Everyone else, please retreat. To avoid accidental injury.
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I don't know who I offended after the first batch of 90 s. By the end of 65438+February, 12, the WeChat index of "the first batch of post-90s" had reached a peak of 25244682.
It is reported that the earliest slogan was "bald after 90". Since then, Wang Ba shampoo while the iron is hot, launched a small fresh secondary shampoo.
I heard that the sales volume is not bad? !
A string of greasy middle-aged people, Lycium barbarum-flavored thermos cups slowly waved to the post-90s generation. Undoubtedly, they all have a forehead as bright as a100W light bulb, which is a necessary condition for them to become allies and stand in the same trench.
Subsequently, the stomachs of the first batch of post-90 s have been flat, and the first batch of post-90 s have been divorced. What else is there?
After 90, he bent, collapsed and became a monk; Love health, love Buddhism, menopause?
I was flustered when I read the title.
Click in and have a look. I can't help patting my thigh. Isn't this TM talking about me?
Next, I couldn't help it. Top right corner?
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In order to restore the real state of the first batch of post-90s,
We had a conversation about Wang Xiaoxiao in 1990.
Wang Xiaoxiao is 27 years old. She has curly hair and some freckles under her foundation.
As soon as we met, how old do I look?
I said, 23, 4.
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled happily, Chen Tao, you are so hypocritical.
Question: Do you feel bald after 90?
Not yet, but soon. The overlord of the double eleven at home used half of it.
It worked. Look at my hairline. It's growing again.
The second question: Are you divorced after 90?
There must be divorced people around.
A young lady came to vomit and said that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law were contradictory. What should I do if my husband didn't help?
Integral, next question.
What should my husband do when chatting?
Integral, next question.
My husband owes 800,000 cash loans. What should I do? (No children)
Score, next question
Of course, because of the policy of buying a house, there were also fake divorces, but in the end, some people broke up with fake divorces.
Three questions: friends around you, have you bent?
Yes, newcomers often download blued, which is very popular. Whispered to me the next day that the man I met last night was not valuable enough.
Four questions: Have you become a monk?
Yes, not me, but my friend. Go to a temple to be a Buddhist, or go to Zhong Nanshan to be a Taoist.
Personally, I am not surprised. Being alive and avoiding more secularism can make people know themselves more clearly.
Five questions:
What's the difference between those Buddhists mentioned on the Internet (don't fight, don't rob, don't win or lose) and becoming a monk?
This is an insult to becoming a monk. The online rumor that "the first batch of post-90s monks became monks" is actually more like selling out the anxiety of young people, including the pseudo-middle class. You can live better without looking at this kind of thing.
As for why so many people believe it, it may be that everyone is tired of pressure and has been working hard since childhood.
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Are you anxious about Buddhism?
In fact, the person who can ask this question is not your own B?
Work, start a family, buy a house, get married, have children, have a second child, school district, training class?
Think to yourself, to achieve the winner in life, the next second you close your eyes and your family will be happy.
According to the life in the eyes of ordinary people, this is an infinite loop. The only way is to press the pause button. If you don't buy a house, you won't get married and have children?
Of course, this kind of anxiety is inevitable when young people transition from childhood to adulthood. Mitterauer, 1993) thinks that the distinction between childhood and adulthood has the historical legitimacy of five "transitional states": leaving school, seeking a job, leaving home, starting a family and getting married.
In 1960s, clear adult planning was equivalent to a job+a car+a clearly planned career+a house+marriage for middle-class men in Australia.
Compared with the current situation of young people in China, it is exactly the same.
Table of youth stress types
As can be seen from the picture, there is a difference before and after the age of 24. Young people before the age of 24 have the same pressure in knowledge, skills and economic life. After the age of 24, economic pressure skyrocketed.
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Anxiety has turned young people into grasshoppers in an iron pot, but compared with the big wheel of history, these anxieties are still too light.
What have young people in their twenties experienced in history?
Born in the new era and under the red flag, young people born after 50 were once considered as the first generation of red successors. However, the magnificent political movement, the fault of traditional culture, natural and man-made disasters and the lack of materials make them the saddest generation. Wg, going to the countryside and political movements cast a red color on the unity of that era.
The post-60 s youth (post-80 s) is the beginning of reform and opening up. They grow up arrogantly with national obligations, social responsibilities, heroic complex of creating heroes in the current situation and unexplained loyalty. Acting for the film Fanghua.
Including the young people in the 1970s (1990s), they are between the old and the new, representing the youth of movies.
In the past, young people's wish was to eat and wear warm clothes. Now, what about the young people born after 1980s and 1990s? It is a strong personal demand for a better life (one person, one dog, one room and one car).
The rapid development of the country has brought higher and higher personal needs. If you go back to the past, in the planned economy period, anything you owned did not belong to you, but belonged to collective ownership.
Although this reversal will never happen, it is unacceptable.
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The prosperity of the country and the temporary stability of the political situation also mean that the flood has temporarily stopped. Especially young people, the word they are most afraid of hearing is class solidification.
To put it simply, hard work is not necessarily successful, and you will be comfortable without hard work.
What "funeral culture, Buddha's life" is coming. A pair of big and small things in the world are none of my business.
What will our future look like?
Japan has given us the best reference.
Japan developed rapidly in the 1970s and entered an affluent society. In this context, "symptoms of powerlessness" appear.
Simply put, it is the "three noes" state without enthusiasm, emotion and concern. Not only students, but also young people who have just entered the society are often listless and lose their morale.
Think like this, are you familiar with the life of Buddhism?
20 14 A Japanese magazine called Buddhist Men
Japanese "Buddhist male": hobbies rank first, and basically everything is done in the way and rhythm that you like. They don't have girlfriends and they don't get married.
The typical feature is: naivety. Although I am an adult, I still refuse to step into the adult world, and I am still a child. For example, college students will automatically repeat grades and delay graduation.
Even after graduation, I don't want to get in touch with the society and start to live in seclusion.
On July 20 10, a survey of "seclusion" conducted by the Cabinet Office of Japan showed that there were about 700,000 people living in seclusion.
Fortunately, we haven't come this far.
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You can refute loudly:
I am one of the first post-90s generation.
My eyes are not blind, my hair is not bald, and my hairline is safe.
Not greasy, unhealthy, with a big appetite,
No rumors, no religion, no becoming a monk,
There is no financial freedom, and there is no life wasted.
However, in the torrent of this great era, there are still as many as 20 million empty nesters, who gasp anxiously in the group rented houses in Beijing and disappear into the dull tomorrow at the dawn after midnight.
And all this, after 80, has long been bearish.
00, I believe these words will be equally effective ten years later.
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