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What kinds of cognitive biases will lead you to find a girlfriend?
What kinds of cognitive biases will lead you to find a girlfriend? Self-interest attributed to mistakes means: when you succeed, you feel that most of it is your own credit; When you fail, throw the pot to others or external factors. Throwing the pot on others, such as Yang Ge, who just became a senior, had a conflict with her boyfriend. They also focus on feeling that the other side is finding fault and provoking disputes ... If the pot is poured on external causes, such as playing the glory of the king, it will also be attributed to some self-interest: when the game is lost, they will scold: "This pig teammate is too pit!" Parliament's victory depends on: "If I'm not smart enough to push that tower ..." This is true of mobile games, and so is life.

The senior gave an example of a student before. With the support of the seniors, she solved the problem of mistress and succeeded in being with her sister, but there have been contradictions since they got together. After several fruitless times, I asked my senior to continue the specific guidance. He left an interesting sentence: I just want to see if we are not suitable or I have a problem.

After contacting the specific guidance, the senior did one thing, and arranged the big and small things that happened during this period for him to write by himself, and we analyzed them together. At the end of the conclusion, he gradually became excited: senior, I won't write, and I found that many problems are my own. I am totally framing her from my own point of view. Sometimes I don't even ask the other person if I love her. For example, colleagues in the company go to play together, because their girlfriends live with female colleagues and often play with colleagues, and they get angry for no reason ... There are some similar things, which are actually old-fashioned in their own hearts, and then they preset their own opinions and start to find fault with each other's behaviors. ...

In this world, once encountering difficulties, some people gradually look for problems from the outside, but they are always unwilling to pull out a thorn in their body! It's not stupid. What is this? In the end, you have always been the most moved in your own eyes, in fact, it is worse than betraying your teammates.

Incorrect price tag My price tag for a thing is the use value you think it brings you. Why there is a wrong price error is because many people only price a thing for its short-term use value. I know that playing games, such as playing the glory of the king, is addictive, so I can just have fun, but many people are crazy about spaceships. They play, eat and have a tryst after work. In order to bully others, I really forget to eat and sleep.

I know I must keep my mouth shut to lose weight, but I still can't help eating skewers, drinking and eating meat. I signed up for a fitness class once or twice, and then I forgot where my card was ... At one time, reading back words was particularly popular in my circle of friends, so I praised the way of reading several books several times. Today, I shared my concern and praise with my circle of friends after reciting a few words, but it didn't last for a few days. ...

No matter reading or learning to recite English words, once you can't see the use value for a short time, give up; Play games, win happiness in a short time, and play hard. The same is true of emotional knowledge learning. I saw that others used several tricks, which seemed to solve girls' problems, so I also used them. If it succeeds, I will be very happy. Once it doesn't work, I'll change it immediately. It never occurred to me that emotional knowledge learning should be regular learning, not just imitation of simple routines. From learning to mastering, this is a complete process, but many people just pursue perfection, not only completely free, but also need to learn quickly! After all, the game is king, life becomes a loser, but feelings become a loser.