Etiquette is like a balance used to weigh a country, a carpenter's black line is used to judge whether it is straight or not, and compasses and square rulers are used to measure squares and circles.
2, "Book of Rites Jing Jie" Shang Xunzi: Rites are in the right country: the balance is in the light, and the rope ink is straight.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
3, "Xunzi Wang Ba" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: The reason why the ceremony is also for the country, for example: the balance is also in the light, and the rope ink is also straight.
Etiquette and law are used to govern the country just as scales are used to measure the weight of the country, just as scales are used to measure the weight.
4, "Xunzi Outline" Shang Dynasty Xunzi: Rites are in the right country, such as weight, such as Suomo in the right.
Taking ceremony as the most important "Tao" in governing the country is actually governing the country with ceremony, just like a balance is used to weigh the weight.
5. Xunzi in Shang Dynasty: Fu Li is also in China. Balance is about weight. Rope ink is to merit.
Basic principles that people must follow in their own affairs. If people lose their foothold, they will surely fall and sink.
Etiquette is established in terms of appearance, appearance, etiquette and manners in order to respect each other in social communication activities, and it is a recognized code of conduct as well as * * *. Etiquette is the general name of etiquette, courtesy, etiquette and ceremony.
References:
Sogou encyclopedia-civilized etiquette
2. The sentence about etiquette in The Analects of Confucius 1 and its explanation, Confucius said: "Those who are unkind can't keep an appointment for a long time and can't be happy. The benevolent is benevolent, and the knower is benevolent. "
Meaning: A person without moral cultivation cannot live a poor life for a long time, nor can he live a happy life for a long time. A person born with benevolence takes benevolence as the greatest happiness in his life; Smart people regard benevolence as the most favorable standard of living.
2. Confucius said, "see no evil, don't listen if you are indecent, don't say if you are indecent, and don't move if you are indecent."
Meaning: You can't watch unethical things, listen to unethical things, say unethical things, and do unethical things. "
3. Confucius said, "Self-denial is benevolence. A day of self-denial and self-denial, the world will return to benevolence. For benevolence, for yourself, for people? "
Meaning: Kindness in heart, kindness in polite behavior, courtesy from heart is for real politeness, courtesy is only for empty politeness, a person is kind if he is kind, hypocritical if he is not kind, impolite but cool if he is not kind, and rude and inhuman.
Is that enough? Not enough. Please keep asking.
3. Etiquette poems
Three-character classics:
A nine-year-old neck can be a hotbed of energy, and a four-year-old neck can be a plow.
The Analects of Confucius:
Unkind people can't be happy for a long time. The benevolent is benevolent, and the knowledgeable is benevolent. "
"Those who are determined to be benevolent will do all kinds of evil."
"Don't save in danger, be brave"
"see no evil, don't listen to evil, don't say evil, don't move."
Poetry Xiaoya Chutz: "The offerings are staggered and the manners are different."
"Zhou Li Chun Guan Shi Si": "All countries respect teachers and respect their manners to help Zongbo. "
Historical Records of the Book of Rites: "To the Qin Dynasty, there is a world, knowing the rituals of the six countries, and choosing their goodness."
Biography of Huangfu and the Northern Qi Dynasty: "Long, deep and generous, especially clear etiquette."
Dress and appearance: "Disciple Rules" requires: "The crown must be straight, the knot must be tied, and the socks and shoes must be tight."
Behavior: Confucius said: "A gentleman is not strong if he is not heavy, and his learning is not solid" (Note: The Analects of Confucius Learning).
"see no evil, don't listen if you are indecent, don't speak if you are indecent, and don't move if you are indecent" (Note: The Analects of Yan Yuan)
Confucius said, "Those who can talk without talking will lose others.": Don't talk to it in words, it's rude. He who knows does not lose his person, and he who speaks does not lose his words "(Note: The Analects of Wei Linggong).
The Book of Rites says: "Those who treat their husbands with courtesy have an inferiority complex and respect others" (Note: Book of Rites Quli Shang).
The ancients said, "Don't blame others for not doing as well as yourself, not being strong for others, and not suffering for being bad for others" (Note: Wen Zi Wei Xiang). "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you (Note: The Analects of Yan Yuan)"
"Book of Rites" said: "Rites are reciprocal, and it is indecent to go instead of coming; It is also impolite to come and not go "(Note: On the Book of Rites and Quli).
etiquette
Although it is important to study first,
Politeness is better.
Abide by the school rules,
It is polite to see the teacher.
The students are friendly to each other,
Friendship is held tightly by small hands.
Take care of public property, rest assured,
Establish a new style. I can do it.
Civilized riding song
Remember, class,
Line up when you get on and off.
Get in the car, don't run around,
Prepare small change for the ticket.
In the carriage, don't shout,
Quiet and orderly.
If you have a seat, don't grab it.
Take care of the elderly and children.
When you get off the bus, it is not crowded.
It's easy to fall if you delay time.
Civilized and polite,
Go to school happily.
Everyone praised the white rabbit for being polite.
White rabbit, cross the bridge,
Go to the bridge and have a look.
Oh, grandpa goat is here,
Staggered across the bridge.
White rabbit, run back,
Stand on the bridge and wave.
"Grandpa, please go first.
Step by step. "
The river laughed wildly,
The fish jumped up and down,
Everyone praised the white rabbit for being polite.
Campus beauty
The teaching building is really lively.
Willow is green and flowers are beautiful.
Students, jump and jump.
Be polite.
Say hello to the teacher.
Say hello to your classmates.
Take care of the environment and make new moves.
If there is rubbish, someone will deal with it.
When you see waste paper, bend down and pick it up.
Protecting the environment is everyone's responsibility.
Beautiful campus, laugh together.
4. Poems about etiquette talk about etiquette, and people are noble; Civic virtue, self-cultivation; Smile and broaden your mind; Group, more courteous; Harmony is the most important thing to get along with others; Pay attention to morality and etiquette; More understanding, no confrontation. Look before you leap. ...
Etiquette is a song,
A radiant song;
Etiquette is poetry,
A poem without an end;
Etiquette is spring,
Clear and bright spring;
Observing etiquette is the highlight of your life;
Learning etiquette shows that you are mature.
If etiquette has grown in your heart, then water it with sincerity, nourish it with enthusiasm and cultivate it with understanding!
While it is thriving, you are also growing! !
Chinese etiquette has been passed down from generation to generation.
Kong Rong asked Pear to respect her parents.
Huangxiangnuan cultural person
Chinese etiquette cannot be forgotten.
Strive to be a small model of etiquette
5. The poem "Quli" about etiquette says: "disrespectful, thoughtful, leisurely." An min zai
You can't be long, you can't do whatever you want, you can't be complacent, and you are extremely happy.
Saints respect it, fear it and love it. Love knows its evil, hate its good. Product can be scattered, and can be moved. There is money, and there is trouble. Don't think about winning, don't think about scoring more points. Doubt is not qualitative, but straightforward.
Ruofu, sit like a walking corpse, stand like qi. Etiquette should be appropriate and customs should be followed. Therefore, owners will make friends, judge suspects, be different, and distinguish right from wrong. Courtesy, don't talk to others, don't hesitate to pay. Courtesy, not exceeding the festival, not insulting, is not good. Self-cultivation and self-cultivation are called good deeds. The quality of ceremony is also the quality of speech. Politeness emanates from people, not from people. Learn with courtesy, but don't learn with teaching.
Moral righteousness, see no evil, correct lesson, see no evil. It is indecent to argue and argue. Monarch, minister, father, son and brother are all indecent. An official scholar is indecent. Ban Chao runs the army, and he gives it to the authorities to do the law. It's not good to be unseemly. It is dishonest to sacrifice ghosts and gods in the shrine. This is a gentleman's respectful concession to show politeness. Parrots can talk and stay with birds; Orangutans can talk and stay with animals. People nowadays are very rude. Although they can talk, are they not as good as an animal's heart? Husband is rude to animals, so father and son get together. It is made by saints and teaches people for courtesy. Make people polite and know themselves from animals.
Too much respect, and secondly, reward. Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. Therefore, owners should learn. Those who are polite to their husbands feel inferior and respect others. Although the seller is negative, he should also have respect and a rich situation? If you are rich and know good gifts, you will not be arrogant; If you are poor and know good gifts, you will not be intimidated. If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it "
-The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
The meaning of a gentleman is benevolence, and its meaning is ceremony: the benevolent loves others, and the courtesy respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-The Book of Rites. On Quli
6. Write famous sayings about etiquette in ancient and modern China and foreign countries, indicate the source or author and explain them.
Good manners are made up of small sacrifices.
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Emerson
If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it
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Confucius
The reason why mortals are more expensive than animals is courtesy.
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Yanzi Chunqiu
The most appetizing thing at a banquet is the host's behavior.
——
Shakespeare
Rudeness is the illegitimate child of ignorance.
——
Butler
Interest is a strategy that smart people come up with to keep their distance from fools.
——
Emerson
Man cannot live like an animal, but should pursue knowledge and virtue.
——
Dante
Courtesy, raising also.
——
xunzi
Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous.
——
The Book of Rites
A person's etiquette is a mirror, reflecting his portrait.
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Goethe
Self-denial is benevolence.
——
Confucius
The key to etiquette is not how good a person is.
It's about whether it makes people feel comfortable.
And respected. Only in communication
Another person feels comfortable and respected,
You can get the widest recognition.
In order to get more help.
because
This is the knowledge and practice of communication etiquette.
In fact, it is the knowledge of success in life.
——
oneself
People are rude, things are rude and countries are rude.
——
xunzi
7. The poem about etiquette "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." -The Analects of Confucius. "A gentleman carries things with virtue: a benevolent person loves others, and a courteous person respects others. People who love others also love others, and those who respect others will always respect others. -Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou Xia" reciprocates. It is indecent to go instead of coming; It is impolite to come instead of going. -On "Book of Rites Quli" Etiquette is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. Goethe: One of the most important tasks of affinity civilization is to make people obey the form in his pure material life. Make people become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty. -Schiller: Aesthetic education of letter politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts. ——A· Stevens: Mrs de Steele makes polite people happy, and also makes those who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu: On the spirit of law, politeness will not be lost. But you can get everything. -Marvo montague: Etiquette in the collection of letters is the smallest but most stable norm. -laroche Foucault: The book of moral proverbs is the flower of universal love. People who have no manners can't talk about universal love. Joubaire: A collection of famous sayings makes a person great, not because of wealth and family, but because of its preciousness. The second is misconduct and neglect; The only way to avoid these two situations is to abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself and others. -John Locke: A ramble on education.
8. What poems describe etiquette? 1. Degree of etiquette.
Pre-Qin era
The Book of Songs
Chutz
2. Etiquette is ready
Pre-Qin era
The Book of Songs
Chutz
3. At the age of sixteen, I know manners.
Han/Han/Chinese/human
Han Anonymous
Southeast Fly the Peacocks; The Peacock Flies Southeast
4, flying etiquette
the Tang Dynasty
Wang Changling
"Send Liu Shenxu back to the macro word solution"
5. Good habit of carrying towels and combs
the Tang Dynasty
Shangliu
Qin Quge stabbed Hu Jia 18 beats
6, three hundred etiquette.
the Tang Dynasty
Li Qiao
Classic
7. Good habit of carrying towel rack.
the Tang Dynasty
Shangliu
Hu Jia, eighteen beats, eighteen beats
8. Etiquette in Qing Dynasty
the Tang Dynasty
pi rixiu
Taihu Lake Poetry, Susan Shenjing Palace
9. Xu Dong and etiquette
the Tang Dynasty
Hanshan
330 poems
10, Xu Dong and etiquette
the Tang Dynasty
Hanshan
330 poems
1 1, etiquette from now on.
Yuan dynasty (1206- 1368)
Wang Mian
"From Cui Town to Jeju, human customs can lament thirty rhymes."
12, courtesy is well prepared.
Song dynasty; surname
journey
Poems of entering precepts in Ming Dynasty
13, incredibly etiquette
Song dynasty; surname
Lintong
Sage's filial piety 240 Zhang Ba
14, etiquette after three hundred three thousand.
Song dynasty; surname
Lv Xizhe
Jueju
15, etiquette in Fang Yue.
Song dynasty; surname
Mozi
2 nd yunliang monument
16, Glory and Etiquette of Card Issuance
Song dynasty; surname
new ideas
first day of the lunar month
17, talk about the punch line and arrest etiquette.
Song dynasty; surname
king
Poetry of the Association for the Aged
18, welcome etiquette students
Song dynasty; surname
Ye Wei
See and send with Wang Qu.
19, the etiquette is ready now
Song dynasty; surname
You jiuyan
Qing Yu Siyong Pavilion
20. In terms of etiquette.
Song dynasty; surname
week
field
2 1, Uncle Etiquette Today
bright
Li chongren
Holding gold too often.
22. Sitting and sitting are manners.
bright
Zhang Mao
Till the stream
9. The poem about civilized etiquette is 1. Smile is our language, and civilization is our belief.
Politeness is the easiest to do and the easiest to ignore, but it is the most precious.
Politeness and civilization are the golden keys here.
Birds fly freely because they have wings, flowers are beautiful because they have fragrance, and the campus will be more progressive because of civilization.
5. It is our duty to care about the school; Caring for the school is our obligation; Love school, our voice.
6. School is a place to learn, and civilization is the foundation of success.
7. Let's take care of the collective, public property and the environment!
8. There are flowers at hand and grass at your feet!
9. Flowers decorate the world with beauty, and we beautify the campus with actions!
10, pick up a piece of paper at will, it is purely your own spirit; A stain deliberately erased purifies a person's soul.
1 1. Have fun playing games and be kind. Don't fight, don't fight, don't chase, don't forget the word safety.
12, flowers decorate the world with beauty, and we beautify the campus with actions!
13, pick up a piece of paper at will, it is purely your own spirit;
A stain deliberately erased purifies a person's soul.