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A 40-year-old nanny lives with an 80-year-old uncle, but her daughter hits Yuanyang. Is it wrong for the elderly to pursue true love?
There is nothing wrong with the elderly pursuing true love, but can love based on money and deception be called true love?

First, grandfathers and grandsons who are 40 years apart are full of calculations. Uncle Li, 85, found a "young" nanny in his forties to serve him because of his physical inconvenience. Unexpectedly, the nanny's mind was not pure, and she borrowed 200,000 from the old man before and after, and did not intend to return it. He also showed the children the record of "sleeping with him". This 200,000 yuan is his extra "overtime pay".

Uncle Li not only volunteered to borrow 200,000 yuan, but also sold the house, using the money from selling the house as a dowry, and had to marry this "young" nanny. This completely angered the uncle's daughter. After all, it's no small matter that the house was sold, so it was just given to an irrelevant outsider.

Second, it is better to help my father find a good wife than to beat Yuanyang. Uncle Li's daughter's objection is actually understandable. After all, after knowing that the nanny has ulterior motives, how can I let my father make mistakes again? However, a daughter should think and reflect on herself, why her biological father actually trusts an outsider more than herself. As the elderly grow older, they need the care of their children more. Although the nanny's love is fake, it compensates Uncle Li's lonely heart to some extent.

If Ms. Li wants to completely solve this kind of thing, she might as well find a suitable wife for her father in the blind date market, help him find true love, or stay away from those with malicious intentions.

Third, eroticism is worth understanding, and the elderly also have needs. With the aggravation of aging, it is no longer unusual for people to fall in love with each other. After all, people are social animals, how can they endure living alone for a long time, especially after children have their own small families. The needs of the elderly should not be ignored. They need someone to accompany, care for, take care of and talk to. Some needs can't be solved by children's company. Finally, we have been looking for true love all our lives, and old people are no different, so they should be.