Vivian, a good friend, is coming to Shenzhen for development again, and has quickly started relocation, employment training and other related matters. Once again, we were impressed by the speed of action.
Vivian has always been an amazingly clever woman in our girlfriends circle. In those years, she left Shenzhen for Beijing, because the capital could realize her dream. Next, meet the right person at the right age, get married and have children, buy a house and buy a home, and step on the policy point every step, which is extremely stable and excellent.
Many people say that she was lucky and seized the good opportunity of policy, but behind this luck is profound insight and foresight.
Some people say that it is because of her strong action that she began to implement one thing without hesitation, but behind this decisiveness, I think it is the thinking orientation guided by profound and keen insight and the embodiment of a person's comprehensive wisdom.
For example, I left Beijing to return to the south this time, just to pursue my favorite clothing career. So, she began to collect all kinds of information, from her children's school and kindergarten, her husband's work, her own work, to the choice of address, and so on.
This is a systematic and trivial job, but Vivian still explains everything clearly and plans her development plan for the next three years, just like her family and career development plan in previous years.
This road seems to be a hit the floor, but behind this hit the floor, a smart woman is trying to take the road she wants step by step and pursue the career she really loves. Vivian is always ready to change the runway, always ready to enter a new field, not blind, not impulsive, not procrastinating, not afraid of hands and feet. This kind of action can only be seen by a few smart people.
In my opinion, a woman with strong mobility is a very smart species, and it is a collection of various wisdom and abilities, including the ability to collect and process information, the ability to analyze and judge, the ability to persist, the ability to accept new knowledge, and the ability to quickly change the runway when the situation is wrong.
When you have these abilities at the same time, will you still be anxious because of the midlife crisis? Will you still be scared because of the industry downturn? Are you still nervous about some trivial things in your life?
On the surface, the lack of mobility is due to laziness, but in essence, it is due to lack of wisdom, correct judgment of the current situation and clear planning for the future. It is a kind of thinking inertia formed by cognitive deficiency.
There is a girl, Joe, 30+, single, weighing 140. She cries to lose weight every day. At the beginning of each year, she vowed to go to the gym to get a card, to become a devil, to bid farewell to being single, and to find a man with quality. But I can't control my mouth, and I can't walk away. Years of slogan, my weight remains the same. Of course, Joe is still single, resenting that this is an era of looking at his face and figure.
As we all know, the better a man is, the sharper his eyes are. They not only look at the face, but also at the figure, and they can also see the good character of rigor and self-discipline behind a good figure through appearances. And girls with these qualities will not be too bad at doing other things. Because beauty is a malicious role, all aspects of good quality form a whole system. Those girls who are in great shape and keep fit all the year round are not too bad at work.
If Joe can recognize the improvement of personal image and temperament by sticking to fitness and taking immediate action, and if Joe can judge the cumulative personality effect brought by this improvement as early as possible, she will not let her weight soar and remain indifferent.
This kind of cognition and foresight is the embodiment of intelligence. The smarter the girls, the better their cognitive ability, so they can act decisively and build their own personal brand, which is also their important ability and wisdom to leave ordinary people behind.
There are many working women around me, who are shouting every day to improve their English ability, take the qualification examination and study for an MBA. Or some people realize that their job content is likely to be replaced by AI in the future and want to switch to other jobs. A lot of ideas, all good. Everyone has a sense of crisis in the workplace and realizes their own shortcomings.
But few girls can really put it into action and persevere. Either no time, no patience, no talent, or no money. There seem to be many reasons, some of which are true. But I think these are all to cover up the lack of mobility.
Although these girls are aware of the limitations of their knowledge and the cruelty of the workplace, they have not further judged the far-reaching impact of this shortcoming on their future, and they have no way to know where the explosion point and outlet of their future industry are. What are your strengths? How to make a suitable development direction and carry it on?
Because this requires a complete, clear and intelligent thinking, which is the result of all abilities. Without these powerful ideas and farsightedness, the so-called power of action is of course just a superficial or an armchair strategist.
Some girls say that I am a man with strong action. Do something as soon as you think of it, never delay, just can't stick to it. However, if you clearly know that this matter is not harmful to you, but you don't insist, you choose anticlimactic, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days. In the final analysis, this is still a sign of weak mobility.
Because smart girls not only know the importance of immediate action, but also know the power of persistence. Action and persistence have always been twin sisters, complementary to each other and self-contained. This is the right way to open the situation with strong actions. Imagine, those women who are outstanding in all walks of life, which one is not a representative of decisive and persistent action?
This girl, who works neatly in the office and never procrastinates, looks low-key and silent, but she passed the English exam and applied to a business school in Britain. It turned out that she insisted on learning a little every night for two years.
The girl you laughed at for being unsociable spent three years in her spare time, passed the judicial examination and switched to a law firm. Most girls are still complaining about the sluggish industry and no future in their jobs, but they are still standing still.
The fat girl in that office lost 30 pounds a year and was successfully promoted to the strongest executive in the company. The powerful action behind her made the company boss think that she had the ability to lead the team to complete the performance.
So, don't underestimate any girl with strong movements. Her wisdom and energy should not be underestimated. They have always been a combination of intelligence and wisdom. Anxiety and discouragement have nowhere to hide, but success is only a matter of time.