There's a saying in China, raise children to prevent old age. The reason why we want children is to wait for someone to take care of ourselves when we are old. But with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved. Many people have pensions after retirement, or when they were young, they accumulated enough wealth through hard work to ensure their old-age life. There is no need to rely on children to support the elderly.

So there are more and more dinks. They think: we don't rely on children to support the elderly, so what's the point of having children?

You know, the cost of raising children is really too high now, and it is difficult to raise children. Parents should help their children buy cars and houses, get married and have children. Even if you are old, it is difficult to have your own free time, and you have to help your child bring up a baby.

The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples don't understand why they want to have children.

When watching a variety show recently, the host raised such a question. I don't want to get married before marriage, and I don't want to have children after marriage, because I don't understand the meaning of having children. Spending money to have children is a very troublesome thing, which will bring a lot of trouble to your life. These troubles can be completely avoided, so I don't want to, because children disturb your normal life.

The idea of the host of this program is naturally the idea of many young couples. They don't know why they want to have children. Just to carry on the family line? If you have children for the sake of having children, what is the meaning of marriage?

Xiang Huaqiang's wife, Chen Lan, gave the answer to the host's question: When I get old day by day, my youth continues on my child, and he is growing up, so my time has not disappeared. Many people will ask where the time has gone. I saw it in the children.

Xiang Tai, who is over 60 years old, is the only one among the guests who wants to be a mother-in-law, and because she is old and has experienced many things, she can see things clearly and people can live clearly. After listening to Xiang Tai's words, the host finally nodded his head to show his understanding and understood the meaning of having children, and Xiang Tai's answer also revealed the doubts in many young people's hearts.

Whether or not to have children is everyone's freedom, but if you decide to have children, it is best for the couple to decide carefully after thinking clearly. Once you are a parent, your responsibility will become stronger.