But to tell the truth, a marriage model of an old man with few wives will indeed be more bumpy and difficult than the combination of peers. After all, the age gap will make two people have certain differences in cognition, physical strength and living environment.
However, it is not without happy cases. Take Chyi Chin and Sun Liya as examples. They got married in a low-key way abroad at 20 10, and the age difference was 23 years.
Sun Liya, 18 years old, was "incorporated" by the brokerage company operated by Chyi Chin. At the same time, the girl's innocent and pure face conquered the prodigal Chyi Chin's heart.
You know, Chyi Chin's prodigal son title is not empty. Singer Fang Meifang, goddess actor Joey Wong and Xiao Qiang all had relationships with him.
Who is Cheng Xiang? After all, it is a ten-year marriage with an old husband and few wives, which makes Chyi Chin feel relieved.
Of course, there are still some differences between the love and marriage of actors and ordinary people. However, existence is reasonable, and no one can specify which form of love is right.
Everyone is pursuing happiness in his own way, but the price behind this happiness is for us to pay.
I saw a post on the Internet recently. The owner of the post, Xiao Ning, is a 35-year-old woman, and her husband is 5 1 year old this year.
At the beginning of their relationship, Xiao Ning actively pursued her husband. At that time, Xiao Ning was only 22 years old, and her husband was his leader. At that time, her 38-year-old husband was very attractive in her eyes, mature and steady, and handled things appropriately.
Xiao Ning buried this relationship in her heart, because in her cognition, a 38-year-old quality man must have a wife and children. When she accidentally discovered that this man was single, Xiao Ning felt that it was God's fate for her.
Although women chase men's sandwich yarns, it is still difficult for Xiao Ning to catch up with her husband. Fortunately, the process of love is very sweet, and this man likes Xiao Ning very much.
At that time, Xiao Ning really admired her husband. She felt that boys of the same age were too naive. Only a husband who can make her look up is the only thrill.
After entering the marriage, the two became more and more dull. Behold, in a blink of an eye, my son is ten years old, and the man who once looked up to Xiao Ning has become a fat uncle with a big belly.
Waist is getting wider and wider, hairline is receding, sleeping and snoring, and physical strength is gradually failing. I stare at my blood sugar and blood lipid wholeheartedly every day, and I am scared to death of a little illness. ...
Xiao Ning said in the post that although her husband called for health loudly, he often ate meat and drank too much, and even smelled like an old man.
On one occasion, Xiao Ning followed up a big client, a male of the same age. I was full of praise for Xiao Ning, and asked her to go camping and bungee jumping together, saying that I would be crazy while I was young. After 45, I won't let you play bungee jumping.
Xiao Ning was very excited, but she had to refuse the invitation. When Xiao Ning came home, he told her husband that he would go skiing with him. Her husband coughed several times and said that I couldn't stand such strenuous exercise.
Xiao Ning added, why don't we take our children camping in the wild? The husband hesitated, but refused. It is said that the wind is strong in the wild, it is easy to have accidents at night, and it is safe and practical at home.
Xiao Ning began to doubt his own vision and became more and more disgusted with her husband. She felt that her husband had done nothing wrong, and she just wanted to adjust her ordinary life.
Xiao Ning really wants to make her life more energetic, instead of being so lifeless and seeing the end at a glance. She doesn't know how long her bottom line will last if her husband goes on like this.
When the infatuation in marriage has turned into disgust, this relationship has reached the most dangerous moment. Usually, how fascinated you were, how disgusted you are now.
It can be said that it is a beautiful dream for an old man to have few wives. It contains the moist years of women and the mature charm of men. But when you wake up, there will be many problems that are difficult to reconcile.
Simply put, it is difficult to coordinate the living habits of two people. Usually the elderly live a regular life, go to bed early and get up early. Younger people are the opposite.
In diet, older people usually have begun to pay attention to health, while young people put taste buds first.
At the same time, there will be great differences in physical strength and energy between two people. For example, the extreme sports mentioned by Xiao Ning are really not suitable for the elderly.
Moreover, in this kind of marriage, if men don't pay attention to keep their figure and physical strength, and show their old age, the life of husband and wife is also easily affected.
Moreover, it will also bear some pressure in public opinion and become the talk of others in their leisure time.
Of course, these external factors can be avoided. What I am afraid of is that I can't follow it physically, and I have no intention of accompanying it.
In this way, the wife in marriage will have loneliness and psychological gap. This boundless loneliness is the fatal killer of marriage.
Although the writer Ma De once said, "It is terrible to endure loneliness. Seeing those who enjoy loneliness, they are not afraid at once. "
Unfortunately, in real life, not many young women can enjoy loneliness.