Someone teaches you to write.
Someone teaches you to read.
But no one taught you how to be a delicate woman. A woman is great and great, but it is not easy to live exquisitely!
At the beginning, I talked about why there were so few divorces in the 1960s when life was difficult, but now life is so happy but divorces continue. That's true! A question worth pondering, what went wrong!
Filial piety: filial piety to parents
Jingfu: Don't step on men.
Hyun-sook: gentle and considerate
Love home: considerate
Harmony with others: be kind to others.
Good as water: women are like water, learning the quality of water.
Breast milk: Blood is thicker than water, so it is worth cherishing.
Find a suitable partner. Yes: look at three dads, look at three moms!
Yin and Yang are harmonious at home, and everything is harmonious.
You can't be a girl at home or a man when you go out.
? At present, it is sad that divorce can't solve the problem. It hurts children. The stability of the family determines the woman. Men are always the sky, women are always the earth, and women are like water! Live like water!
To learn from China's traditional culture is to be kind, speak well, do good deeds, be a good person and be a moral person. In addition to improving morally, intellectually and physically, we must also understand that fate can be changed. The quickest and most effective way to change your destiny is to find and play your role well.
Children are filial, parents are kind, whether parents are kind or not, as long as they are filial, whether children are filial or not, as long as they are kind. This is the kindness and filial piety of the father. Brothers do their best, friends have faith, employees are loyal to the same truth, and each goes its own way to achieve family harmony! Zhu Dexiao comes first. A word of filial piety makes the whole family safe. Filial piety, filial piety Family is like a big tree, the old man is the root, the husband and wife are the stem, and the rich children are the branches, leaves, flowers and fruits. If you want deep roots, fragrant flowers and sweet fruits, you can only water your roots.
? Filial piety can inspire children and grandchildren to be virtuous and filial, and their families will flourish. Virtue is exhausted. If you don't do it, there will be no virtue, no greedy virtue, no earned merit, and no stirred blessing. Filial piety, adoptive parents, elders, whoever does it grows virtue! Whoever does it will be rewarded! This is the law of nature. If people can't keep their duties, they will complain, take care of people everywhere, get angry when they are angry, and worry constantly, either feeling wronged or regretting. If you don't complain, the more you complain, the sadder you get. Resentment is poisonous. If it exists in your heart, it will not only make you uncomfortable, but also make you sick and worry about yourself, which is equivalent to taking poison yourself.
Sages don't complain, for example, Confucius remained open when he was deprived of food, and so on. When we study and inherit the thoughts of ancient sages, we must thoroughly turn our minds, turn the world in front of us with our sincere hearts, transform our destiny, and play the role of a good man without complaints!
People always want to take care of others, regardless of children, brothers and sisters, relatives and friends, as long as they are touched. To tell the truth, if you take care of others, others will hate you. If you care, others will hate it. If you care, go to the hospital! Think about it, there are several disappointing people around you. Who can control who? If you want to play the role of a good person, you must learn to manage yourself. Whether it is the relationship between husband and wife, or the relationship between business leaders and employees and friends. We should straighten our hearts, repair our bodies and keep our homes in order.
People often suffer from not admitting their mistakes. If one party really denies it from the heart, it can make the other party's resentment disappear. Not only intellectually, but also emotionally. Realize that it can not make all diseases disappear more than taking "Qingliangsan". Looking for benefits is to sincerely discover the advantages and strengths of others, or not to forget the good of others. I can't find it on the front, but on the back. People's problem is "fouling", which is equivalent to a vacuum cleaner. Over time, it will harm the body. Looking for benefits is not as good as "warm heart pills". As the saying goes, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.
Dressing should be dignified first. If a woman is exposed, it will have a great influence on many people's body and mind, especially on children's future life concept, which is equivalent to chronic poison, and sometimes it is equivalent to strong poison for minors. Exposed clothes and heavy make-up, from a small point of view, wherever you go, you will cause trouble for yourself and even bring disaster. In a big way, it will lead to the moral decline of the whole society, and in a more serious way, it will be a cancer of building a harmonious society and even endanger national security. Improper words lead to disaster, family destruction and death, countless at all times and in all countries. The reason is nothing more than greed for property and resistance to truth. If we can look down on property, admit our mistakes, improve people's interests, and use our kindness to contain, guide and influence people.
? Nature endures calm moments and takes a step back. This is the comfortable state where the sky is high and birds can fly. Bad for who? Why do you live so tired? Happiness is a day, sadness is a day, why not be happy? It's simple. If you die of love, you can avoid disaster.
? With virtue, the elderly can "overcome all difficulties with one blessing", talk less and manage less, take the lead in seeing the benefits of a family, and educate their families to know how to repay kindness. Don't worry too much about your children and grandchildren. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Children don't have to worry about it, they all rely on filial piety! Husband and wife should fill each other's gaps, not blame each other.
Talk about feelings that are unreasonable, talk about gratitude, talk about the depth of the ocean, and talk about love without borders. Gender equality means equality in power and enjoyment. There is no equivalence in duties and manners. For example, husbands should take care of their parents-in-law, and wives should honor their parents-in-law.
? Daughter-in-law's temperament is like water to support everything, but she does not compete with everything for profit. She can be high or low, follow the circle, combine five colors and five flavors, and her original quality is always the same. As a daughter-in-law, she supports the rich by poverty, and often denies it when she is at a low ebb, guiding her husband to take the right path and serve the society.
Fragments of knowledge, vague and absurd! Amazing woman, can only understand but can't express! Everything is in it!
In this way, the study lasts until noon, and then the weekend study lasts until the afternoon. Although I didn't fully listen to it, it was quite rewarding!
People's learning begins with prenatal education. They are three and seven years old respectively. Don't miss the best times and the best education!
Scientific research shows that it is an important period for a person's brain development before the age of 3. When a person is born, his brain weighs only 370 grams. By the end of the first year, the baby's brain weighs nearly 60% of the adult's brain. At the end of the second year, it is about three times that of birth, accounting for about 75% of the adult brain weight; By the age of 3, the baby's brain is close to that of an adult, and then the development speed will slow down. Therefore, in the 2 ~ 3 years after birth, good parenting stimulation has an important impact on the function and structure of the brain, both physically and psychologically.
For 7-year-old children, the framework of values has begun to be established, which is the period of character formation. Montessori believes that children enter a real construction period from this stage, because they can calmly and consciously cope with their environment. Children's former potential creativity can now be revealed, because they now have various opportunities to consciously seek experience in the world around them.
Early childhood is a critical period for the development of life intelligence. Grasping early education can improve the learning effect. For example, some people think that 2-3 years old is the best age for children to learn spoken English; Foreign language learning should not be over 4-5 years old at the latest, because at this time, children will not be confused with their own language; 5-5 and a half years old is the best age to master the concept of numbers; 6 years old is the best age to develop size and orientation perception. Bloom, a famous psychologist at the University of Chicago, published the book "Stability and Change of Human Characteristics" in 1964, and put forward the famous hypothesis that children's intelligence develops fastest before the age of 5.
? Human intelligence or psychology is the result of the interaction between heredity and environment. Japanese scholar Kimura Kuiyi believes that children's potential ability follows the law of decreasing. That is, a child with a potential ability of 100 at birth can become a person with a potential ability of 100 if he is given an ideal education at birth; If you start education at the age of 5, even if it is an ideal education, you can only become a person with 80 points; /kloc-started education at the age of 0/0, and can only become a person with 60 points.
Early education can promote brain development. Some parents worry that early education for their children will damage their brains. In fact, this kind of worry is unnecessary. Some researchers use animal brains and biochemical changes. Facts show that adequate environmental stimulation and learning opportunities in the early stage will not only damage the development of the brain, but also promote the development of the brain.