I once heard a funny and sad saying: Life is too hard, so go to sleep and daydream!

Why are you doing this? Because life will continue no matter how bitter it is, we can only find ways to make life less bitter or have some good expectations.

Just like a book "A Dream" written by Yue Yue. Yue Yue is the host and producer. She graduated from Beijing Foreign Studies University, majoring in international journalism and communication. He was awarded the title of the host of China TV Golden Eagle Award and the "Ingenuity Producer" award of China Variety Summit.

I have hosted many programs-Yangshengtang, I am big doctor, BTV Spring Festival Gala and so on. And love social welfare.

A Sweet Dream contains 36 stories about love, loneliness, health, meeting and parting. The commentator is Yue Yue, who has many years of experience in hosting health programs and emotional programs. For many years, due to professional needs, she has been running around the most extreme stage and hospital in the world. What makes life better is not the thing itself, but the mentality we face. From the story, we know that if life understands love, loneliness and death, then life understands most of them.

Share three stories with you here.

1. Sweet dream

When singing insects don't scream, they are as quiet as death. Uncle hydrangea likes to stare at boxes of all sizes, no matter whether these bugs bark or not, it is his mission to stare at them. Uncle Hydrangea's door is always open. He likes being lively and chatting with people.

Time has been advancing and the environment has been changing. In the previous summer, Uncle Hydrangea liked to move a bench and sit at the door. Anyone passing by will say hello to him. Now most of the residential areas are newly moved, and almost all the old residential areas that Uncle Hydrangea is familiar with have moved to new residential areas. So the neighborhood where Uncle Hydrangea lives will be quiet and terrible all morning. There is no crying of children. Only uncle hydrangea sat in the house, looking at the bug, and then at his watch. 10:30 It's time to get up and go to the kitchen to cook, because he wants to deliver rice to Aunt Hydrangea.

Aunt hydrangea is the person who has been hospitalized for the longest time I have heard. Seven or eight years ago, I heard from my parents that she had a stroke and was hospitalized. However, it is hard for me to imagine that a person who speaks super loudly and quarrels can win the whole world will one day become a woman who can't say the whole sentence with her mouth open.

Aunt hydrangea is good at making clothes. She turned her small balcony into a small workshop. Everyone shows him fabrics and magazines, and she can always make the same skirt or trousers in three days.

Everyone will get together in the free time when the children are asleep and the husband goes to play cards to discuss how to improve the design to stop the growing fat.

Uncle hydrangea loves chatting and the prosperity of his own threshold. He brings you water and tea, and Aunt Hydrangea is his queen and goddess. Later, I was sent to boarding school by my parents and went home occasionally on weekends. I seldom see Uncle and Aunt Hydrangea, but as long as I see Aunt Hydrangea, I am deeply impressed by enthusiastic middle-aged women.

I like her enthusiasm, but I was unprepared to hear that she suddenly collapsed while cooking in the kitchen. After being sent to the hospital, he was diagnosed with a stroke.

Because she was not sent to the hospital in time, some of Aunt Hydrangea's brain functions were damaged, she could not speak, her arms and hands were not neat, it was even more difficult to walk, and she needed help to go to the toilet. The doctor suggested staying in a rehabilitation hospital for a while. Uncle hydrangea opened his eyes wide and said, "Is it possible for her to make clothes?"

The doctor paused for a second and said, "Believe in science, miracles happen every day."

With the help of doctors and nurses, Aunt Hydrangea's limbs recovered well. However, another problem caused by stroke began to emerge, that is, forgetting things, resisting communication and losing your temper.

Once the shrimp porridge brought by the book of hydrangea was knocked over by Aunt Hydrangea, and Uncle Hydrangea's heart was broken. This bowl of porridge was safely brought to the hospital by Uncle Hydrangea from the selection of materials to the boiling and filling. This is all his painstaking efforts. It was not only this bowl of porridge that broke my heart after being knocked over by Aunt Hydrangea, but also because Aunt Hydrangea didn't know Uncle Hydrangea.

Later, I heard from my mother that the hydrangea book sold the house and moved to a nursing home. However, in June 20 16, Aunt Hydrangea died of lung infection. On March 20 17, Uncle Hydrangea died of cancer.

Maybe one day they will meet in their dreams. Hydrangea may be wearing a flowered skirt and riding a bike. Ball book and he stopped at a traffic light at the same time. At the moment when their eyes met, there was slow motion and side backlight that often appeared in movies. It happened that they were 26 years old that day.

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During the meeting, she brushed her mobile phone bored and kept switching between Taobao and WeChat friends circle to see the latest news of friends circle.

I learned the news that he proposed successfully. There are balloon doors and peony bouquets, restaurants with crystal lights and gardens with white horse sculptures. In the photo, he just hugged another girl, and he actually smiled with tears.

This reminds her that three days ago, he sent a text message saying that he wanted to propose, and she hastily replied "You should be fine"!

He thought she would be surprised and answer later. Unexpectedly, there was no hesitation or doubt. She said it at least 20 times in the three years of separation. She hasn't changed at all. She is a cold-blooded, willful and selfish bastard.

Once, he just resigned and started a business. There are only three people in the new company, so he can't afford to rent an office. He works in his own guest room. There are three strong men sitting on the canvas bed, each of whom has a computer full of cigarette butts. She felt sorry for him, so she washed and cooked at home every day and occasionally went out to give English lessons to her children. She said that she was the most versatile housewife, and she was going to the kitchen under the podium. He grabbed her and kissed her, and the stubble stung her chin.

When they were as light as cicadas, they quarreled together for 24 hours. When she loses her temper, she is like a hysterical woman. She hit people, smashed things and tore up the photos, but every time he cried with him, because he couldn't stand it, so he cried.

In order to prove that they will never leave him, they went to a tattoo shop together. Although his mother always says that men are unreliable, he thinks he can definitely go because he has his name on him. Where else could he go?

When they came to the tattoo shop, they cut stones and cloth, and whoever won came first. When she lost, she laughed and said that it didn't hurt at all, not as bad as her period. He is still clutching his heart. This is a great ceremony, more grand than pointing to the sky and showing the sun. Tattooing is a lifetime thing.

She broke up.

Two people stay together for five years, break up for one year, and the last two years are their own peace!

In 1 year, they were deleted several times. Later, a compromise was reached and the circle of friends opened up. I just don't know if they are in a special group. The boy's mother will call him from time to time and ask him how he is and when he will go home for dinner.

Time is the first weapon in the world. From a month without contact to a few months, they may not be able to send a WeChat. They live in peace at the same time.

The night after his successful proposal, everyone got drunk at a small dinner party. All three friends who started a business together know that she is a hurdle for him. He drinks himself into an idiot every time, shouting that he is willing to bear all the sins for her, not afraid of death. So the three brothers were curious about what he looked like and what he was thinking at the moment.

He just smiled and said that he knew I had proposed and wished me well. He looked at the name on his arm and felt a sharp pain. From now on, he has a woman to take care of, and a wife can't take care of her.

With someone else's name on your body, even if you try your best to avoid it and never see it again, it has left an indelible connection in the universe. If life is a husband and wife with no regrets, how boring it would be if you really have no regrets.

Love is a harvest, thank you for giving me so much, I love you so much, you should be good.

Choose not to be afraid.

In this world, there is no difficulty in choosing phobia, just because those eight words are "not urgent enough" or "not desirable".

Once, a friend was pursued by two men at the same time. One is a well-off, plain-looking, middle-level cadre of state-owned enterprises, honest and boring. The other is the coach of the ski club. He is a big shot, loves freedom, has no savings but is very interesting.

When friends were having dinner together, she told us about the two people. I hope everyone can give us ideas, listen to your opinions and give yourself a reference value.

That night, there were 3 votes for men in state-owned enterprises and 2 votes for ski instructors, but the real ending was that both parties refused and they are still single. Because she said it was more interesting to watch your discussion than to date them, so I decided to forget it. Let's not waste time.

I still remember that in the plot of episode 1 of Friends, the bride fled the wedding in a wedding dress for the simple reason that she saw a juice jug among the gifts when she was sitting in a cafe telling her friends about her mental journey. She felt that the pot was simply beautiful and found that she loved it more than her future husband, so she resolutely fled the marriage and ended the foreseeable marriage tragedy for the first time.

Although there may be some dramatic exaggeration, the author agrees with the view that some people are very decisive in the face of real life events.

In the course of my personal work, this happened. It is a reality show requested by Taiwan Province, but it is not ideal to participate in several programs. Shooting is just around the corner, and the leader is a little anxious. Later, in a rage, I became a producer, director and host myself, and the program will start in a month.

I sat in the car for an hour after work. Because self-awareness is only a small master, and it doesn't have that great ability to complete it, but on the other hand, it is also telling itself why not try. Finally, after five months, the program 12 finally went live. I hope people will last for a long time. 1 season is the first self-made outdoor reality show of Beijing TV station. Among them, Liu Xiaoqing's drama series won 1 in the national ratings.

She is very grateful to the trust of the leader for giving her a chance, and also thanks herself for bravely taking it down and trying to finish it.

Forget who said that, there is nothing urgent in a person's life, and it has been done without thinking. Life is nothing but life and death, and it is not difficult to choose small things.

On June 7th, 20 18, Boda, a famous sports presenter in Taiwan Province province, was tortured by adenocarcinoma, and accompanied by his family, he flew to Switzerland to choose euthanasia. Finally, lying in his son's arms, he ended his life with the songs of his family and went to a painless paradise.

You can't choose how to live, but it is great to choose how to die and how to face death!

This story tells us whether we need to cherish every opportunity to make our own decisions and the warmth of discussion.

These three stories are about people and things in different times, but in the end they are all inseparable from the word "love"! There is a sense of marriage for middle-aged people, a sense of youth for young people, and family affection.

When dealing with different feelings at different stages, everyone has different feelings, but fortunately, he did not go to extremes and left the beauty in his heart.

Zhang Ailing once said: "Because I have loved, I am merciful; Because I know that I am tolerant. "