For women, divorce can't make people grow up overnight, but divorce can make us see the way forward overnight. Whether we are decisive, indecisive, shrinking or entangled, our decision depends on our personality and experience, and our later strength is the maturity forced by life, so we have no choice.

1. Work hard and become an independent woman.

An excellent woman must first be economically independent, gentle, unpretentious, gentle and elegant, and atmospheric, which makes people feel like spring breeze and chic. In a relationship, she can let go. Let yourself live first. You can live alone without your parents' support and your husband.

Choose a reliable job with a stable and continuous income. When you stop worrying about your livelihood, you will have more energy to invest and love yourself.

2. Invest in your most valuable self.

There are many ways for girls to manage themselves, such as investing in health, keeping fit, eating a balanced diet and supplementing nutrition for the body; Investment in beauty, skin care, beauty and slimming; Invest in temperament, keep learning and improve taste.

Through reasonable planning time, we have enough time to study and improve ourselves; Have enough time to run your own business and do what you like. Don't be stingy with your efforts, all your accumulation is your precious wealth in the future.

3. Learn to live in peace with yourself.

Women are often emotional. Even if you are an elite woman in the workplace, there must be emotional moments when you are rational at work. This sensibility often leads to emotional out of control. Everyone has their own emotions. We can't stop it from happening, but we can debug it.

For example, at work, what proportion of emotional influence was in the last quarter, and how to control the influence rate in the next quarter. Not to mention emotionally, a small work is enough, and a big work is to die. Especially for lovers who are about to enter middle age, we should appropriately create small emotions and brush the sense of existence, but we must stop and grasp the degree.

Bi Shumin said: "Marriage is a voyage destined to cross the storm. When the new ship leaves Hong Kong, the two sailors should adjust their bodies and minds to the brightest and most high-spirited state, calmly look into the distance and move forward hand in hand. "

In my opinion, an unhappy marriage is like a losing stock. When it comes back slowly, it will take a long time, be impatient and anxious. It will be ugly and old during this period. The end of marriage is sometimes just the beginning, the beginning of another kind of freedom.