Introduction: The loveliness of A Dream of Red Mansions lies in that "every reading will make you realize something, and every understanding is different, and you will feel bitter in the book, but in fact you will feel sad", which makes you fondle it-many people are keen on A Dream of Red Mansions, especially female friends, and like the love stories full of resentment and popularity, and so am I, an out-and-out red fan. But in the process of reading, I believe many friends will be as confused as I am about some things in it, and there are many puzzles. Because this book is all-encompassing and involves endless complexity, it is difficult to interpret and analyze it comprehensively and systematically at my current level. I can only understand some experiences from a point I am interested in. I hope I can communicate with my friends, and I hope I can give you more opinions and correct me! If you are laughed at, you should respond "Why don't you do something boring and there will be no life" to avoid shame. Today, I mainly want to discuss with you who Jia Baoyu loves, who is his spiritual idol, who accompanied him through the last paragraph of his life, how some major women in the book ended up, and so on. When we read through A Dream of Red Mansions, it seems that all the women in it like Jia Baoyu, but one seems to dislike it. I believe that everyone who has seen A Dream of Red Mansions will feel this way more or less, which is very puzzling. Some people may say that Jia Baoyu written by Cao Xueqin is a playboy and a real dude, who uses his power position to play with others. If we insist on this view, I have no objection. Different people have different views, and wise people have different views. Disagreements are precious, and we don't want to disagree. But personally, I think Jia Baoyu should be a liberal who is faithful to love and insists on faith. At the same time, it is a deep-water bomb that opposes arranged marriage and hates feudal ethics. If you don't agree, you can take a closer look. There are many examples in the book. Let's put aside this topic and talk about the creative techniques of A Dream of Red Mansions first, which will help us understand its deep meaning correctly in the process of discussion. A Dream of Red Mansions (the first eighty chapters) adopts the writing technique of "a tree with thousands of branches, infinitely magnified, grass and snake lines, thousands of miles of veins, no one sees it, first hears its voice, combines points and faces, and takes care of it". At the same time, based on the political sensitivity of feudal autocracy at that time, Cao Xueqin deliberately confused the audience in time description, pretending to be in Tang Han, and skillfully used the "great shift of time and space" The whole book "A Dream of Red Mansions" is very smooth to read, echoing back and forth, compact in structure, able to thread the needle without losing time, and properly contrasted. It's really worth writing, including almost all the writing skills. Among the many loves described in A Dream of Red Mansions, it is difficult for us to tell what happened between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai and Shi Xiangyun, and what was the final outcome. Jia Baoyu and his two personal maids, Xiren and Qingwen, also have many things that we can't understand, and some vague things. For example, Jiao Da, an old servant of the Jia family, once scolded after drinking: "Climb the ashes and raise your brother-in-law." If you want to understand these problems, you have to read the fifth episode of A Dream of Red Mansions carefully. "Wonderland refers to a dream of red mansions played by twelve women drinking fairy mash." It is said that Jia Baoyu followed his elders to visit Ningguo House and took a nap in Jia Rong's room at noon. Under the guidance of Qin Keqing, he dimly entered the dreamland and met a police fairy, who took Jia Baoyu to roam in the dreamland to help him solve his doubts. Who is the police illusion? Legend has it that the fairy in the sky is in charge of the fate of beautiful women on earth. She claims to be a police fairy who is far away from hating the sky, drowning in the sea of sorrow and releasing the fragrant caves in the spring mountains. Her duty is to "manage the affair between men and women, and manage the secular men and women." The reason why it is called the police illusion is to remind people to be alert to the illusion. In fact, police illusion is the product of illusion and lust. In the dreamland, she also taught Jia Baoyu the affair between men and women and taught him what is the "right way of adultery". She also said: "I love you, she is the first prostitute in the world." She also betrothed her sister Ke Qingxiu to Baoyu, and they had a wedding, which became a sexual problem. Aside from other studies, we only look at the final stage of marriage in our dreams, and we can't help but wonder, is the lovely girl nicknamed "Beauty" in Jia Baoyu's dream really Qin Keqing? If so, what's the matter? If not, why did the author write like this? Here, personally, it is. Qin Keqing is not only a lovely girl in Jia Baoyu's dream, but also the predecessor of the police fairy. To explain this, we have to start with Qin Keqing's real identity. Qin Keqing in the book appeared in Jiafu as the wife of his great-grandson. In this big family, she was praised and admired by her elders, peers, younger generation and everyone in the family. She was even praised by a powerful grandmother as "the most proud wife of her great-grandson" and knew that she was a "very suitable person". Here we can't help but suspect that Qin Keqing's family background is not good, and she was brought from Yangshengtang. Don't say that in those days, even today, some people will make irresponsible remarks. How did she become the "first proud person" with only power and wealth in her eyes at that time? More strangely, after Qin Keqing's death, Jia Fu violated the patriarchal clan system and took out a wooden coffin that only the royal family could use for her burial, which was very unreasonable at that time. There is only one explanation for such abnormal behavior, that is, Qin Keqing's identity is very special, which is very important to the future and destiny of Jia's family and affects the life and death of Jia's family. According to the study of Dream of Red Mansions, Qin Keqing's prototype is the daughter left by the abandoned Prince Yin Yong during the reign of Kangxi, and she is also the representative of the "Yuepai" of the two major forces in the political competition during the reign of Qianlong. She was implicitly accepted by the Cao family (Jia family) among the people, and Cao family (Jia family)' s political proposition was precisely to support the "Yue faction", so she was respected in Jia family and regarded as "the first proud person" by Jia family. After the death of Qin Keqing, Wang Xifeng had a dream: "When the moon is full, it will be lost, when the water is full, it will overflow, and when you climb high, it will be heavy." These words hint at Jia's future and destiny, and the way to deal with it in the future. The tone is completely condescending, not like what my niece said to menstruation, but more like an elder to a younger generation and a prophet of chaos. When Jing Huan guided Jia Baoyu to visit the dreamland, he also said something in a similar tone to the fairies: "You don't know the reason: I was supposed to go to Fu Rong to pick up Jiangzhu today and pass by Ningfu. I met the spirit of the two masters and told me: "My family has enjoyed fame and fortune since Ding, which has been passed down from generation to generation. Although it has been a hundred years, it is irreparable. Although smart, I hope I can succeed, but my family's luck is over, and I'm afraid no one will introduce Zheng. Fortunately, Xian Gu comes occasionally. I hope to warn her of stubbornness with eroticism, debauchery, Z and other things first, or let her jump out of the charming circle and step into the right path. This is also my brother's luck. So, I kindly brought her here. First of all, I will familiarize her with the life books of her third-class women. ",in order to compare the two men, so I decided that Qin Keqing is the predecessor of the police magic fairy. Jinghuan's sister Ke Qing should also be Qin Keqing's fantasy. Her nickname "beauty" refers to the beauty of Daiyu and Baochai. The book once said: "Bright and charming, like Baochai, but also like Daiyu. "It can be concluded that the relationship between the police fantasy in the book and Jia Baoyu is inseparable. The police fairy is Jia Baoyu's sexual enlightenment teacher, spiritual idol and loyal admirer. After Qin Keqing's death, her father-in-law Jia Zhen was heartbroken and burst into tears. Jia Baoyu convulsed and cried, but Jia Rong was like nothing happened. These abnormal behaviors can also confirm Qin Keqing's position in Jia Baoyu's mind. As a person who dares to pursue love and opposes feudal ethics, it is understandable that Qin Keqing and her father-in-law Jia Zhen are incestuous. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu were predestined marriages in previous lives. Daiyu is a vermilion fairy grass, and Baoyu is Shen Ying's attendant. When the crimson pearl withered, she had to be watered by Shen Ying many times to survive. Out of gratitude, Daiyu decided to repay her kindness with tears. After Daiyu's mother died, her father was very sad and decided to send her to grandma's house to raise her. Lin Ruhai is the political history of the two Huai salt provinces, with more money. " "Lin" is the homonym of "silver", which is like the sea. I believe that there must be a lot of money to send Daiyu to her. I know that the Jia family has a pair of rich eyes. When Lin Daiyu came to Jia's house, she was very loved. One is Jia Aicai, and the other is that she loves her daughter and granddaughter dearly. So I took extra care of her, stayed with her to raise her, and ate and lived with Baoyu. Daiyu is one year younger than Baoyu, and they are childhood friends. Baodai had deep feelings at that time. The book says, "Since Lin Daiyu came to Fu Rong, the Grandmother Jia has been so fond of her, and she knows her granddaughter Baoyu, Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun back to back. This is the close friendship between Baoyu and Daiyu. And different from others. During the day, they sit together at night. Seven years before Xue Baochai came, the two of them were very good. Lin Daiyu's misfortune should be that after Xue Baochai came, the arrival of Xue Baochai was undoubtedly a disaster for Lin Daiyu. There is a sentence in the book: "I don't want a Xue Baochai to come suddenly now." Although he is young, he is square and handsome. It is said that many people are behind Daiyu. ............ Therefore, Daiyu was somewhat disappointed and resentful, which Baochai didn't know. Baoyu is also a child, and the conditions are stupid and remote. He regards his sisters and brothers as one, and there is no distinction between relatives and friends. " Daiyu's fall from grace and bad mood, coupled with Baoyu's ambiguous attitude towards Baochai, further stimulated her jealousy, and she had no choice but to cry secretly. During this period, Daiyu mainly returned the hatred with tears. Here we can't help asking, who does Baoyu like better at this time? I don't think we can figure it out, and Daiyu can't figure it out herself, otherwise she wouldn't cry easily. Daiyu's temperament changed greatly, and she began to be willful, and her sword went sideways, as if she were angry with everyone. This move was disgusted by most people in Jia's family, and even Jia, who always loved her, began to scold. Although she has an element of avoiding leisure and showing off, she can't always praise her children in front of outsiders, but she didn't treat Daiyu like before and gradually alienated her. Especially in dealing with Baoyu's lifelong events, she is very cautious. Daiyu doesn't understand these things, which makes her more and more uncomfortable. The contradiction between her and Xue Baochai gradually intensified. Xue Baochai relies on the approval of the Lady Dowager and Lady Menstrual Wang and doesn't care about Lin Daiyu at all. The more Baochai ignored her, the more jealous she became. Their complicated mentality didn't completely turn over until the 32nd episode of the story. In the thirty-second episode, Shi Xiangyun and Xiren advised Baoyu to meet Jia Yucun, and Jia Baoyu complained about their conversation: The book said: "Miss, please sit in another sister's room, because I am careful to pollute your economic knowledge. Aroma said, "Miss Yun, don't say that. "。 Last time, Miss Bao said once that she didn't care about people's faces, so she coughed and picked up her feet and left. Miss Bao's words are endless here. Fortunately, it was Miss Bao when she left. If it's teacher Lin, I don't know what's going on and how to cry. As soon as you mention this, the real Miss Bao is respected. When miss Lin sees you angry and ignores him, how much do you have to pay? Baoyu said, "Miss Lin never said such a thing. "。" ? If he had said such stupid things, I would have separated from him long ago. "Lin Daiyu overheard these words outside the window, pleasantly surprised, sad and sighing. The person you like really has a good eye, and always regards him as a confidant, and he is really a confidant; Surprised, he praised me for being selfish and friendly in front of others, but I didn't avoid suspicion; Baoyu came out to see Daiyu, and they had a heart-to-heart talk. The book says: Baoyu sighed and asked: "Do you understand this? Did I use my heart wrong? If you can't understand what you mean, no wonder you are angry with me every day. " Lin Daiyu said, "Sure enough, I don't know what is comfortable." Baoyu nodded and sighed, "Good sister, don't tease me. If you really don't understand this, not only my usual intentions are in vain, but even your usual intentions have failed me. You are sick because you are always worried. But you can rest assured that your illness will not get worse every day. " When Lin Daiyu heard this, much cry and little rain. When she thought about it carefully, she felt more sincere than what she had taken out of her heart. She has a thousand words to say, but she can't spit out a word. She just looks at him blankly. At this time, Daiyu realized that Baoyu only had himself in his heart, and he loved himself wholeheartedly. Nothing else, she shed tears again, sorry for the misunderstanding before. From then on, Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai took the initiative to make up, talking and laughing together, as close as sisters. They are no longer regarded as stumbling blocks and can tolerate others. Lin Daiyu was sickly, quiet and restless, headstrong, and had no backbone. It is difficult to have the majesty of the hostess and the wisdom to properly handle the housework, which is not suitable for the official standard of mate selection. Besides, her father has already spent all the money he brought. Because of her relationship with Jia Baoyu, this will inevitably be regarded as a thorn in the side of the grandmother. Later, Lin Daiyu's misfortune mainly came from the treatment of them by Mrs. He Wang. Lin Daiyu's tragedy was the victim of many women in that era, and it was a feudal autocracy. During this period, Lin Daiyu mainly shed tears for love, for love and for gratitude, and finally died of blood rage. Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai are destined marriages in this life. Xue Baochai is graceful, elegant and well-behaved, and won the favor of Grandmother Jia and Lady Wang. This is very beneficial to the future "Bao Er Grandma" Xue Baochai. At that time, it was more important to get the permission and acquiescence of the elders than anything else. Unfortunately, Xue Baochai could only be Jin Chai. For the Jia family, the wealth and status of the Xue family are very helpful to the declining Jia family, and they can gain great benefits through marriage. Unlike Lin Daiyu, the Xue family has a wide range of contacts in Beijing besides their current wealth and status, which is very eye-catching for Jia Fu and Mrs. Wang and is also the primary consideration. To put it bluntly, it is the "golden marriage" between Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai. Their marriage was endowed with a family mission. Xue Baochai is an experienced person, who is good at flattering Mrs. Wang and can get along well with friends. In the eyes of the people below, she has a good reputation. This is a great advantage of Xue Baochai, but her biggest disadvantage is that she can get everyone but not Baoyu. Xue Baochai is introverted, duplicitous, unprincipled and utilitarian. These are the most disgusting things of Jia Baoyu, the prodigal son, so they are finally together. Jia Baoyu's affection and love are absolutely separated. His affection for Lin Daiyu is sincere love, and his love for Xue Baochai is the love between sisters. In other words, Jia Baoyu's spiritual world is different from reality. He pursued freedom of marriage all his life, opposed feudal marriage arrangements and yearned for a beautiful love life. This idea is well reflected in the first eighty chapters of this book. Jia Baoyu's words and deeds and every move are all around this ideological argument. In the 31st chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, the story of Jia Baoyu and Shi Xiangyun was narrated in the second half, which should be narrated by the author after the eighties, and it is by no means a sequel of Gao E. In the description of the first eighty chapters, there is a Wei Sheyuan, which seems to map out that Shi Xiangyun will eventually marry Wei, but according to the description of the thirty-first chapter, there is also a golden unicorn for Shi Xiangyun and Jia Baoyu, which happens to be a man and a woman. Personally, I think Shi Xiangyun should end up with Jia Baoyu, and the story should be like this. Jia Baoyu was heartbroken after Lin Daiyu's death and left home in despair and anger. Because he is a rich boy, Jia Baoyu has no basic survival ability, so he can only live on the streets, beg and pick up garbage. Needless to say, at this time, the Jia family was thoroughly raided, and all the Jia family members were convicted, exiled and sold. Shi Xiangyun completely lost the shelter of the Jia family. Because of the pride and loss of several big families, his family (historian) lost everything. I met Jia Baoyu by chance when I was extremely hungry and cold. They became a husband and wife in trouble, living alone. I think they are more dependent than true love. The attacker is a controversial figure and a slave figure. Throughout the book, the attacker has no sense of resistance, and he is grateful to his master, especially Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang. Of course, these can not all be attributed to the attackers, but also because of the unequal status between people in the feudal system. There is no need to be too harsh. As a servant, it is difficult to have your own ideals and choices, and more is to accept your fate. All my efforts are based on this. As a personal servant, if I can communicate with my young master and get appreciation and recognition, it will be the envy of all servants, because only in this way can I get ahead and live with dignity. Many young women in Jiafu, especially some little girls, including Qingwen, are envious of her. Even Shi Xiangyun and Lin Daiyu, as young ladies, learned that Xiren was about to become a maid, and they all came to congratulate and grieve, which was enough to show how glorious it was. When a girl is promoted to a concubine, it is possible to have a boy and become a real master step by step like Pinger around Jia Lian. Xiren is very willing to do this and has been working hard for it. Xiren looks honest and broad, but in fact she is very competitive and scheming. The book says that xiren gets cold when she sees her own blood on the ground. Thinking about hearing people say that teenagers vomit blood every day, the years are uncertain, even if they live for a long time, they will eventually be a basket case. Thinking about this, I feel my glory and boasting for a long time, and my eyes are almost dripping with tears. This passage is enough to prove that it attacks people's psychological activities. Avoiding these, let's focus on whether there is love between Jia Baoyu and xiren. Xiren is two years older than Baoyu. At first, Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang arranged for him to take care of everything. Later, seeing that xiren was thoughtful and loyal, she decided to be a maid. In the sixth book, Jia Baoyu told xiren to tie his belt after a nap and found his shame. The book once said: xiren also smiled shyly and asked, "what story did you dream?" Did those dirty things come out from there? Baoyu said, "It's a long story. "。 "Then he told Aron the story of his dream in detail. Then he talked about the love of sex given by the police illusion, and Aaron hid his face and smiled in shame. Baoyu also liked Aron's tenderness and charm, so he forced Aron to talk about sex with the police. Through this passage, we often misunderstand that there is love between Jia Baoyu and Aron, and Jia Baoyu likes Aron more or less. If so, it goes against the original intention of Cao Xueqin's writing. Jia Baoyu can only like one person in this life, and that is Lin Daiyu. No one else can be his lover. The attacker doesn't necessarily love Baoyu much, but misses the present glory and status. There is a saying that "it's sunny to be the vice chairwoman". It is said that the hitter's personality is similar to Baochai's, and Qingwen is similar to Daiyu's, especially in her unruly waywardness. From this point, it is established that Jia Baoyu will be better than others to Qingwen, and Qingwen's character is more in line with Jia Baoyu. They should be pure friends. In the seventy-seventh episode, Baoyu visited Qingqing. Qingwen sobbed, "There's nothing to say! But every moment is a moment and every day is a day. I know. I'll be back in three to five days anyway. Just one thing, I don't want to die: although I was born better than others, I didn't seduce you secretly, and I insisted that I was a fox! I am so dissatisfied. Today, I assumed a false reputation, and I am dying. I am not saying a word of regret. If I knew this, I would have another reason that day. Unexpectedly, it is silly to say that everyone is in one place anyway. I don't want to give birth to this paragraph in the air, and I have nowhere to complain. It can be seen that Qingwen didn't have this intention, but later she hinged her nails, took off her close-fitting HongLing coat, gave it to Baoyu, and put on Baoyu's underwear to prove to Jia Fu that she was really affectionate and righteous to Baoyu. "。 That's because she used a pseudonym and had a spiritual home after her death. The Grand View Garden was attacked by Qingwen this time. To put it bluntly, the author is hinting at the fate of Lin Daiyu, aiming to point out that Lin Daiyu will have the same fate and hit Qingwen. In fact, it was Mrs. Wang who pointed her sword at Lin Daiyu and deliberately missed it, making an example. Poor Qingwen made a scapegoat here. Qingwen's death is more or less related to her own personality. "High is easy to drop, and the best is easy to fold. "She used to be arrogant to my little girl at ordinary times, throwing plates and bowls, offending many people, and not flattering like an attack. This is also the real way to bring disaster. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Wang Xifeng is also a controversial figure, which is difficult to sum up in one word, and her personality is even more confusing. The old servant of the Jia family once scolded after being drunk: "Stealing dogs and playing tricks on chickens every day, crawling all over in ashes, and the brother-in-law raising his brother-in-law" is very puzzling. There is no doubt that the former sentence refers to Qin Keqing and Jia Zhen, but the latter sentence is hard to say. It is difficult to find any clues from the book to prove who this sentence refers to, but Cao Xueqin's book is basically not useless, especially for some predictions. I believe that many people who have seen it will point the finger at Wang Xifeng, because Wang Xifeng's usual style is sharp and pungent, not only stingy with money, greedy for power, but also vengeful, especially for those who don't like it, they will be executed first and then dealt with quickly, such as Jia Rui and You Erjie. For some girls, it can be said that it is organ failure. We can't help asking, such a woman with personality. For example, Jia Rong is a charming and personable man. Will Wang Xifeng have an affair with him? Some clues can be seen from chapter 12 of the book. This time, Wang Xifeng's vicious performance was incisively and vividly, which led to Jia Rui's final death. Whether Gary should die or not, let's leave it at that. Let's see who is the executor of this plan first. Everyone knows that it is Jia Rong and Jia Baoyu. To tell the truth, under the feudal system at that time, these nasty demands and obscene ideas put forward by Jia Rui were generally difficult for a woman to say, and I was embarrassed to say them. However, judging from the performance of Jia Rong and Jia Baoyu, they seem to know this matter very well and there is no need to avoid it at all. They are very familiar with each other and are also very close to Wang Xifeng. Jia Baoyu as a brother-in-law can still make sense, but what about Jia Rong? It's hard to explain. An aunt, even to avoid suspicion, is embarrassed to mention this to her nephew. The only reasonable explanation is that Wang Xifeng and Jia Rong did have an affair. As for Jia Baoyu, I personally don't think so, because Wang Xifeng's personality is only interested in Jia Rong, and Jia Baoyu, a big boy who grew up in a powder pile, is just out of love and won't have real feelings. As for the sentence of "raising a brother-in-law, raising a brother-in-law", it should be that Cao Xueqin scolded Xiao Zhuang and Dourgen through Jiao Da. Finally, let me talk about the ending of Wang Xifeng. There is a sentence in her judgment: "One obeys two orders, and all three are idiots", which indicates that Wang Xifeng's future will be very difficult. Finally, Jia Lian divorced her, Pinger helped her, and Wang Xifeng lived a life of sponsor. Xue Baoqin is the perfect figure in Cao Xueqin's works. Although he is still a bit feudal and vulgar, he is already more valuable than others. He has all the advantages of Daiyu and Baochai, so he likes Jia's wife very much and wants to be his own and betrothed to Baoyu. But people have long been interested in Hanlin Mei's family, and Jia can't help but sigh! This sigh is for Baoyu and the Jia family, not for Baoqin. According to the description of Xue Baoqin's nostalgic poems, one of them is: "Not on the plum side, but on the willow side". It indicates that Xue Baoqin probably didn't marry Mei Hanlin's son in the end, but married Liu Xianglian who committed suicide for You Sanjie, and then fled into an empty net. The book says that "it snowed heavily in a good year, but there was no extra snow in the end", which can also prove that Xue Baoqin will not be much better in the end. The ten homesick poems of Li's implied the tragic fate of ten Jia women, such as,, and Xiang Ling. Looking back on the past, plum blossom poetry is a metaphor for Bao Qin himself. I have little research on it, so it is difficult to say clearly. I'm just guessing. Don't laugh if there is anything wrong. No chance to live for 20 years 1 2 years1month 3.