More than two thousand years ago, Kong Old Master Q warned everyone in The Analects. He said: "When you are young, your blood gas is uncertain. Be careful." What do you mean? In other words, when people are young, their bodies are not well developed and their qi and blood are very unstable. At this time, it is especially necessary to pay attention not to let his mind be polluted by pornography and prostitution, otherwise it will be a great destruction to his body and mind.
I once encountered a case in clinic. This young man, 25 years old, just graduated from college. He came to me when he saw a series of articles I published on the Internet to persuade people to maintain kidney essence and clean their hearts. He said, "Dr. Peng, I have been ill for ten years and I haven't found the reason." After many doctors' treatment, it has not been cured and it has cost a lot of money. I didn't know what my problem was until I read your article. " His eyes were red when he said this. He said: "Ten years ago, when I was in junior high school, it was the hope of my whole family. Every time I take an exam, I am in the top ten of my class. My whole family has high hopes for me, counting on me to be admitted to a famous university and Tsinghua Peking University in the future. I contacted a friend that year. He took me to his classmate's house to watch a yellow video. Since then, I have developed a very bad habit-masturbation, which has been with me for ten years. "
Since he got into this bad habit, his brain power and physical strength have greatly declined. After masturbating for half a year, my academic performance plummeted. Why? According to the concept of traditional Chinese medicine, the kidney dominates the bone and produces marrow, and the palm is in the brain. "The kidney is a strong official, and the geisha is clever." In other words, a person with sufficient kidney qi will have strong memory, strong thinking ability and good academic performance. Now education is actually skill training, not real education. The so-called skill training, first of all, is that if you want to master this knowledge, you must rely on your understanding and memory. If a person lacks kidney qi and brain power, his understanding and memory will decline.
After forming this bad habit for half a year, I found that my brain seemed to be empty and dull. In class, the teacher said that my brain didn't follow the activities at all, and my memory dropped extremely, so I couldn't do the problems.
This young man used to be the captain of the school football team. He has excellent physical strength, runs all over the field, runs fast and has strong endurance. Since I got into the bad habit of masturbation, my physical strength dropped sharply after half a year. The slightest movement will make you breathless and sweaty. What is this performance? This is the most serious manifestation of a person's lack of yang.
The young man said: I feel very depressed after these two performances. I don't want to associate with others, and I don't want to associate with classmates and teachers around me. A person is locked in the house, and no one wants to touch it. My family thought I was mentally ill, so I went to consult a psychiatrist. I felt very comfortable after counseling by a psychologist, but I will soon feel depressed again.
Why is this happening? Huangdi Neijing called it "closing the door alone, closing the door is closing the door, and closing the window is closing the window". Describe a person staying in a small room, with doors and windows closed, alone. What kind of people will this happen to? Appears in people with kidney qi deficiency and kidney essence failure. This situation will appear after half a year. This situation is not only a psychological problem, but also a psychological problem caused by physiological problems. If his kidney essence is not supplemented and he is allowed to engage in prostitution, his mind will always be in a dark state. According to the ancients, this is called yang deficiency.
Many people will have this experience now. If you say that your kidney qi is insufficient, after making love may not want to do it the night before and the next day. The pride in my heart was gone. If you want to write a paper the next day and think deeply, you can't think deeply. Why? It is because a person's kidney essence is insufficient that yang will decline, and this kind of performance will occur in the body, not just psychological problems. The situation he described to me is the third manifestation.
The fourth performance is that you are very upset. He said, I sit at my desk reading, my heart is like grass, and I can't stand it at all. Why is this happening? Because according to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, a person's heart will be full of fire if his kidney water is insufficient, and when his heart is full of fire, of course he can't sit there and have no concentration.
The young people in this case picked up this bad habit in the third grade. For ten years, he doesn't know what his problem is. It was not until he saw the related articles I wrote on the Internet that he repented and came to see me in the clinic. He was very excited. I said, take it easy. This disease can be cured. You are still young. First of all, you should have confidence and get rid of your bad habits. Second, I will help you. I will tell you how to tonify the kidney and prescribe Chinese medicine for you. Thirdly, we must be filial to our parents, because only by filial piety can this person's mood be the most unobstructed. As soon as the mood is clear, the body's yang is enough. The ancients once said, "All evil comes first, and filial piety comes first", and "Parents are ill and dare not damage it". If a person mutilates his own body, it shows that this person is not filial. Conversely, if a person wants to be filial to his parents, the first thing is to keep his body and mind healthy, not to worry about his parents. This young man has been worrying his parents for ten years, taking him everywhere for medical treatment, with no result. After I said these words to the young man, he was very moved.
I said: you can take this prescription away, you can catch it at any place and any drugstore, take these medicines, and then cooperate with the main points I just said: first, abstain from prostitution, and second, be filial to your parents, and you will certainly get better. Two months later, he sent me a text message saying: Now my back has stopped hurting, and then my brain power began to recover, and I began to be energetic and full of confidence in my work.
According to the concept of traditional Chinese medicine, body and mind are two different things. Physical and psychological interaction, physical problems will lead to psychological problems, on the contrary, if a person has psychological problems, the body will still appear various diseases. "Phase is born of heart", which means that phase is a person's external appearance and heart is our inner heart. Phase not only refers to the person's face, but also includes various physical manifestations, including diseases. A person's bad looks actually reflect a person's inner world is not very healthy. Therefore, Chinese medicine is actually treating patients, not treating diseases, because diseases grow in people. Only when a person is physically and mentally healthy can his body be restored to health.
Investigating this case can lead to a topic. At present, the phenomenon of the young man in this case is very common in China. This phenomenon is called "urban hermit". Nowadays, many teenagers have this situation, that is, they stay at home and don't want to work, study or socialize. What kind of life do they live alone in the house? It's a life of clothes reaching out and rice mouth opening. It's called "NEET". This kind of crowd appears very much in an island country in East Asia. In 1930s and 1940s, this country introduced the western thoughts of sexual liberation, and their pornographic CDs and books ranked first in Asia. In this country, lewd evil deeds appear quickly. What is the bad news? It is in this country that one percent of the population are "urban hermits".
"Urban Hermit" is to lose the ability to work, live and study, shut himself in the house and live a life of "clothes to reach out, food to mouth". According to Chinese medicine, this is a waste person, and there is no hope for such a person to develop further. This population accounts for 1% of this country, in other words, there are10 million teenagers in this state. In recent years, this situation is also very common in Taiwan Province Province and South Korea, and it also appears in the southeast coast of the mainland and large and medium-sized cities. What does this mean? This actually shows that pornography is so destructive to teenagers that it leads to these messy things, which is rare in ancient times and so common in modern society. Because the ancients once said that if a person lacks kidney qi, he will not do much in his later life. Why? Because according to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, the kidney is stored by receiving the essence of the five internal organs, that is to say, human kidney qi is like a bank, storing these essence of the five internal organs in a safe, and then providing it to you for a lifetime to apply, do business and serve the society. If you withdraw the deposit in this safe extremely, the quality of life of this person will drop very quickly, that is, premature aging will occur.
Prostitution is too harmful to the body. On the one hand, prostitution can damage a person's kidneys and lead to various diseases of the body. Second, a person who often hurts his kidney is impetuous, especially prone to lose his temper, his brain is confused, and he is prone to making all kinds of wrong decisions. This is called excessive heart fire and insufficient kidney water. Once a person is in this state, it is not far from disaster. Regardless of career, family and health, there will be all kinds of bad consequences. Pornography is a very serious social problem, which not only does harm to personal health, but also makes people feel very impetuous. We all know that Zhuge Liang has a famous saying: "Indifference leads to no ambition, while quietness leads to no distance." If a person's mood is not harmonious, his career will not last long and he will not succeed. If he has many evil thoughts in his heart, it will do great harm to his family, his family, even his own life and even our whole nation.
Zhang Sanfeng, a real person, said: Life is between heaven and earth, and it is masculine to inherit the beautiful scenery of Jin Mu, and the relationship between husband and wife is the ethical way. If you go beyond husband and wife and engage in improper lewdness with anyone, it is incest, just like an animal. You know, only one person was killed in that brutal murder. But they defile each other, but they are like families that have been killing each other for generations. Therefore, the act of adultery or molestation of others is the most angry of the gods and spirits, so the retribution of the adulterer is a tragic disaster. And those lecherous people will surely die, and their descendants will certainly not prosper. Young men and women must know that the pink girl turned into a skeleton jack-o'-lantern in the blink of an eye. The more beautiful a person is, the more like a wolf or tiger who hurts people in a beautiful coat. What's more, beauty is like a dream bubble, and it is empty after all. Therefore, every aspiring young man should always be pure-hearted, sincere and patient, resolutely stick to moral integrity, and cherish the world. Anyone who sees attractive and lewd books, magazines and pictures must burn them to avoid hurting others. And all lascivious friends should refuse to associate, so as not to be tempted or framed. If we can stick to moral integrity, not commit adultery, and devote ourselves wholeheartedly to a proper cause and become famous, I believe we will have a successful career and gain both fame and fortune. -"The Treasure of Shou Kang"