What should I do if the girl I just met doesn't reply? Many boys have a suspicion about the girl I just met. Why didn't she reply to my message? Don't you like it? Follow me to see what to do if the girl I just met doesn't reply to the news. I hope it will help you.

What should I do if the girl I just met doesn't reply? 1 1. If you don't know how to reply, just keep silent.

Like this, it happens more often. Girls and boys have different ways of thinking, and girls are more emotional and more emotional. Boys are more rational and like to be straightforward. If a boy says something sensitive in a chat, it is easy for a girl not to know how to respond, so she can only be silent and play dumb.

Like many couples in communication, girls say they have a stomachache, while boys directly say: Drink more hot water or go to see a doctor, and girls' faces turn black in an instant. In fact, boys don't know that girls just need a little comfort to be happy.

2, the chat content is not interested and worthless.

Chatting with girls must be to their liking, or find an interesting topic. If you want to make a daily account, the girl's answer will be boring, and then the conversation will be terminated. M: What are you doing? Woman: Work? Are you tired? Woman: Not bad. Man: Oh, what do you do? Woman: … ..

3. The purpose of chatting is not pure

Most girls don't like shallow boys, especially girls who are inherently insecure. If you always express that I like you or care too much when chatting with girls, girls will think that you are insincere and superficial, hate you to keep a safe distance, and naturally won't reply to you.

Girls don't return messages. What if this is saved? People with high emotional intelligence are like this.

1, retreat in time and keep your distance.

At this time, girls' psychology has some resistance to you. Boys should stop, avoid too intense pursuit, try to cause girls' gains and losses, attract each other's attention and pave the way for the next attraction.

2. Side-implant the information that the other party is interested in to show its value.

It's not enough to get girls' attention. You need to implant ideas that she is interested in from the side. You can try to look at a girl's circle of friends and understand her life preferences.

3, step by step, and gradually establish contact.

When we are young, we can simply interact through a circle of friends. For example, a girl sends a circle of friends to comment and interact, so that the relationship between two people feels connected and familiar. Then you talk to girls, and no girls will ignore you. In short, in this process, you will constantly gain the trust of girls so that the other party will not refuse to chat with you.

In life, the application of EQ involves all aspects, not only in the communication between men and women, but also in the workplace, EQ can better reflect a person's simplicity and ability than IQ.

Father Ma once said, "If a person wants to succeed, he must be eloquent. If he doesn't know how to express himself, he will not only fail, but also do bad things. "

What should I do if the girl I just met doesn't reply? 2- Why doesn't the other party reply to you?

You showed a strong sense of need from the beginning.

When dealing with girls, I think the most important thing is mentality. You need to have an equal attitude with each other. Many people, when they meet a girl they like, want her to be their girlfriend as soon as they come up. The sense of demand is too strong. You put more affection into her than she does into you, which will inevitably lead to an unequal situation. It's just that girls think you want to chase me, and I have the initiative. Some girls will deliberately not return your WeChat or let you do it. So don't show your strong demand when greeting the girl you just met.

Your opening remarks are particularly unattractive.

Many people greet girls like this: "Hey, can you talk to beautiful women?" And "Are you there?" . Hello, beauty. Come on, you still use such an old greeting. The other side has experienced countless such bombings. When she saw this greeting, she just ignored the past, because the other person subconsciously classified you as a "boring man" and would not spend time on you. You only have one chance, and your opening remarks must be fatal and quickly attract her attention. Let's share with you three efficient opening remarks, so that you can quickly open the situation!

Efficient prologue 1: build a plank road in the Ming dynasty and hide the sky from the sea.

Sometimes chatting is not necessarily in the chat window, but also in the circle of friends, but many people ignore this. If you are not sure that chatting can open the situation, then you can try to comment in the circle of friends. In the circle of friends, you can comment if you find something that interests her, so that the chat will have more similarities. For example, if the other party keeps pets with friends, and you happen to like keeping pets very much, then you can exchange your own experience in keeping pets through comments from friends. In fact, your comments in the circle of friends are just an introduction. After the other person replies to you, you can talk to her openly and privately.

Efficient prologue 2: Catch each other's curiosity.

The best way to catch a person's attention is to catch their curiosity. Therefore, if you want the other person to reply to you on WeChat, you must first seize her curiosity. For example, a new girl can say, "I think I saw you in the street today?" , the other party will feel very strange, how do you see me. If you want to come back at this time, you can say, "You see a person who looks like you. She is as beautiful as you, just across XXX Street." In this way, you can praise her quietly. It doesn't matter whether what you say is true or not, and girls won't care, but you need such an introduction to start a chat.

Efficient opening three: learn to praise

Which girl doesn't like being called beautiful? Otherwise, there would be no beauty camera now. So if you want to please girls, you can work hard on praise. Of course, praise should be layered. Just come up and say "Beauty, you are so beautiful, make friends", and the other party will hack you in minutes.

What should I do if the girl I just met doesn't reply? 3 1, the chess is defeated before.

If a girl just knows you, she will ignore your love. It's basically influenced by something other than your language. We often say, "victory and defeat are in the sheath." Two swordsmen compete. One practiced fencing for ten years, holding a steel knife, and the other practiced only for a month, holding a rusty broken knife. Who do you think will win? Even if we didn't meet, the ending was already doomed. Similarly, if you go after a girl, if you are not prepared, it will almost be over before you start.

Social display is a business card for people in the network age. Nowadays, social interaction is mostly online chat, and it is mainly based on words. No one wants to chat with a landscape map or an anime character, so even if you chat online, girls need to know your image and your life.

In order to get to know strangers quickly, people's brains will draw portraits of each other in their hearts through a small amount of information. For example, when she sees you have a photo of fitness, she will think: This man likes sports. He must be healthier, more energetic and in good shape, not a homesick person.

When she sees you eating exquisite afternoon tea, she will think: this person should be in a good state, very emotional, able to live with relish and relaxed. I won't run for my life all day, and it will be more interesting and easier to get along with him.

When she sees that you are wearing a well-matched dress, it will not only add points to your personal image, but also create such an association: this man is good at wearing, and walking with him will definitely lead to a good return rate, and introducing friends is also very face-saving. This kind of tasteful man is really rare.

If you have these three photos at the same time, girls will be more interested in chatting with you.

This is the importance of life construction. We don't advocate making fake photos, but you can learn by wearing them, you can go to online celebrity shops, and your hobbies, such as fitness, are also worth cultivating. If you want to be popular with women, you must break through the comfort zone and become a better man.

On the other hand, if your photos are all self-portraits, the environment is sloppy, your clothes are rustic, and your circle of friends are forwarding, girls will regard you as a loser and don't want to talk to you. Take a closer look at your photo wall and see if you have found the reason why girls don't reply to you.

2. Put too much pressure on girls

Many boys have not had girlfriends for a long time. You must be anxious and impatient when you meet someone you like. As soon as you come up, you will confess, confess, or ask for help. I can't wait to be with this girl at once. This kind of pressure is very scary and uncomfortable for girls. In order not to pester you, they simply don't reply

If you do something like confession or entanglement, girls are more likely not to reply to you. This is a typical overpressure. Girls don't have a good impression on you, just like picking the fruit on the tree before it is ripe, and of course it is bitter.

The early chat should focus on relaxation and fun, and you can express your appreciation for girls, but don't worry about the relationship with girls.

3. Chatting with boiling water

Girls are passive in chatting and won't flirt with you actively. This requires men to do it and take the initiative.

Girls don't provide topics, and neither do you. As a result, the chat was dry and there was nothing. Girls speak very insipid, and you speak very insipid and logical, without any emotional fluctuations. The whole thing is like a cup of boiled water, insipid and tasteless. Where does love come from?

Don't think that girls will like you just because you have logically said some of your own advantages and conditions. Like is an emotion that needs to be created through interaction. Don't turn chatting into a logic seminar, girls will feel like drinking boiled water and chewing steamed bread, which is hard to swallow. I won't reply to you soon.

Second, what should I do if the girls don't come back to chat?

Below, the author will explain three advanced skills for you in detail, so that girls can't help talking to you, and I want to talk to you tomorrow after talking today!

High-level skills-draw a knife and cut off water

Don't be impatient when chatting. Don't send too many messages to girls at once. Give the other person time to respond to every word you say. We regard chatting with girls as a flowing river, and we need the two of you to participate and flow together. You can't talk casually.

Simple self-hi, girls will feel that they can't get in touch with you, and one of you can't talk together, and there is no * * *.

In your chat, there will definitely be some topics that girls are willing to respond to. Give girls time and space to respond to you. If you express yourself unilaterally, sentence by sentence, girls can't get in the way, and eventually they won't reply to you.

In the interaction, the more you participate, the more you will pay attention to this relationship. Just like a flower, watering it every day will form a habit. You will pay attention to whether it blooms or not and worry about whether it will die. A stray cat, you feed it every day, and one day you suddenly can't see it, and your heart will be very lost. On the contrary, if you never pay attention to a flower, it will wither. You never pay attention to a cat. Whether it disappears or not has nothing to do with you.

Therefore, the more you can understand some small pauses in the chat and let the girls participate, the more you can keep the conversation going. The chances of girls not replying to you will be greatly reduced.

You must take the initiative to introduce some topics in the chat, so that girls have something to say. If you always ask girls if they have eaten or slept, and you don't provide any topics for girls to reply, it's no use stopping.

Example:

Man: I ate a steak yesterday. I have never tasted such delicious food. I wrote it down in this shop.

Woman: Life is quite nourishing. What store is it?

M: It's just opposite xx Square. Newly opened, the environment is good. I was invited to a comic exhibition and found it by accident.

W: Is there a comic exhibition in w:XX Square? I didn't know you were invited. Do you play cosplay?

M: Haha, of course not. I am a photographer, and my friend invited me to take pictures.

Woman: Friends? Must be a beauty?

M: Why do I think you are a little jealous?

Woman: Come on, don't you?

Remember, don't finish a story in one breath, keep suspense in the process of telling it, so as to make the audience curious. Chatting with girls should also have this kind of blank, give girls a curious opportunity to ask you more details. This kind of chat interaction is more vital and fluent. The so-called "but since the water is still flowing, although we cut it with the sword".

Advanced skills second-generation circulation

Master divergent thinking, make yourself a treasure house of topics, and let topics emerge one after another. Each topic can be associated with another topic. The topic on your body can be related to girls, and the topic on girls can also be related to yourself, so that the conversation can continue to flow and the chat will not stop because there is nothing to say.

Sometimes girls are indifferent to your topic, so leave it alone and continue to expand new topics, or you can directly relate the topic to each other. As long as any topic can be related to girls or to yourself, the dialogue will continue. In this cycle, the topic can be endless and endless.

For example:

M: I heard that drinking too much coke will make you stupid. I have to drink more, or my IQ is too high. ...

Female: narcissism!

M: I haven't met the person I like yet, so I can only love myself. By the way, what do you like to drink? Coke, coffee or wine?

W: I don't drink. I like to drink yogurt to keep my face clean.

M: Then I'll give you the two bottles of yogurt left in the refrigerator. After all, I don't have to look up again.

Woman: Haha, it's too old, so it doesn't need to be kept.

Man: Gee, I don't respect the old and love the young at all.

Woman: I am younger than you. Why don't you love me?

Man: I gave you all my yogurt. How can I love you? Take you to the amusement park for a roller coaster ride?

W: Haha, that's a good proposal.

Advanced Skills III Floating World * * *

Many people think that two people need to go deep into a topic in order to have a deep sense of familiarity. But the opposite is true. You need to talk to girls about a wider range of topics in order to deepen their connection. These topics can be unrelated to each other, but you should be able to talk about each topic with some interaction or * * *.

Will this spoil the atmosphere? No, when you experience many topics and emotions together, you will feel more connected. Because it's like you've known each other for a long time, and you've been through a lot together.

For girls, the topic is constantly changing and the mood is constantly changing. Only you are the same. You've been chatting, communicating and going through all this together.

There is a proverb that "a friend in need is a friend indeed". You don't have to have a problem with a girl, you just need to experience different topics, different scenes and different emotions with her. It's like you're on a mission with someone. In this process, you cooperate with each other and face various obstacles, so you two will become particularly connected.

Although it seems that the chat is not in-depth, and the topic looks superficial, it is also considered that * * * has experienced the prosperity of the world. Although there are no ups and downs, a little happiness and pleasure will deepen your feelings. It is "the floating world is clear and happy, and the water flows forever."

Example:

Man: Yesterday, I worked out. I feel very tired, but my spirit is relaxed. Do you usually like sports?

Woman: You're still working out. Do you have eight packs? I sometimes go jogging.

M: You can't easily show people your abdominal muscles. Do you like watching movies?

W: Yes, but I don't go to the movies much without a boyfriend.

M: Boyfriends will. What sign are you in?

W: I'm a Pisces, and you?

M: I'm a cancer. We can make a large seafood platter together.

Woman: Haha, yes.

M: I found a photo in your circle of friends, and my eyes are super beautiful. ...

Of course, this is just an example. If you like a topic in actual chat, you can stay a little longer and talk more. But remember, don't talk about a topic for too long, just like eating steamed bread, chewing around is boring.