"The campus can't be taken away, the canteen can't be taken away, the library can't be taken away, the laboratory can't be taken away, the teacher can't be taken away, and the younger ones can't be taken away-oh, it seems that the younger ones and small fresh meat are not fixed assets of Xiamen University. The only trouble is that you may have to wait a year or two to take her away. What really changes you in college is what you can take away. So, what can you learn from college? You can take away the logo of the university. There will be countless forms to fill out in the future, and the university will never change. The teacher's words can be taken away ... I always say that if you can remember the university teacher's 10 ten years after graduation, the university's education for this student is successful. There are three best teachers. The first one is for the hammer. If you want to hammer a nail, your teacher hands you a hammer-what a good teacher. The second is to change your fingers. Your life needs a lot of gold. The teacher asked your finger to turn a stone into gold-what a good teacher; The third is to open the window. You thought you had seen all the scenery, and the teacher opened a window for you. You suddenly became enlightened. Ah, there is another world-this is the best teacher among the best teachers. "
? It suddenly reminds me of all kinds of feelings after graduating from college and along the way. This is my shallow feeling when I graduated that year:
That year, God opened a window for me
? That year, I stepped into this campus with a big suitcase.
That year, I didn't know you, and you didn't know me.
That year, life was like a glass of boiled water.
That year, life was doing subtraction.
? That year, I met you-the children's shoes of Class Four in Normal University.
That year, I pushed open a door.
That year, I saw you smile like a flower.
That year, it turned out to be on the road of life.
Welcome you with your warmth.
This year, I graduated.
There is a lot of luggage piled up this year.
This year, I received my diploma.
This year, I opened my graduation photo album.
? Touch familiar faces.
? I want to remember your face.
? This year, life is doing addition.
? Strong friendship and a feeling of love.
? This year, I walked out of this school with a smile.
? This year, I graduated.
This year, holding the past years, holding a ray of sunshine.
? This year, before I left, I was full of thoughts.
Long-term ideas
This year, we didn't cry when we left.
? This year, we were only apart for a while.
? This year, waiting for the touching reunion next season.
This year, waiting for the hug of reunion.
This year, youth is over, but the situation remains the same.
In that year, when we packed our bags and headed for the unknown future with our so-called dreams and ideals, we could not predict what the future would be like. ......................................................................................................................................... waited for new things to enter our world. The world around us is not necessarily gorgeous, but it is also gorgeous enough.
The young writer and literary girl who clamored to be a code word in those days is now scrambling to change diapers and milk her newborn second son. ...
At that time, I believed that "it is better to marry well than to do well", a regular life that hates money and silver, but now I live a relaxed and somewhat regular life.
? At that time, they dreamed of becoming teachers and journalists, and now they are doing boring clerical work in the company.
? The man who fell in love with his brother at that time is now married to his brother, and the house provided last year is pregnant this year.
? At that time, I vowed to be the best friend of a civil servant. I have worked hard for two years, and now I work hard in the Civil Affairs Bureau from nine to five.
? At that time, that simple friend took the postgraduate exam twice, finally got in, and graduated smoothly this year.
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? In the five years after graduation, I worked in the school, got married, gave birth to children, and took care of my baby professionally for three years. This is what I never expected. My dream used to be to be a code lover, writing articles, traveling and collecting customs ... a hot and poetic day. At the moment, I am so worried about rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea that I am too poor to even look down on illness. In the three years of this year, I am most afraid and worried about getting sick with my baby. In this tense day, I didn't talk about dreams. Dreams are just dreams. After two slaps, you will naturally know how to face the reality without teaching you.
? Mi Meng, a topic queen writer, said that it is often not positive energy that motivates us to make progress, but the supercilious look and humiliation we have suffered. A friend of mine, Doremi, recalled that she had just joined the company as an accountant, and in order to learn more, she would help her seniors when she had time. This is that "people who can bear hardships are ambitious, and those who are willing to bear hardships are not idiots." At the same time, veterans will also be on guard, for fear that you will learn more from them ... What novices need to do is to talk less and do more, not to participate in gang division, to ask for advice and learn shamelessly, and to wait for their chance.
In this utilitarian world, the moment you step into the workplace, you should be strong and stick to it instead of changing jobs frequently for months. And adapt to the workplace rules of big cities: treat women as men and men as cattle; The workplace doesn't believe in tears, only in your ability. You have to believe that the more awesome the world is, the more opportunities there will be. Regarding workplace rules, you can refer to various "Wulin secrets" on the market. You deserve it! !
Before graduation, there was a discussion in our dormitory about "Do you marry well or do well". Chat at night. I have forgotten the specific content for five years. Will Naoto Kan, who is in his thirties, get worse when he gets old? Before graduation, we thought that a good marriage could save us decades of struggle. Married, we also feel that economic independence is very important, as if doing well is more important. In the new book "The world is big, fortunately you are here", Yang Lan said: Doing well is security and independence, and marrying well is happiness. Taking both into account is not only the dream of women, but also the pursuit of men. The problem is often that you want to get independence and security from "marrying well" and get happiness from "doing well", and the result may be disappointing. This is a false proposition with no answer. She believes that we should not just seek happiness from others, but return to ourselves and know what we need. "Happiness depends on our own creation and dedication." Remember, senior sisters, it is to know their inner needs and be an independent individual! So don't call a strange man "husband" before meeting the other half of marriage, no matter how famous and rich he is! Maybe he's not your life partner. Be careful. Maybe he got married. Stay away.