No matter how busy a woman is, she must have her own circle. Many times, as soon as we get married, especially when we have children, we start to take care of our children, our husbands and in-laws, but we forget ourselves and slowly lose touch with our friends. But sometimes we feel very lost, why men can still play outside and eat and drink with their buddies. So, you began to give up on yourself and start looking for all kinds of troubles. Look in the mirror and get rid of a disgruntled woman.
If we take part in activities such as flower arranging or reading, enter various study circles and integrate ourselves into the activities, you will find that after marriage, we will also have our own wonderful life.
Second, with a certain economic foundation, even full-time mothers should have their own jobs or small businesses.
Even if the husband loves enviably, even if the dog food is sprinkled, people want to divorce and find a new husband. We should all have our own jobs or small businesses. Even if we are full-time mothers, we can arrange our time reasonably and have our own small business while taking care of the family.
No matter how much you earn, you will always feel that you are in a state of youth.
Third, pay more attention to skin care and physical maintenance.
I have a little sister who complains to me. She said: When I was a child, I had a really good figure and good skin. I don't need makeup. My husband was dumped by my natural looks. But now, I feel that I can't put any powder on it, and my clothes have grown since childhood. Although my husband doesn't say anything, I know he still hates me.
Admittedly, we can't guarantee that the skin will always be young, and time and tide wait for no man, especially the obese constitution. If we add the sneak attack of having children and age, we can't resist. However, in fact, the skin can be maintained.
I didn't believe it before, until last year, when I was overworked, I didn't have time to take care of my skin, and my condition was very, very bad. Then, during the Chinese New Year break and the epidemic, we will adjust our work and rest, add masks every morning and evening, and add SP machine recommended by our good sister Haijuan, ginseng skin care series of Shanmeiren and Xiaoqiu's mask. I don't wear makeup now, but I obviously feel that my skin is much better than before. Suddenly I feel that every day is so beautiful.
As for the figure, it is still not as good as when I was young, but at least I escaped from the image of an oversized aunt last year under my self-discipline, and now I always wear medium clothes. A few days ago, I used WeChat Qingqi to prepare to go to her yoga studio to accept her evils. Unfortunately, at present, we can only send it to Pippi via WeChat, asking her to send a set of traditional Chinese medicine foot bath products and prepare a new slimming plan.
I am a 40-year-old middle-aged woman, and I am not afraid of being old. I hope you do the same.
Fourth, travel frequently and read more books.
There is a saying that reading can experience a thousand kinds of life, so reading can make people happy and improve the happiness of life. It is also said that if you don't travel, you will never know the customs in the world.
"Whether studying or traveling, there must always be a body and soul on the road."
I like buying books, and I used to like reading books, but because of my busy work, I have no time to settle down and read books. During the Chinese New Year, I read some books with my daughter. I didn't want them, and my mind was greatly released.
In fact, traveling is not expensive, but what is expensive is that we don't have this determination. Some people are very rich, both in money and time. But stay in your corner forever.
I had a good chat with the netizen eiko. Every time she said, "Sister, I really envy you for going to Yunnan often. I can travel while working. My husband doesn't like traveling. I can't go anywhere I want. "
I smiled and said to her, "Girl, do you know? I like traveling alone or with three or two friends. Why do you have to go with your husband? "
Years ago, my iron honey just pushed away the man, put down the child and set foot on a trip to Bali. I wanted to go with them, because I was full of work years ago and couldn't get out.
You don't know, seeing these women in tube skirts, Chen sang a song in front of the beach. Really, I saw us when we were young.
Actually, we can all do it.
Fifth, have your own hobbies. If you can treat your hobbies as a small business, so much the better.
The year before last, I knew that Fang Ying was my first flower group. Because of a friend's recommendation, her husband added my WeChat and bought her a bunch of roses. Fang Ying is a very romantic and quality-oriented woman. Because she is pregnant and has a baby, she works in Futian, but her husband is in Longgang, and she has to take a bus for several hours every day. In order to take care of her husband's work in the long run, she quit Futian's high-paying job.
After resigning, it is also a variety of tossing. During the period, I sold health care products and had insurance, but I always couldn't find what I liked, the feeling of despair.
She met me because of flowers. She really likes flowers from the bottom of her heart She said that since there were flowers at home, she would be fine. Later, she became the shopkeeper of Zhenhuake. She sent me a long message. She said,' Yuxuan, I've thought about it for a long time. I like flowers and decided to follow you to do business well. "
This woman not only lives well, but also is not afraid of hardship. Whenever the studio wants flowers, she always comes first, and never comes home empty-handed, either bringing us breakfast or afternoon tea.
Don't drink tea, don't sit down, and directly start helping Yiyi to work. I remember the month when Yiyi went to Kunming to study floral art. When it was time to spend, I looked at the pile of roses and was worried. To tell the truth, I'm not good at work. Although I have always called myself a woman's sweat paper, she said, "Yuxuan, I'll stab the rose, so you don't have to worry about it."
Just like this woman, there will be times of confusion and loss, but as long as she comes to see me, she will always smile. I said to Teacher Wu, "Give her to me, and I will take her to bask in the sun."
Years ago, I asked her to follow me to study floral art in Kunming, our headquarters of Zhenhua Guest, and had a long talk with her and made a long-term plan together. She began to get out of control, and the bouquet of flowers had a soul in an instant under her design.
During the epidemic, the headquarters was asked to send flowers several times and insisted on recording short videos of flowers. Under the guidance of teacher Buyi, the recording is better every time.
I really burst into tears when I saw the video she recorded last night. Confident, calm and lovely. This is really another Fang Ying. I have actually seen her new navigation mark in 2020 and her future. If a woman can have her own hobby and turn it into her own small business, then she will basically control her life and happiness.
30 years old is really not small. What should we do in the new year? After listening to the above stories and tips, did we find the feeling: find ourselves first, and then act!
2020.02.24?