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Why does Jia Baoyu only like Lin Daiyu?
First, Daiyu and Baoyu are interlinked in spirit.

From the first time they met, there was a voice of deja vu. Daiyu was shocked when she saw it, and thought, "How strange! Like you've seen it there? So familiar! ..... "Baoyu's reaction is like this. Baoyu looked at it and said with a smile, "I've seen this sister before." The similarities between two people seem to have been seen before. This telepathy is pure and natural, yet I feel the harmonious heart-beat of the Sacred Unicorn.

So where have we met? There is a dreamer who has long yearned for each other subconsciously. She (he) doesn't have a very clear and vague appearance, and once the person he loves appears, the inner cry agrees with him (her) without exception. This is the connection of the heart and the induction of fate. Magic and scarce.

Baochai has no such feeling at all. Baoyu didn't feel this way, and neither did Baochai. Because the person you like in your heart doesn't match, nor does it touch the heartstrings that can produce * * *, so their first meeting can only be polite, without any mental waves or even a ripple.

Second, Daiyu showed meticulous care for Baoyu.

After drinking at Aunt Xue's house, I am going to go home separately. A little girl put a hat on Baoyu, all thumbs. Daiyu stood on the edge of the kang and said, "Come here and I'll put it on you." Baoyu hurried forward. Daiyu gently caged the bun with her hands, stuffed the brim of her hat on her forehead, lifted the crimson tassel as big as walnut and trembled outside her hat. After I finished, I studied for a while and said, "Well, put on your cloak." Daiyu's movements are simply warm to the extreme.

Another time, on a rainy night, Baoyu went to visit Daiyu. When Daiyu saw the hemp fiber worn by Baoyu, she said Baoyu was like a fisherman. Baoyu said he would give it to you if you liked it. Daiyu said with a smile, "I don't want him. Put on that, and you will become a fisherman woman painted in the painting and played in the play. " She compared Baoyu to a fisherman, and compared herself to a fisherman, all of which were subconscious when she wanted to pair up with Baoyu. Baoyu naturally likes it.

When leaving, Daiyu gave her glass hydrangea lamp to Baoyu, who was afraid of breaking it. Daiyu asked Baoyu, "Is it valuable to lower the lamp or to lower people's value?" You are not used to wearing clogs. Lanterns tell them to light in front. This one is very light and bright. It was originally held by myself in the rain. Why don't you take this yourself? Send it tomorrow. -

The blame for Baoyu comes from taking care of Baoyu. Is there anything more valuable in the world than the body? I love Baoyu more than my body. Since we know that the body is the foundation of life, why not cherish your body, exercise more and keep fit?

In order to face the ups and downs in the future, if Daiyu is as healthy as Xiangyun, she may be able to withstand the subsequent changes.

Besides, Baoyu was punished for writing poems, and everyone asked him to ask Miaoyu for red berries. Daiyu poured Baoyu a glass of wine before she went. She has always taken care of Baoyu, and it is enough to describe her with meticulous care. We can't see what Baochai has done for Baoyu, but Daiyu is heartfelt and subconscious, which makes Baoyu feel kind.

On the other hand, the place where Baoyu went the most was Xiaoxiang Pavilion where Sister Lin lived, that is, she would go to see Sister Lin the next morning after the quarrel. I'm going to a rainy night, and when I enter the door, I ask, "How are you today? Did you take your medicine? How much did you eat today? " Baoyu always pays attention to all the changes of Daiyu's expression and appearance. As soon as he entered the door, he saw that Daiyu's face looked better today.

His intimacy must also be concerned about Lin's life, what he wants to eat and what he wants, and he can perceive that Lin's sister is thinner than before. I even cared about how many times Sister Lin coughed at night, when she slept and when she started. I asked my mother for more than three hundred taels of silver to make medicine for Sister Lin, although I obviously didn't want to come.

Third, Daiyu regards Baoyu as a bosom friend.

Sister Lin has never forced Baoyu to do anything in her studies and career, because these things cannot be forced. She knows exactly what Baoyu is thinking, what she likes, what she is willing to do, and what she can do. She is very scared about Baoyu writing meditation poems, fearing that Baoyu will see through the world of mortals and convert to Buddhism.

Baochai tore up Baoyu's poem and reasoned with Baoyu. Daiyu just smiled knowingly. After two poems, Baoyu was speechless because she was clean. Therefore, Sister Lin knows Baoyu very closely, and Baochai knows people, but she still knows people at the primary level, not at the intermediate level.

Baochai advised Baoyu to study twice, but Baoyu was disgusted and unhappy. Once in Baoyu's room, Baoyu happily asked Baochai to sit down. Baochai sat down and said, Brother Bao, you really need to study hard. Baoyu's face immediately turned from warm sunshine to dark clouds. He said I had something to go out, so he got up and went out. Leave Baochai like a goose.

The second time Baochai attacked others, Baoyu saw Xiangling studying hard. Baochai said to Baoyu, if you study as hard as Xiangling, is there something wrong with your study? Baoyu immediately gave her a white look, which made him unhappy. He didn't leave at once, but he gave Baochai a face, but it was different from Baochai's heart. Baoyu certainly doesn't like people with the same accent as his father.

And the understanding of sister Lin can be seen from what he said, "Teacher Lin has never said these fucking words? If he said these stupid things, I would have separated from him! " Sister Lin was surprised and delighted at Baoyu's words, and she really had a good eye. She regards him as a bosom friend, a bosom friend. If you are bosom friends, you may become lovers.

Fourth, Baoyu likes Sister Lin's words and deeds.

I also ate wine at Aunt Xue's house. There are always people who discourage Baoyu from drinking and let Sister Lin persuade him. Sister Lin not only refused to persuade, but also helped Baoyu. Daiyu sneered, "Why should I help him? I don't have to convince him. With a bartender, maybe Baoyu will write a good poem after drinking. Baoyu was overjoyed.

We think Baochai won't let Baoyu drink cold wine. Daiyu is concerned about whether you drink cold wine or hot wine. You can drink it if you like. You need to live a good life. Baoyu liked it originally and was used to drinking cold wine. A little thing shows the difference between Daiyu and Baochai. One is a free and unrestrained life, and the other is a cautious foot-binding old woman. It is a difference in concept, a difference in character and tolerance. This is the difference between being broad-minded and being cautious.

Sister Lin always appears in Baoyu's predicament. Baoyu's sister Yuan Fei asked everyone to write poems, but Baoyu only wrote three, so Daiyu helped him to make an apricot curtain in sight, which solved Baoyu's urgent need. Even if she cheated, she would help Baoyu. Daiyu has this courage and talent.

And this has happened more than once. As long as Baoyu is at a loss or loses in poetry clubs and parties, Daiyu will stand up. I will come to save the scene many times if you go down. Every time Baoyu goes out to class, listens to his father and is scolded by his father, it affects Daiyu's heart. As long as Baoyu is safe, she will sleep peacefully, and Baoyu will certainly be moved by Daiyu's affection.

Fifth, Baoyu also knows that Sister Lin is sick for herself.

His confession completely revealed his love for sister Lin, a good sister! My heart never dared to say; If you dare to speak out today, you can go to hell! I'm sick for you, too. I dare not tell anyone, so I must be by your side. When you get better, I'm afraid I'll get better.

Sister Lin's illness is in her body, but Baoyu's illness is in her heart. We often say that Sister Lin is narrow-minded and willful. In my opinion, Sister Lin's willfulness and meanness are mostly aimed at Baoyu, and secondly, she is spoiled by Baoyu. As long as Sister Lin is angry, Baoyu will chase Sister Lin to shout, explain, apologize and bow. It's okay to kneel down.

Are you too fond of Sister Lin, and go to Sister Lin's residence to offer a humble apology as long as they let bygones be bygones? I dare say that most women in the world like to be coaxed, especially little girls like Sister Lin. It is this thing Baoyu that coaxes people to the top. Why did Baoyu coax Sister Lin? Not because Sister Lin is sincere and affectionate to Baoyu. You can't coax it without love. When did Jia Lian coax Wang Xifeng, and when did Jia Rong coax Qin Keqing? I hardly saw him speak. Qin Keqing is still so good.

Therefore, Baoyu has a soft spot for Sister Lin because they have too many similarities, and they all like to yearn for the pursuit of emotional freedom in books such as The West Chamber. They also hope that they can plug in a pair of ideal wings and fly in the vast and boundless sky. There is no secular bondage, no parents' orders and matchmaker's words, and no golden fate. The interference of Kirin's fate is sweeter than that of Qi Fei.

They all like to have their own hobbies. Don't ask or force them to do what they like. Baoyu likes to make the best and most technical rouge by himself. Even the pure natural rouge put in Baoyu today has a certain market and potential. Many of his rouge formulas are natural flowers with pleasant fragrance and no toxic side effects. Am I advertising Baoyu's brand rouge? Thank you all.