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Understanding of "filial piety"
The concept of filial piety has a long history, and 5,000 years of civilization has made every Chinese descendant proud. Filial piety has developed continuously on the basis of such an ancient civilization with profound cultural heritage, not just a continuation. Traditional filial piety ethics, from Duke Zhou to Confucius, Ceng Zi and Mencius, experienced the process of birth, maturity and perfection. The great Chinese nation is so prosperous and self-reliant. Much depends on filial piety. Filial piety is the beginning of civilization, and good filial piety comes first. Filial piety is the source of all walks of life. Therefore, every Chinese descendant should carry forward the Chinese filial piety culture and strive to be a new filial son of the times! "Disciple, sage training; The first filial piety, the second letter; Pan-public love, but kindness. " This is a general statement in Disciples Rules. From this, we can also see the important position of filial piety, which is a lesson that can not be ignored. The thread in the hand of a kind mother makes clothes for her wayward son's body. She sews them carefully and makes them up thoroughly. I'm afraid I'll be late. This is the voice of my touching mother. My mother and dutiful son should be equal, and both will say that they cherish the wind. Parents are angry for the next generation, only for their indomitable spirit and future success. Maybe someone will say these words. Who wouldn't? Then come with me and see how the ancients were filial! Yong Dong sold his body to bury his father, Xiaogan Heaven and Earth, and Emperor Han Xian tasted soup as his mother, and he was saddened. Let's take a look at Yong Dong's filial piety! At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, local regimes and thieves were rampant. Seeing that Shandong was not peaceful, Dong Yong came to Dean (now renamed Xiaogan) in Hubei with his elderly father. Before long, Yong Dong was seriously ill, and it was useless to ask a doctor to take medicine. He died, and Yong Dong was very sad, because he wandered around seeking asylum. How could he afford a coffin to bury his father? There is nothing to do. There is a local rich man named Pei. Smell and pity, lend him money, let him buy a coffin to hide his father, sell himself as a slave, and enter Pei's house. Perhaps it was his filial piety that touched heaven and earth. The weaver girl came down to earth, made 300 pieces of cloth for Pei's family in 100 days, and redeemed it, which set him free. This is the later famous "Fairy Couple", which is very touching. Yong Dong sold himself to bury his father Xiaogan Heaven and Earth, which is a filial piety in the ancient book "Twenty-four Filial Pieties". Everyone in China knows this story. From generation to generation, people are encouraged to be filial to their parents, respect the old and love the young, and be filial. People in many countries in the world have seen China's A Fairy Match, saying that it is the embodiment of China's 5,000-year history of civilization. Zeng Shen chewed his fingers and was called "Ceng Zi", which was famous for his filial piety. When I was a teenager, my family was poor and I often went to the mountains to collect firewood. One day, a guest came to the house, and her mother bit her finger with her teeth at a loss. Zeng Shen suddenly felt distressed. Knowing that her mother was calling herself, she hurried home with firewood on her back and knelt down to ask her why. Her mother said, "A guest came suddenly, so I bit my hand. I hope you can go home early." Zeng Shen treated his guests with courtesy. How can Zeng Shen feel the call of his biological mother? Although there is no scientific basis and it is impossible to explain it in scientific language, we have to reflect. Zeng Shen has such a result because he has filial piety in his heart and has it in his heart. Can we not feel sorry for this? Zhong served his parents behind his back, only to show filial piety and repay his kindness. In the early years, my family was poor, and I often picked wild vegetables to cook, but I came from hundreds of miles away to serve my parents. Later, when his parents died, he became a big official and was ordered to go to Chu. There are hundreds of chariots and horses with him, and the accumulated grain is as high as ten thousand. Sitting on the stacked cotton mattress, he ate a sumptuous feast and sighed, "Even if I want to eat wild vegetables, I have to bear the food for my parents." Where can I get it again? Confucius praised: "Serving parents can be said to be filial before death and nostalgic after death!" " Filial piety can enrich a person's foothold in life, guide the direction of life journey and cultivate the value and significance of infinite life realm. Filial piety seems out of place in today's world, but it is the secret that is most in line with the development of human potential, and it is also the most basic moral character of a person in the world. The ancients said, "People's filial piety is the foundation of virtue." "The grace of fertility depends on the universe, and the virtue of Gu Fu is equivalent to heaven." It's true! Maybe someone will accuse me of talking so much about ancient filial piety. I should tell you, you should be proud. All the above confirms the quintessence of China. If you are really dissatisfied, let me tell you something about the filial piety of Chairman Mao, the great leader of our founding fathers. At the beginning of 1937, the CPC Central Committee moved from security to Yan 'an, which coincided with Xu Teli's 60th birthday. In the case of staying up all night, Chairman Mao launched an activity to celebrate Xu Teli's birthday without rest. He wrote a long letter. In his letter, he warmly praised Xu Teli's revolutionary spirit and moral sentiment of "revolution first, work first, others first", and said: "You were my husband 20 years ago, now you are still my husband, and you must be my husband in the future ..." So, he forgot to eat, personally checked the preparations for the event, and had 60 steamed peach buns specially. At the birthday party, Chairman Mao personally tied a red scarf for Xu Teli. Mao Zedong stood up and said with a smile, "Teacher, as the saying goes, we all wish you a long life!" It is commendable that Chairman Mao did not forget the teacher's birthday and personally arranged a birthday banquet for the teacher, which was really touching. A teacher for a day, a teacher for life, and a teacher like a parent should be filial. Our Chairman Mao set an example, so what can we say to our younger generation? Look around us, how many people remember the names of junior high school teachers? Not to mention the teacher's birthday, let's put these small problems aside. What's more, people talk back to their teachers, scold them at the bottom and even try to compete with themselves. Such people are called "students", which is really hateful. "Teacher, preach and teach." Need our filial piety. Please remember how you treat your biological parents at home and how you should treat your teachers at school. teacher for a day, father for a lifetime. Don't let the ancient civilization get lost in your hands. How should we treat filial piety today? Do we still advocate filial piety? From my personal observation, the concept of filial piety has begun to fade in the tide of the times. Like "Disciples Rules", "Parents don't shout; Parents' life, don't be lazy ",now sometimes regarded as a laughing stock, not to mention filial piety. Perhaps it is the rapid development of modern society that people only pay attention to the competition at work, but ignore the vicissitudes of parents waiting for their children to return at home! Of course, this is a bit funny! In order to improve citizens' hearts and inspire their filial piety, Hubei Xiaogan College hosted a filial piety seminar "Xiaogan Heaven and Earth, Ancient and Modern Culture". At the meeting, celebrities from all walks of life published their achievements in studying filial piety culture for many years. Their affection and eagerness inspired every audience present, and thunderous applause broke out from time to time. Each of our students has been influenced by the culture of filial piety and purified of the soul. In the future life, we should use our own actions to carry forward and inherit filial piety and respect the elderly! Perhaps every sincere and honest child has a "filial piety" in his heart. He must believe that there is still a long way to go, he will succeed one day, and he can be filial when he gets dressed and goes home. Unfortunately, these dutiful sons have forgotten the shortness of life, the kindness that the world can never repay, and the fragility of life itself. When our parents left, they took away their concern for us and their call to us, leaving us with permanent and long-lasting regrets and filial piety. As soon as the parents left, the "filial piety" of the filial son became a bubble and disappeared without a trace. Some things I couldn't understand when I was young, when I was no longer young; Some things in the world can be made up, and some things will never be made up. The rest is endless regret and guilt. "Filial piety" is a fleeting memory, a continuation of the gap between years, a regret that one step away will last forever, and a chain at the junction of life and life. Once it's disconnected, it can't be connected again. Personally, I don't exaggerate the facts. That is the reality. People can't be born again. Although god has the virtue of being good at life, he only gives people a lifetime, and the length of life is difficult to decide. What should be done can only be done as soon as possible. It's no joke to ask God for an afterlife when it's too late to regret it. Be filial, remember. It's painful to hate for ages! Filial piety is an idea and behavior in many countries in the world, but it is more prominent in China. China society, for thousands of years, is a society with strong ethical concept of son preference, which is worse than any other country in the world. But look up at the present society and think about what people are doing now. Parents have worked hard to raise them, but when they got married, he flatly abandoned their parents and left them to live a hard life. Their parents tried their best to bring them up, but after they became famous, they thought their parents were humble, ashamed of their companionship and mercilessly disowned them. In order to take care of their families, wives and children, I don't care about my parents ... these are all things that happen around us. I believe you have heard of them, or some of them are one of the "outstanding people" I mentioned. How can the real situation not be chilling? It can really be said that "the listener is sad and the viewer is crying". It's no exaggeration. Whether the concept of filial piety has really faded in modern people's minds, and the failure to support or even abuse parents should not happen, which is a negative factor affecting social stability and unity, and these buds should be removed as soon as possible. Of course, I can't advocate the ignorance of the ancients. However, our parents raised us when we were young. Without this support, we can't survive. Now that our parents are old, our children are supporting us. Call it a debt of gratitude! It is also reasonable. Filial piety is reciprocal, which is a very simple truth. I hope those who care for children will think twice today! Inherit and carry forward filial piety; Endless, handed down from generation to generation; Build a harmonious new society and create a brilliant tomorrow!