1, self in the mirror First of all, if you want to know what you really look like, you can only look at yourself by borrowing foreign things. We can borrow a mirror, which is a reference object. Look at the mirror as much as possible. On the one hand, there are some differences in the mirror, and on the other hand, we need to observe ourselves from multiple angles.

In the eyes of others, we can find more friends and ask them what they really look like. In the eyes of others, ego is often evaluated objectively, because ego is often idealized and beautifies itself. Friends, it is better to have friends of the same sex and the opposite sex, which is more objective.

When we find the above references, we need to make a summary, classify our own and others' comments on our appearance, and use the same as the description of our true appearance, so that we can know our true appearance. It will definitely be significantly different from what we thought.