First, you have done something unacceptable to the other party, but you don't know that it is not terrible to offend girls. The terrible thing is that you have ulterior motives to offend girls. In your opinion, some things don't matter and don't care too much, but in the eyes of girls, this is too much. Tell a story here: Chu Xiao is an office worker. He likes a girl named Xiaoli. Now in the pursuit stage, girls have a good impression on him. The relationship between them is not bad. However, he made many mistakes that boys love to make. While pursuing Xiaoli, he also had a relationship with another girl in the class and gave her a book of poems with his name on it. You know, girls like to show off, and Xiaoli knows this kind of show off. Because of this incident, Xiaoli's affection for Chu Xiao declined instantly, and their relationship began to get cold. Chu Xiao still wondered why her attitude towards me suddenly changed. In fact, the reason is that what he did was unacceptable to girls. In the hearts of many girls, they think like this: "Since you like me and are pursuing me, why are you being nice to other girls at the same time?" Even embarrassing, like you, not sure of your importance in your heart, can't accept this kind of behavior. "So, before you officially become boyfriend and girlfriend, you must be careful about your words and deeds, so as not to affect your relationship. Second, you feel inferior when the girl has a new love. Sometimes, when girls are chatting with you, they are actually chatting with others. Recently, Xiao Fang got along well with a boy from a different place, got along well, and had a good emotional state, but the boy's pursuit was not smooth. Because there is another suitor beside Xiao Fang, and this boy is beside Xiao Fang. The face values of the two boys are similar, and no one is particularly outstanding, but compare them with each other. A boy is in the distance, and a boy is in sight. If you were, which one would you choose? I think, no one will choose a long-distance relationship, because it will not only be uncomfortable, but also pay a lot. Therefore, the girl suddenly turns cold on you, probably because she has a new lover. I can only say that your attraction is not big enough. At least, your attraction is not enough to make her like you. Third, if the relationship is not in place, it will cross the line. There are two possibilities, one is that WeChat chat crosses the border, and the other is that the body crosses the border. Chatting on WeChat, the girl suddenly gives you a cold shoulder, fearing that she will chat with you too enthusiastically. Do you have a feeling that when chatting with girls, you will unconsciously tell them a lot of things about yourself when you are in high spirits and happy, but after this time, looking back at what you have said, you will question whether you have said too much. We are in the pursuit stage. For girls, she doesn't know much about us, and our relationship with girls is not that good. So excessive self-exposure will make us very passive. Usually, in order to keep boundaries, girls will choose cold treatment, which is called starting to be cold to boys. This is a self-protection mechanism for girls and a normal phenomenon. The same is true of physical contact. Girls are born with anti-womanizing mechanisms. When your relationship is not as good as that of lovers, but you do what lovers should do, then girls will start to blame themselves, and then the self-protection mechanism will be strengthened, so they will be cold to you. In this case, you don't have to worry too much. Take your time, get in touch with each other and get to know each other better, then the other party will open up and your relationship will improve. Fourth, the girl is in a bad mood, but she doesn't want to talk to you at all. Girls are indifferent to you. Probably because she's in a bad mood. She will choose to close herself and regulate herself, and will not want to pass on negative energy to anyone. Because girls feel that they are in a bad mood, it is easy to belittle themselves after telling others, leaving a bad impression on boys. If you find that a girl used to get along well with you, and suddenly one day she is cold to you and ignores you, but a few days later, she appears in front of you alive and kicking, then she may have closed the door. There are many reasons why girls are cold to you, far more than these four points. Sometimes, you can't jump to conclusions too early. Knowing how to observe and analyze can better choose the next road. A girl suddenly snubbed you to chat. You did something wrong. Some time ago, a boy named Xiao Ming suddenly asked me why the easy-going girl suddenly gave him the cold shoulder. In fact, he doesn't know because he did something wrong. At first, when the two of them were together, they didn't express clearly that they were together, but it felt good to communicate with each other, and he also sent a book to another girl in their class. The girl happened to talk to the girl he was chatting with again, and the girl ignored him after understanding it. New Love When a girl has a new love, she may ignore you, because this new love is better at chatting, gentler and more interesting than you. If a girl has someone she thinks is more interesting, she won't talk to you anymore. She even thinks being with you is a waste of time. In fact, girls' experience is limited, so if a better person appears, it is easy to be with this better person. After a long time, you two will have less and less contact. Another possibility of crossing the line is that the relationship between you two is not particularly good, but you say something ambiguous to her, so that girls will find it annoying and will gradually ignore you. Therefore, when girls and boys are together, they sometimes pay special attention to what some boys say, so boys pay special attention to their own way of speaking and language, so that they can stay with girls they like for a long time. Girls don't want to talk to others when they are in a bad mood. They will choose to watch TV series for a while, or pass the time when they are bored, instead of looking for someone to chat with. When girls are in a bad mood, it is best to provoke girls less. Or as long as a girl is willing to talk to you, it means that she is willing to communicate with you, even if she accuses you or says something unpleasant, as long as you coax her. It is when a girl really doesn't want to talk to you that she doesn't want to continue dating you. Friends have a bad impression of you. When a girl's friend has a bad impression on you, the girl will often be influenced by it and have a bad impression on you, so she won't want to associate with you anymore. Maybe she had a good chat with you before, and suddenly she ignored you. Therefore, in order to win a girl's heart, her friends are actually very important. If you can win the heart of his best friend, then maybe this thing has already won half the battle. Discover your shortcomings When a girl discovers your shortcomings, she doesn't want to contact you again. For example, if you talk uncivilized, call names while playing games, or throw rubbish everywhere when you go out to play, these little things may not be too concerned after you get familiar with them, but at first, girls will think that you are a particularly uncivilized person and will not continue to communicate with you. It is also possible to get along very coldly with you. A girl suddenly snubbed you to chat. 1. I am not interested in you. I'm just chatting with you out of courtesy or to amuse myself. Some girls just talk a lot, just because you are right with her, or just because she was bored at that time, so I had a warm chat with you. Sometimes, you think the chat is good, but it's actually the kind where you say something and she replies and you think she's interested in you. If a girl is interesting, she will take the initiative to ask questions about you, not asking and answering, nor talking to herself. Second, you are in a "wait and see" state and want to see your attitude. Most girls' feelings for themselves are still inconclusive. If you talk to her every day, she will think you like her. But she is afraid that you are the kind of love rat who casts a net everywhere, so she wants to stop this progress and see if you will continue or retreat at this time. They will be deliberately cold, and when you continue to send messages, it will not be like before. If you retreat at once, it will be a big pig's hoof! Third, you made her angry, and she is waiting for you to apologize. This is very troublesome because you don't even know what makes her angry. Then you should take a good look at your chat records and see if there are any contradictions in your conversation, especially where you can have a good chat. And there are words like "I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm glad you're happy, you're great", so pay attention. If you find something wrong, you should be grateful, because she still cares about you. She has been waiting for you to apologize all this time. All you have to do is apologize sincerely. You must have a good attitude to admit your mistakes. Fourth, she found someone more interesting, or had a boyfriend. In the process of chatting with you, she thought you were a little different and interesting from others, so she chatted with you. But then she found someone more interesting, and naturally she was not interested in you. At worst, she may have a boyfriend. Why spend time talking to you when you have a boyfriend? It's good that you ignore her emotions. You can influence her mood, which shows that she cares about you. She has a secret crush, but you didn't observe it in the chat. As usual, you didn't go any further. You don't care about her as much as she thinks, like a boy who pursues her, or like a boyfriend. At this time, she will think that you just miss Doby and then run away.