34-year-old female photographer, spent four years traveling around more than 50 countries and regions, photographing 500 most representative local women and compiling their photos, names and stories into a book.

Behind these vivid faces, their beauty is different.

As Shakespeare said:

"Her beauty turned the tomb into a joyful hall."

The "beauty" in these shots is just an ordinary local woman, and then there is no limit to beauty, not fake.

Or like new buds after rain, bright and elegant, or like peach blossoms in the stream and bamboo shadows in the sun, natural charm. Everyone is as beautiful as nature.

Mihaela Norrock said:

"I want to tell the world that the beauty of women has no boundaries. After all, beauty lies in our differences. It is about nature, truth, not catering to the trend, and has nothing to do with race and social status. "

Only by emancipating the beauty in concept can we better discover the beauty in vision.

At the moment when the figure of the women's paper group is the aesthetic "benchmark", Yi Li, a player at the Tucao Conference, criticized the infinitely shrinking figure and morbid weight loss:

"Many women are morbidly losing weight in order to realize the freedom of dressing, because the size of women's clothes is only S size, XS size and XXS size, and even thin camels are bigger than S size."

However, in Japan, there is such a women's group, not taking the usual road, boldly claiming to be the archangel of the fallen world:

"We used to be angels, but we fell down because we ate too much in heaven every day and became too fat."

Every time they make an introduction, they will say loudly, "We are archangels, a large-size angel group with an average weight of 180 kg, and also a fleshy idol group!"

They like singing and dancing street dance. They are several times older than other idols. They like fried chicken and coke, and prefer to speak for themselves directly with rice, hamburgers and sausages, mayonnaise and grape juice.

Captain Michiko began to feel inferior and depressed, because he became obese for a while.

But when she saw the confident plus-size model girl, she felt unprecedented relief: she didn't need to go on a diet or lose weight, and she was beautiful!

The women's group that breaks the conventional beauty is worth learning from our people who are troubled by their bodies.

Focus on yourself, show your unique side and become a more beautiful self.

3. Accept yourself and discover your own beauty

San Mao once said, "A person who doesn't appreciate himself is hard to be happy."

"Actor in Place" killed a dark horse, and the bursting acting left a deep impression on the audience. The character she created is very complicated in heart, much like the characters in the original book.

This fleshy little round face squints when she smiles, and the girl with dimples is Yoko spicy. She was praised as "the next film queen" by Dong Chengyi, who is known as the poisonous tongue.

He is not a "universal beauty" or an ordinary class, but as long as he faces the camera, he won't get stage fright. Emotional expression is full of layers and tension. Wei likes it very much, saying that she was born to eat this bowl of rice.

In fact, Yoko Mori's real name is Li Jiaqi. "Yoko has spicy eyes" is her stage name, and she laughs at herself for having "spicy eyes".

But who would have thought that Yoko Ayako liked acting since she was a child, but she was born in a very ordinary family, and the competition in the entertainment circle was too fierce with the standard of "white, young, thin, tall and thin".

Although she chose journalism as her major in college, she succeeded in making a short video.

She once wrote in her diary: "beautiful actors catch a lot, but I am the only one who wants to find an ugly, distinctive, temperamental and funny woman!" "

Yoko spicy eyes try hard, it's not spicy at all. She was a different firework in front of the camera, and finally lived a brilliant and beautiful life through her unremitting efforts.

As Wilde said, "Love yourself is the beginning of a romantic life."

What kind of face to show people, what kind of attitude to live with, should not be given to us by others, face ourselves frankly, this is the personal elegant lifestyle.

Write it at the end

Wang Xiaobo said: "Life is a process of being hammered slowly."

Being exposed by Adu, this process is inevitably embarrassing.

It is easy to fall into an era of anxiety, and everyone should learn to face themselves in the mirror. Let go of the burden and accept yourself frankly.

Don't let appearance be the only source of self-affirmation, and welcome unexpected beauty with a positive, happy and peaceful attitude.

When we can look at aesthetics in a diversified manner, our anxiety will also be alleviated.

Whether you are fat or thin, you must be unique. This is the beauty of true freedom.