Jin Xue's parents both work in factories. They play outside by themselves during the day, chasing my mother every time, and even come to my house several times. My mother gave some of my skirts and shoes to Jin Xue, perhaps because the children feel taken care of outside their parents and feel particularly close! My mother is afraid that the little girl will be cheated away by others, and has been doing ideological work for her, telling her that no one can eat delicious food because she doesn't know if she will put some unclean things in it!
Jin, a 9-year-old pupil, doesn't know who influenced her. She told my mother that when she grew up, she would spend boys' money and buy a lot of things! My mother was shocked and told the little girl that it was wrong. Everyone can support themselves by their own efforts, and can't pin their hopes on others. No matter what happens, you have a chance to choose and fight for it. Ask others for it. If others don't give it to you, there's nothing they can do.
Jin, a pupil, told my mother that she wanted an invisibility cloak so that she could secretly go to the supermarket to eat delicious food and no one else would find out! My mother quickly told her that it was impossible, because everything in the supermarket belonged to the supermarket owner, just like someone stole from you. Aren't you happy? Others have worked hard to get these things! If you want, trade your own things, and pay instead of taking them for nothing!
Jin, a pupil, told my mother that she never wears new shoes. Her sister gave them to her! A very helpless and indifferent expression! My mother felt very distressed and told Jin Xue that many adults didn't have many new clothes and shoes when they were young, but when they grew up, they could buy them themselves, not only for themselves, but also for their parents. Do you think parents seldom have new shoes?
Jin Xue told my mother that her parents don't love her, and my mother told her, because mom and dad are trying to give you a better life, do mom and dad work in the factory every day and don't sleep at home? Do I have to pay tuition for going to school? Every father and mother love their children, and so do your parents!
Kim has some new ideas to share with my mother from time to time. Jin Xue's parents have two new houses in our village, and the cost of each house is around 400,000. So according to normal thinking, his family is not particularly short of money, but his parents have no educational awareness and are completely free-range.
Once Jin Xue wanted to eat at my house, and my mother advised her to go home. After all, if she thinks she can eat at someone else's house for free, it may give her bad guidance!
My mother told Jin Xue that my sister (I) worked outside and she worked hard. She also has a lot of things she wants to buy, so she must earn money to buy them herself.
My mother is very interesting every day, and I don't know whether Jin can understand it in this primary school.
In order to cooperate with my mother's work, I went to Little Square to find a pupil, Jin. Jin Xue is very curious to know: "Do I work in Beijing?" I said yes! Do you have a lot of money? I said no!
She doesn't seem very satisfied with my answer!
I explained to her that I had a lot of things to buy. I really don't have much money to buy it now, but I'm trying. I believe my efforts will get better gradually, and so will you! My grades at school are not very good. Like you, my job is not the best in the world, but I like it very much. When I grow up, you will meet many great people!
I specially edited a video for Kim in primary school and sent it to record. She should think that she yearns for adult life, but she doesn't know that I am also going through the most difficult period in my life! If I told her that my childhood was not only difficult, but also more and more difficult as I grew up, would she still look forward to the future?
Everyone can't choose their own family. Being born in the countryside is different. But I believe that every parent is trying to treat their children in the way that they think is the most correct! So every way deserves respect!
Ha, even with the inexplicable kindness of strangers, I hope this little girl can remember that there were two strangers in her childhood! May you grow up healthily and have a bright future!