Two bends seem to frown, and a pair of eyes seem to be happy.

The state has two sorrows, and it is sick. Tears a little, breath slightly.

Laziness shines on the water like a beautiful flower and acts like a weak willow. The heart knows better than the stem, and the disease is not as good as the west.

Personality characteristics:

Lin Daiyu is an extremely clever talented woman. Her talent is the crown of the Grand View Garden and the goddess of wisdom. She lost her parents when she was a child and was put in foster care at her grandmother's house. Although she is grandma's "sweetheart", she can't get rid of a sense of loneliness because of her sensitivity. Especially the love for Baoyu is almost neurotic. In an environment like Rong Guofu, the more sensitive people are, the more unbearable they are. The tragedy of Daiyu is that she can't pretend to be "confused" like Baochai. She's too smart. Sharp-edged, and finally tragic.

For Daiyu's character, most people both pity and sigh. Maybe she is a little arrogant and mean, but at the very least, she shows her true nature and self, not the proper manners bound by feudal ethics. To be a modern person, you should also have personality and true feelings. Don't let the counterflow advocating hypocrisy stifle positive innocence. In order to gain a foothold in society, we need different masks, but masks are not real faces. How sad a person is if he can't even tell the truth from the false? Daiyu's uniqueness may offend some people, but she can have the greatest happiness and freedom, although it is only spiritual. Maybe we can't publicize our personality and have to wrap our hearts in a thick cocoon. But as long as there is still heart, vision, calm thinking and enthusiasm for reform, we will surely wait until the spring that breaks our heart.

If it is only true temperament and true self, Daiyu can't compare with Xiangyun. But what is more valuable to Daiyu is her rebellious spirit. The death of Daiyu is not only due to the despair of love and the rebirth of freedom, but also the resistance of the weak and the protest of blood and tears. In the pursuit of ideals and persistence in faith, should we be as persistent and unswerving as she is? What choice should we make when we are in cahoots, insensitive, brave and sober? I admire Daiyu's character because of her truth and because of her resistance. All the loneliness and loneliness she suffers are sand in a clam, which makes her as dazzling as a pearl. I hope that modern society can have more true feelings and even be more tolerant of Daiyu's personality.

Xue Baochai:

All roads lead to gold and jade. I only saw the alliance between wood and stone.

Facing the sky, the nobles in the mountains are crystal clear with snow; I will never forget the lonely forest in the world.

Sighing the world, the fly in the ointment; Even in the case of Qi Mei, its significance is hardly flat. Ren ruthless, moving.

Personality characteristics:

Baochai has the most standard feudal class women's moral character. She is "square in character and beautiful in appearance" and "open-minded in behavior, keeping up with the times", which is liked by Fu Rong's masters and slaves. The author also said that she "doesn't talk much, and people call it hidden stupidity; Be quiet and self-disciplined at all times. "According to the standards of virtuous women at that time, she almost reached the impeccable' perfect' level. But she is too adapted to the surrounding environment, and sometimes she helps evil forces unconsciously. She is not only the defender of feudal ethics, but also the victim of feudal morality.

Opening the world's comments on Baochai is mainly derogatory. However, in that cannibal society, how many people know the bitterness of women? When thousands of years of feudal system almost completely deprived women of their rights, who can read women's desires? All Baochai wants is a good spiritual habitat and a good wife and mother. Baochai is not only the inheritor of feudal thought, but also the victim. Maybe in modern society, she can find her true self. Money manager, she is no worse than Tanchun; Singing poetry, she and Daiyu each lead the way; A hundred schools of thought contend, and no one can beat them. And the pursuit of love, resigned tenacity, can be transformed into competitiveness, making her even more powerful. Perhaps in modern society, Baochai can become a real "snow in the mountains", and the family can rule the country and level the world.

Wang Xifeng:

What a coincidence! Forget it!

Heartbroken before death, ethereal after death. The rich are richer; In the end, there will be one, and the family will be ruined.

Hanging in my heart for half my life is a waste of time. Night is like a dream. Suddenly it's like a building,

Groggy and miserable, like a extinguished lamp. Ah! One happy and one sad. Sigh the world, it's hard to decide!

Personality characteristics:

Wang Xifeng is a miss Wang who said in the official amulet that "the Dragon King came to invite King Jinling". Take Fu Rong Jia Lian as his wife. Her aunt is Jia Zheng's wife, Mrs. Wang and Baoyu's mother. The era when Xifeng Wang was in charge of the housekeeper's power in Fu Rong was already a period of decline for this family. Xifeng Wang is actually the axis of daily life of Guo Rong Tower. She is beautiful, smart, articulate and smart. Qin Keqing said to her in a dream, "You are a hero in the pink team, even those men in high hats can't pass you." Ability to manage everything. However, she is vicious by nature. In order to satisfy endless greed, she embezzles money, lends usury and accepts huge bribes every month. For this reason, she can kill people without blinking an eye and do anything immoral. She is a female demon who eats people and doesn't spit bones. Her talents and her sins are mixed together like water and flour. Therefore, Jia Jia fell, and she was the first unlucky one. She wanted to end her short life sadly.

Xifeng's fiery personality left a deep impression on many people. However, her ferocity is supported by high prestige and tough wrist. Of course, boldness and prudence also established her prestige. In modern society, she belongs to the type of strong woman, dignified and exquisite. However, her viciousness makes her career unable to be really big, because the power of benevolent people is far greater than conspiracy and means. Maybe she can be arrogant for a while, but she can't be crazy for a lifetime. To be kind to others is to buy insurance for your own failure, so that peaceful and humble people can stand on their feet for a long time.

Maybe we have certain abilities, ambitions and ambitions, but please don't forget humility and obedience, which are not only the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but also one of the good qualities needed by modern society.

Li Wei:

Kindness in the mirror is more worthy of fame in the dream! Any news about that beautiful young man?

Don't mention the embroidery account again. Only by wearing a pearl crown and a phoenix coat can we resist impermanence.

Although it is, life should not suffer from old age and poverty, but also need to accumulate children and grandchildren. High spirits, wearing tassels,

Brilliant, with a golden seal on his chest, Wei Hehe, Jue Deng,-faint and miserable, and the yellow road is near!

Can ancient generals still exist? It's just a hollow reputation. Later generations admire it.

Personality characteristics:

Li Wan is Baoyu's sister-in-law. She married her husband Jia Zhu and gave birth to Jia Lan. Soon after, her husband passed away. Li Wan and her in-laws Wang Xifeng are just the opposite. Xifeng Wang is like a fire, and she is like a pile of ashes; Wang Xifeng is like a sharp sword, and she is like a piece of dough; Wang Xifeng is greedy, and she is at peace with the world. Among the women in the Grand View Garden, she is the least known. She doesn't care about others, and others don't care about her. The Jia family is not backward. Jia Lan must study for fame, and only by "wearing a hairpin" and "hanging a golden seal on his chest" can he become a big official; Li Wan will wear a pearl crown, cloak and coat for this purpose.

It seems unimaginable that modern people run out of youth for a dead love and so-called praise from others. It seems that she is not really determined to bury her desire for love, but has to make a helpless choice under the poison and pressure of feudal ethics. In a free, equal and open modern society, Li Wan's tragedy should not be repeated. She should learn to be brave, forget, be happy, and be desperate for her true happiness.

Jia Yuanchun:

I like splendor, but I hate impermanence.

Look, throw everything away. Leisure, the soul is consumed. Looking around, the road is long, and the mountains are high.

So, I told my parents in my dream: My son's life is in the grave, and my family needs to take a step back and come out early!

Personality characteristics:

Yuan Chun is the highest-ranking woman in Fu Rong. Jia Jiaxuan's influence depends not only on his ancestors' fame and fortune, but also on the important relationship of his family's "Emperor and Mother". When Yuan Chun died, the patron fell down, and this aristocratic family that has experienced a hundred years will soon fall apart. Although there are few opportunities for Yuan Chun to appear in the book, her existence is closely related to the rise and fall of this big family.

Yuan Chun's character can be said to be a model of upper-class women in feudal society. Yuan Chun, who is known as "virtuous and filial" and has the title of "virtuous princess", has long been accustomed to a well-behaved life, and has similarities with Baochai, which is why she likes Baochai.

Jia Yingchun:

Zhongshan Wolf, a ruthless beast. I don't care about the root cause of that day.

Blind, arrogant, lustful and greedy. Look at that, Houmen banquet is the same as Liu Pu;

For practitioners, government money is as obscene as money. Sighing the fragrance of the soul, carrying a long swing.

Personality characteristics:

Yingchun's character can be summed up in one word-weakness. A weak person, if born in a stable environment and a well-off family, may become a good wife and mother. However, in the increasingly competitive modern society, the weak are bound to be helpless to the tide of change, helpless under the action of external forces, and even crushed. Women are already a vulnerable group. If they don't have self-esteem, take the initiative to control their own destiny and fight bravely, how can they stand on their own feet? We don't advocate aggressive women, but we don't advocate women who are as weak as water.

Jia Tanchun:

Sail three thousand miles through the storm and throw your flesh and blood home together. I'm afraid crying will damage my old age.

Tell your parents not to worry: poverty has been fixed since ancient times and there is no possibility of separation.

From now on, we will be divided into two places, each keeping safe. I want it back, don't get involved.

Personality characteristics:

Tanchun's talent and ability are not inferior to that of Xifeng. If Xifeng manages the family by tough means, Tanchun is more brilliant, and she has carried out more thorough reforms in the gentle breeze and drizzle, which not only achieved the purpose of managing the family, but also won everyone's respect and heartfelt support.

In modern society, such management talents are undoubtedly the best-win everyone's love, live in harmony with everyone, and lose their prestige. Such a team is more cohesive and competitive than a team under high pressure.

Personally, her management style is also the embodiment of her good character. We should learn from Tan Chun's attitude and leadership, and deal with interpersonal relationships while showing our talents, instead of being narcissistic or bullying others.

Jia Xichun:

How about seeing through those three springs?

Knock out youth and find a bright sky. What do you mean there are many peaches in the sky and many apricots in the cloud?

Who saw Qiu survive? Look, people in baiyang village are sobbing, and ghosts are singing under the green maple forest.

What's more, even the sky fades, and the grass also covers the grave. What's more, the poor and the rich worked hard yesterday, and the spring and autumn flowers withered.

Like this, who can escape life and death? According to the news, the precious trees in the west are called whirling trees with lasting fruits.

Personality characteristics:

Xichun is the daughter of Jia Jing, the capital of Ningguo, and Jia Zhen's sister. She is the youngest of Jia's four daughters. Since she was a child, she hated the world and longed to be a nun. When she was a child, she loved to play with the clever children of the little nun in Shantou Temple, and later she became friends with Miaoyu. Cherish the spring watched the empress' elder sister Yuan Chun die short-lived, the second sister was tortured to death soon after she got married in the spring, and the third sister Tanchun married in a foreign country with little news and no good experience, so she "sees through the world of mortals" and decided to become a monk. According to Zhi Yanzhai's comment on writing, she will have the experience of "begging" in the future, that is, begging along the street for a living, which is really pitiful.

Qin Keqing:

Painting beams in spring leaves fragrant dust. Being good at amorous feelings and grasping the moon phase is the foundation of losing home.

Losing power is respectful, and the death of family affairs is the original sin. Always because of love!

Personality characteristics:

Qin Keqing's father, Qin Ye, who is now in his seventies, died young. Because there were no children that year, he took a son and a daughter to the Yangshengtang. Who knows that his son died again, leaving only his daughter, nicknamed Kerr. When he grew up, he was elegant and romantic. Because he had something to do with Jia family, he got married and promised to marry Jia Rong. Because she is graceful, gentle and peaceful, she is "her most proud great-grandson daughter-in-law". In terms of running a family, she is not inferior to Xifeng. Feng just flatters his superiors, but people still complain. It is really not easy for Ke Qing to manage Ningfu properly from top to bottom. Her personality is also very strong, and she is hard outside and soft inside, unlike Xifeng, who is sharp-edged and aggressive. The only accusation against her focused on her and Jia Zhen's "climbing ash".

Qin Keqing, "Love can be light". "Love is deeper than boundless love, and when you meet, you are the main prostitute"; "Being good at customs and grasping the appearance of the moon is the foundation of losing your home." This is an essential summary of her character. In fact, Ke Qing is not necessarily a slut, and her behavior is not necessarily sincere. People can't help themselves in the Jianghu, even if it's just humiliation. "Compromise for perfection and bear the burden of humiliation" is survival. We are lucky to be born now. We don't have to face a dilemma, but we should also give her tolerance and understanding. Ke Qing's character is excellent. Isn't it a pity to sneer at it because of a stain?

Jia:

Stay in Qing Yu, stay in Qing Yu, and suddenly meet a benefactor;

Lucky mother, lucky mother, accumulate yin work. Persuade students to help the poor.

Don't be a cruel uncle like me, a traitor who loves money and forgets flesh and blood! It's multiplication, division, addition and subtraction, with the sky on it.

Personality characteristics:

Qiaojie is the only daughter of Wang Xifeng. The picture before the judgment suggests that she will marry a plowman and become a rural woman who cooks and textiles. How great a change it is to change from a rich and luxurious public servant to a peasant woman who feeds pigs and beats dogs! In the author's view, this is also a mockery of fate. According to the implication of Zhen's "Choose Frost Beams and Live in Smoke Alley", it is speculated that she will be sold to a brothel as a prostitute, and later rescued by Granny Liu, and married to Granny Liu's grandson. This speculation can be found in the book. In Chapter 41, Qiaojie and Banel exchange grapefruit and bergamot, which probably indicates their future relationship. Banel is a farmer's child. There is no doubt that he will become a farmer in the future. Only by marrying him can he spin and weave. Gao E also wrote that Jia Huan, Jia Yun and others set a trap to sell Qiaojie to a foreign vassal's county king as a concubine. Grandma Liu stole it from the countryside and married it to the son of a big landlord through a matchmaker (she is a scholar! ), and the author's intention is quite a distance.

"If you are defeated, you can't talk about your family." It is a lament for the coldness of the upper class and the indifference of the world. It's granny Liu, a poor old woman, who is always thinking of flooding in return, making people feel the good side of human nature.

Shi Xiangyun:

When I was a baby, my parents lamented their death. Living in the jungle, who knows how to pet it?

Fortunately, natural heroes are generous and never care about their children's affairs.

In that way, the moonlight was bright in Yutang. This fellow deserves to be both talented and handsome, and has won for a long time.

When I was a child, I must have folded into a bumpy shape. Finally, the clouds disappeared and the water dried up the Xiangjiang River.

This is the number of ups and downs in the world, so why waste your sadness.

Personality characteristics:

Xiangyun came to the Grand View Garden, which was her happiest moment. At this time, she laughed loudly, lively and naughty. However, when I had to go home, my mood suddenly became cold. I repeatedly urged Baoyu to remind Grandmother Jia that she often came to pick her up. She left in tears, which shows that life at home is very unsatisfactory. The result of such a handsome and cheerful daughter is that her married life is like a beautiful sunset.

In the eyes of modern people, Shi Xiangyun's personality is the cutest. First of all, she is kind and approachable. In line with the communication standards of modern society, such people can easily make friends. Although Xiangyun comes from a big family, she is not arrogant, which is really commendable. Secondly, she is broad-minded and cheerful. She never complains about her misfortune, but she is good at making fun of it. Modern people advocate progress in setbacks and success in adversity, so they need Shi Xiangyun's generosity and attitude towards life. In addition, she is simple and honest, with no distractions. It is trustworthy to associate with such people. If we have more people like Shi Xiangyun around us, life will be straightforward, and we don't have to worry about being suspicious and fighting with others all day.

For modern people, getting along with such a woman will be more relaxed and lively, and there will be no sense of burden. In a tense life atmosphere, people need such company more than Xue Baochai, who is lifeless and preaching, or Lin Daiyu, who loves to cry and upset you. Modern women also like this kind of same-sex friend, because she is warm and easy-going, never impatient, never haggle over every ounce, has no right and wrong, and will not pose a threat to you. For men who want to make confidantes, Shi Xiangyun-style women should also be the best choice. She will talk to you about the past and the present; She will associate with you in a generous and measured way.

Shi Xiangyun seems careless and careless, but he is actually a man of great wisdom. Baochai commented on her like this: "Say you have no heart, but in fact you have a heart-although you have a heart, your mouth is too straight." In fact, Shi Xiangyun has her own mind, independent personality, never relying on others, quite personality, and a little progressive consciousness of modern women. The shaping of this character has gone beyond the limitations of the times. Today, in the 2 1 century, it is more and more brilliant and radiant. Of the twelve women in Chai Jin and even the whole Dream of Red Mansions, she is the most perfect, authentic and stereoscopic one. No wonder she has won the recognition and love of modern people.

Miaoyu:

Temperament is as beautiful as orchid, and talent is rich in fairy. Loneliness is human nature, and everyone is rare.

Your way is to spit out the meat and see the continuation of the front edge as vulgar; But I don't know that the more jealous good people are, the cleaner the world will be.

Alas, the people in the ancient temple of Deng Qing are getting old and lonely, and the pink building is full of spring! Finally,

It's still dirty, against your will; In that way, the flawless white jade was stuck in the mud; Why, the prince sighed?

Personality characteristics:

Miaoyu is also a leader in the Grand View Garden. She is said to be "clean" because she thinks the secular society is disturbing and unclean, and she has entered an empty door, which is a layer of meaning; She has a "cleanliness addiction" again. She wants to be spotless, but that society will not prepare such conditions for her, and fate will arrange for her to go to the most unclean place. Becoming a monk according to the rules is to "destroy six roots", but she insists on "practicing with development", which is a basis for her not to destroy her true heart.

In the eyes of modern people, the elusive wonderful jade can only be out of reach. No matter at work or in life, her aloofness separates herself from society like an invisible glass cover. Such efforts to wrap themselves up and pursue psychological cleanliness may avoid a lot of harm, but they cannot integrate into normal interpersonal communication and obtain happiness and happiness. Even if the world is dirty, people can't be alone. While not drifting with the tide, we should have the courage to face difficulties positively and transform the environment. This is the true wisdom we advocate.