Indeed, modern people are in a hurry. It is difficult to find the excellent connotation at the first time by watching the movie "Three Minutes Interpretation" and watching the celebrity interpretation.
Psychologically speaking, people will judge others according to the first information they get, and appearance-face and figure-just constitutes people's first impression.
As a result, the argument that "your figure is your class" appeared.
Starting from the argument that "figure is a kind of strength", the conclusion is that you are fat because you are poor and have no self-discipline. The easiest way to judge a person's class is to look at his figure.
Thousands of years ago, Confucius warned his disciples not to judge a book by its cover. Thousands of years later, we began to learn to glance at each other from a distance and infer what kind of person they are.
This kind of judgment is simple and quick, but it is extremely rude and obliterates human nature.
When this statement dominates the aesthetic standards of the whole society, those who suffer from eating disorders due to genetic or psychological factors, and those who are born with bones and muscles destined to be unable to practice vest lines, are labeled as "inferior".
Figure is not a criterion for judging class.
"A person is good to pets, does not mean good to people. Being loyal to your brother doesn't mean being single-minded to your lover. Filial piety does not mean being docile to your wife. Many times, one thing can only represent one thing. "
The relationship between figure and class is not positive or negative, but irrelevant.
There are fat people among the rich and thin people among the poor. A potbellied scholar may be admired for his works, and a tutor with six abdominal muscles may send all his salary to his parents living below the poverty line every month.
A tall man has a bad figure, so he has an interesting soul.
Han Hong's figure is not good, which does not hinder her position in the music world.
Some time ago, Jay Chou was on the hot search list because he was "fat". Netizens teased him, and his side became as wide as the front.
However, this does not affect Phelan's influence in the music world at all. The new song "Waiting for You to Come to Class" exploded in the circle of friends. After the release of 1 1 days, Netease Cloud Music Review has reached 1 1 ten thousand.
This person contracted the post-8090 youth. Even though he is fat, he is still liked by fans, because a person's lasting charm is definitely not just his appearance.
It is too narrow to judge a person's social class only by his figure.
A good figure doesn't just belong to the rich.
There is no threshold for exercise, and you don't have to ask a personal trainer to lose weight.
Some people say that because the poor often work overtime and stay up late, their diet is irregular and they have no time to control their diet and exercise, unlike the rich who can spend time and money on personal training. Therefore, "being thin is a luxury that the poor can't afford."
The person who said this may have overlooked: how many people spend thousands of dollars to buy a gym annual card, but they can't go several times a year, wasting their money.
Persevering people want to keep fit, and thin and expensive gyms are not the only choice. In the discussion area of fitness application, people who don't spend a penny to build a good figure abound. How can it be said that being thin must be expensive?
Self-disciplined people are not necessarily in good shape
If a person has a good figure, you can say that he is self-disciplined and has willpower.
But just because a person is in a bad state does not mean that he is not self-disciplined. Not to judge your short stature is the most basic education for people.
Wallace Chung only ate a piece of bread and a few mushrooms for breakfast, and the recipes exposed by this big cousin made people exclaim "inhumane". Eddie Peng Yuyan Swift practiced gymnastics hard and starred in "Go, A Xin". The figure of the star was earned by sweat.
For them, a good image and figure are clearly priced "goods" they sell. If they don't have a good figure, they may lose fans, the opportunity to appear in the camera and the means to make a living.
But most people do jobs that require carbohydrates to keep their bodies running.
Stars also take time out of their busy schedules to go to the gym to exercise, because that's part of their "busy" schedule.
For an ordinary boss, from the perspective of marginal effect, if he can spend an hour on fitness, it is too uneconomical to spend it on fitness, so it is enough for him to live healthily.
In high school, the best girl in the class was a chubby girl. In high school for three years, she appeared in the classroom at 6: 50 every day on time for early self-study.
At the beginning of the semester, the Chinese teacher asked everyone to accumulate an argumentative material in the excerpt every day. At the end of the term, she was the only one who took out an excerpt from a whole book.
I never doubted that she was unruly because she was fat, and that she could not control her life.
When Huang Lei appeared in public view again, people lamented that "time is a knife to kill pigs". ?
The young literary man with long hair and melancholy eyes disappeared, and he was replaced by a middle-aged man with an overweight waist, a deformed figure and no longer worthy of his face, walking around the stove. When participating in variety shows, the scenes of being unable to run, panting, exhausted and having to brainstorm became the jokes of the show.
Middle-aged fat, steadily gain a few pounds every year, but this middle-aged man who put down his weight has successfully given up smoking for 25 years. Isn't this the embodiment of self-discipline?
The purpose of the picture is not to expose the class, but to expose the speaker's IQ.
Fat people should not bear the hostility of this world.
The world is always hostile to fat people, and fat is almost doomed to life tragedy. Fat has become a shame, engraved on the epitaph of every fat man in advance.
In This Is Us, Kate, the second child, is a girl who has lived in the shadow of her weight since she was a child.
When I was a child, slim girls laughed at her for being fat and didn't want to play with her. This inferiority complex continued into adulthood. She is afraid of physical discrimination, flinches from opportunities, dares not accept the confession of boys, and dares not show her beautiful voice in public.
She envied her mother's slim figure since she was a child. This envy gradually turned into jealousy, and finally turned into alienation from mother. She is paranoid that her mother is always finding fault. She refused to sing in front of her mother, thinking that she was her mother's imperfect work.
She only lost a pound in a week after dieting, and even desperately considered doing stomach reduction surgery.
Under the pressure of "being fat is losing", many people, like Kate, have embarked on the morbid road of slimming and fitness.
The blind pursuit of low body fat rate will eventually lead to a decline in hormone secretion and even infertility.
When the body fat rate is lower than 17%, women's menstrual cycle and reproductive function will be greatly affected.
Being fat is not the original sin. What is needed more than keeping in shape is self-identity.
Because some kind of aesthetics dominates the mainstream, everyone should frame himself in the narrow cage of the mainstream aesthetics.
Will a person be bullied by social discrimination because he is "different" or in the name of "he doesn't work hard"
More than 80 years ago, Hitler founded the theory of "superior nation", and the quality of race determines the right of survival of civilians. Nowadays, when the figure changes from pursuit to bottom line, innate genes also determine the right of ordinary people to be respected.
In foreign countries, more and more people stand up to resist the harm caused by physical discrimination.
In 20 16, Mattel, a Barbie doll manufacturer with a history of 56 years, announced the end of traditional aesthetics and produced Barbie dolls with various shapes and skin colors.
A new generation of Barbie dolls will have four body shapes, seven skin colors, 22 pupil colors and 24 hairstyles.
Previously, Barbie had been criticized, and people accused her of being too sexy and too perfect, which would inevitably make girls have unrealistic expectations and make women who imitate Barbie suffer from anorexia.
The blind pursuit of figure is at the expense of health, which has lost the original intention of fitness-to enjoy life.
In 20 14, Victoria's secret once took a poster that aroused the anger of the whole world. Several models with thin shoulders stood side by side, with the words "perfect figure" printed on the poster.
Three British college students launched a petition demanding that Victoria's Secret withdraw the advertisement and apologize to the public.
They believe that Victoria's secret behavior will cause women's insecurities about their bodies, which is a cultural countercurrent to promote narrow aesthetics.
Some women with "poor figure" spontaneously walked to the camera and held another poster to show their self-acceptance with their optimism and self-confidence.
In order to oppose physical discrimination, many people spontaneously created the tag "Body Positive #" on Twitter. If you enter this tag on Twitter, you will see many fat girls showing off their bodies confidently.
The blogger named Jill Colesville's tweet represents the declaration of these fat girls:
This is your weekly reminder that your real appearance is perfect. You are not born to hate your stomach, nor are you born to be ashamed of your fat. This is what people tell you to hate.
Everyone has his own aesthetic standards, make his own aesthetic standards, and then use this standard to manage and accept himself.
Whether it's a figure or something else, the pursuit will never end, but the most important thing is to know what you want.
When you can truly accept yourself, you are the best of yourself.