I watched the first season of the sacrifice of the heart these two days. I saw a Vlog about Xiao He in Weibo before, but I didn't watch this program immediately. A few days ago, I suddenly brushed a video clip about the "Good Luck" group and was instantly attracted by their Excellence.

From the interview to the end of the internship, I think all eight of them are excellent, and not only excellent, they all have their own personalities and clear goals. Remember, Li Haoyuan said: "Talent is the foundation, and the ceiling is one thing, but if you don't work hard, you will never reach the ceiling."

As I said before, I don't like being praised for my efforts, because many times "you have worked hard" is not praise, but something else. But after listening to his words, I began to look back on some things that happened in the past and rethink the connotation of "effort".

Indeed, if you don't work hard and keep your feet on the ground, then talent is just talent and doesn't have much effect. However, it is not enough if one just works hard. I have seen many such stories in reality. A is my junior high school classmate. At that time, the class teacher praised her at the class meeting: "Students, you should study like her, work very hard and be the first to arrive every day. If the student has her perseverance, you won't be too bad. "

A classmate until high school, she was still the hardest and most diligent classmate in the class, but her results in the college entrance examination were not ideal. To tell the truth, whenever we see her efforts, we all hope that she can get a satisfactory answer sheet, but it backfires every time. In exam-oriented education, the most important thing is grades, but it does not mean that students with poor grades will not work hard. It's just that each of us has different advantages and excellent aspects.

Classmate B is also a hard-working person, no matter how difficult it is, she will not let herself go easily, but every time she takes a big exam, she always turns over and over, even the subject she is most sure of. I think her perseverance is really not bad, and as long as she wants to learn, she will chew up the knowledge diligently, but she always lacks some luck.

The harder you work, the luckier you are. This sentence is not absolute, because the reality contains many factors, the right time, the right place and the right people, but you really can't get anything without hard work. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Your current efforts may not give you good feedback, but there will be surprises in the future.

Story 2:

Affected by this year's epidemic, I spent quite a long time at home in the first half of this year. I was very resistant to going back to my hometown before, but I didn't know what the opportunity was at that time, and I suddenly wanted to go back to work at the grassroots level for a while. When I was in high school, I thought that if I had the opportunity in the future, I must do something meaningful, especially about protecting women.

I suddenly heard a message last month. I was quite happy at first, but because of traditional thinking, they refused for me. To tell you the truth, I am quite angry now, because I refused without knowing it. When I contacted again, I realized that it was replaced. What a pity.

It took me some time to digest this matter, but when I learned the truth, I felt even more disappointed. In the city, when you submit your resume, your education is a stepping stone. If you don't reach it, you won't even get an interview, and you will be out directly. Back to the grassroots, education is not worth mentioning. It doesn't matter whether you are educated or not. What matters is whether you are satisfied.

The more detailed I know, the more I feel that I was too simple and naive before. I once wanted to be a just grass-roots worker, but now I find that the value of justice is not so far-reaching. Compared with the real thing, it can only be hidden in the heart or in its own small world.

If my world used to be a castle, now I am on my way to hell on earth, where there are no angels and no lovely people. Can only stand in a corner, watching those people who look like people keep performing, and then observe how many "applause" the actors got after the curtain call. Reality is skinny and heartless, but we still have to survive in this real world.

In the adult world, there are not so many fairy tales and there are not so many counterattacks.