Confucius said that he "knew his destiny at fifty". "Knowing destiny" is not resigned to fate and governing by doing nothing, but trying hard without seeking results.
After 50 years old, people will know the difficulty of realizing their ideals, so they don't pursue results and need hard work. So, what should a man do when he is fifty-two?
Life is endless, and fighting is endless. When a person reaches the age of 52, he will continue to work hard and contribute his wisdom and strength to the motherland and society.
"If you are far away from the rivers and lakes, you will worry about your husband. If you are high in the temple, you will worry about your people." No matter where one lives, no matter how to advance and retreat, one should think more about others. The ancients still had such a state, and today people always think more about others.
Life lies in sports, and happiness lies in labor and dedication. Some people think that if you eat, drink and be merry every day, you will be happy. As we all know, a person can only be strong if he keeps exercising, create wealth if he keeps working, and move forward lightly if he keeps paying!
At the age of 52, if you are in a national public office, retirement is not far off. You should cherish this wonderful time and do your duty well. If you are self-employed (whether in urban or rural areas), you are actually in the prime of life, so you should further explore the fertile soil of your career and make your career more prosperous.
After a man enters the age of 52, of course, he still has to continue to work hard to do his job well. However, after all, he is not a soft-blooded age, so he should take it easy and pay more attention to self-cultivation.
There is no end to learning. It is never too old to learn. Men after the age of 52 should pay more attention to study. We should learn something in a planned way while doing our job well, which is an effective way to prevent brain degeneration after entering old age. Or deepen professional knowledge in their own business, or study their own interests, or study China traditional cultural classics, or learn health knowledge.
Men who are 52 years old, regardless of their position or wealth, should regard their health as an important goal for the rest of their lives. We should pay special attention to the law of life, eat moderately, correct bad habits in daily life, try not to stay up late, do not overeat, and live a scientific diet.
After a man enters the age of 52, he should keep a peaceful mind and not care too much about the ups and downs of honor and disgrace, fame and fortune. More is to think of others and do more good deeds. To a certain extent, it is to "do good deeds and accumulate virtue."
When a man is 52 years old, his parents' parents-in-law are in their seventies and eighties. They really need to see their children more and listen to their voices more. In particular, the elderly are in poor health and prefer to be taken care of by their children.
When a man reaches the age of 52, his children are all in their twenties, or even close to their thirties. In fact, they still need the help of their parents at this time. As parents, they should either worry about their children's marriage and career or consider how to arrange care for their grandchildren. In short, we need to try our best to help our children.
Some people say that people have done two things well in the past decades, that is, taking the big and taking the small and giving up the old. This statement is of course one-sided and narrow. But for ordinary people, he is not so much fighting for social development as running for supporting his family.
In this sense, a person's contribution to society is to do his job well, raise and educate his children and take good care of the elderly.
It is also said that with the growth of age, especially with the arrival of the aging stage, a person should have his own house, his own pension voucher, his own healthy wife and so on.
These can of course be considered. However, a man who has entered the age of 52 looks really young. In fact, there are many things to do and a long way to go. The most important thing is to continue to make progress and work hard!
I'll tell you a case about this question raised by the subject.
My classmate Lao Cheng is a metre cadre in a municipal institution, because his department is relatively leisure, and he is the kind of person who is not busy within eight hours and not busy outside eight hours. So, just after 50 years old, I began to think, what can I do after retirement? Results In 20 17, when he was 54 years old, his company was restructured. According to the regulations, he can choose between internal retirement and changing his identity, so he chose internal retirement. His idea is that this can not only keep his original identity, but also reduce his salary and do something he wants to do after retirement.
Because Cheng prefers Chinese medicine, according to his own idea, he felt that moxibustion was popular at that time, which could not only treat others, but also protect his family and earn some money to supplement his family.
After retiring, he first went to a moxibustion hall in Tianjin to learn moxibustion techniques for three months. After returning, he invested nearly 300,000 yuan and opened a moxibustion hall in the form of joining.
Before opening, he did a lot of publicity work in various forms, including classmates, fellow villagers, colleagues and acquaintances of relevant units. When he opened the business, he also hosted several tables of banquets, invited some friends who he thought could bring him tourists, and sent some free trial coupons.
At the beginning, his moxibustion hall was really prosperous, because only he had received training, so guests had to queue up. After a month of persistence, he felt that he could not cope with it alone, so he hired two more people. But after a long time, he found that there were more guests at night, weekends and holidays, and fewer guests at ordinary times; And when there are many guests, they have to queue up, and when there are few guests, the three of them have to be idle. In this way, they were busy for a year. By the end of last year 10, in addition to water and electricity, rent, labor wages and franchise fees, more than 2,000 yuan had to be paid. Not only that, but what makes him even more uneasy is that many moxibustion halls have sprung up over the past year or so. Except for the free coupons he issued, the proportion of new customers who come to do moxibustion is not high. Look at his own moxibustion hall. Compared with other moxibustion halls, it has a high degree of homogeneity and no obvious competitive advantage.
Today, students are still in various entanglements, because the franchise contract was originally signed for three years, and it is impossible not to pay the franchise fee. But if he keeps driving, he really doesn't have much confidence and grasp, and his wife has been complaining that his life is very good, but he just knows how to mess around.
This classmate's experience is: if you have a fixed income to support your life, don't think about how to make money after retirement! Because even the best planning can't keep up with the changes in the external environment! Every new industry you set foot in is already crowded with experienced pioneers. Compared with them, you will always be an amateur recruit.
I think my classmates' views are right. First, for retirees who have a fixed job or a guaranteed life, they have entered the second half of their lives in their fifties, and they still have to do something they like according to their own specialties and hobbies, and invest and manage them carefully; If you really want to make some money, don't choose an industry that spans too much from your original job nature, otherwise you may put yourself in an embarrassing situation!
Hello, I'm old Danxia. I am 60 years old now. I officially retired at home last year, and now I live a leisurely retirement life. I use my experience and understanding to answer your question.
How do men plan their future and life after 52 years old?
The ancients said that standing at thirty, not confused at forty, and knowing destiny at fifty. At the age of 50, I have reached the age of knowing my destiny, and I am in a stage where I can't go back to the past and the unknown is still in the future. But the second half of life has just begun. According to the average life expectancy of China, there are still 20 or 30 years to go, so we should plan ahead and live a healthy, happy and fulfilling future every day.
If a person doesn't think about distant things, he will find sadness close at hand. Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished if it is not foreseen. Make plans in advance to prevent and avoid confusion, emptiness and loneliness after retirement, and the evening scenery is bleak.
I think after 50, I should make such a plan for my future and life. I summarized it into seven 1:
First of all, you should have some savings.
Money is not everything, but you can't do anything without it. To improve the quality of life when you are old, you must have money as a guarantee. When I am sick, I have money to see, what I want to buy, what I want to spend, and what I want to travel. In case the children are older, they can also be given some relief in life.
Second, have a good wife.
Young couples are together all their lives, and getting old is the most important thing. It's better to be a good couple than to have a room full of children and grandchildren smiling. Usually, you should pay more attention to your wife's life, help her to be healthy, make her healthy, and accompany you to grow old together. Don't quarrel with your wife, let alone divorce when you are old. This is the taboo for the rest of my life.
Third, we must manage our own nest.
When people are old, they should have their own home to shelter them from the wind and rain. Remember, parents' home is always children's home, and children's home is never parents' home.
Fourth, we should have a healthy body.
Health is the capital of life, which is especially important for people who are about to enter the ranks of the elderly. A strong body is the foundation of wealth and self-reliance. Being old and not dragging down children and getting sick less is the greatest contribution and support for children. From the age of 50, we should strengthen physical exercise, accumulate healthy energy, eat three meals a day reasonably, ensure physical exercise for about an hour every day, go to bed early and get up early, don't stay up late, quit smoking and limit alcohol, and don't overeat.
Make a group of friends.
Take Wan Li Road, read thousands of books, read Wanjuan People. People mix, ghosts live with ghosts. Making more friends is also the only way to broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge and enjoy your mood. When you are old, you should make more friends and communicate with others. The Internet has opened up a platform to communicate with people thousands of miles away. They can make more friends, know people with similar interests, make friends with people of similar age, chat and get together, or exercise and travel together. In this way, you will no longer be lonely in your old age, and someone will help you when you are in trouble.
Sixth, cultivate one of your hobbies.
When you get old, you must have a personal hobby if you want to keep a happy attitude and live a rich and colorful life forever. This can relieve loneliness, eliminate loneliness, and be happy and productive in old age. Never too old to learn, never too old to learn. Hobbies can be recreational hobbies, such as playing chess, dancing and singing instrumental music. It can also be a hobby to continue learning and improve your knowledge and skills, such as calligraphy, reading, doing self-media and so on. Only with hobbies, then you can have yearning and a sense of accomplishment, and people with the same hobbies can also form small groups to enjoy happiness.
Seven, cultivate a good character.
People should have a good temper and personality in their later years, and everything is pleasing to the eye and pleasant to listen to. Put aside social injustice, learn to look at problems comprehensively and objectively, there will be more sunshine and less shadows in life, and there will be less unnecessary troubles in your heart, and you will be an open-minded and cheerful old man. Innocent and frank, tolerant and easy-going, wise and open-minded, natural and unrestrained, indifferent to fame and fortune, open-minded in dealing with others, always maintaining a calm and comfortable attitude, fully enjoying life, enjoying time and enjoying joy.
The above is my life experience, but also my own life experience. Share it with you and the middle-aged and elderly people who are about to enter the ranks of the elderly. Let's make plans in advance and make preparations as soon as possible to lay a solid foundation for our happy and healthy old age.
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