Maybe it's the difference of parenting concept, or maybe the in-laws are too old to take care of the baby. As a result, many mothers gave up their jobs and chose to be full-time nannies at home. Short time is no problem. After a long time, many mothers will find that their state is getting worse and worse, becoming angry and complaining.
Actually, I totally understand this situation. Because although I only stay at home full-time for six months, I deeply understand that it is not easy to be a full-time nanny. We should take good care of the baby, wash clothes, cook and clean up the housework. After a long time, the natural mentality will collapse a little.
You may be familiar with the challenges in the workplace, but as a novice mother, you are often in a hurry. I believe that every precious mother has experienced that kind of powerlessness.
Then, although it is understandable that such a situation occurs, we should not be complacent and complain about life. Develop the habit of self-discipline and plan your time well. Now is an era of self-media, and we can get the information we want from the outside world quickly.
It is better to do something in the near future than to let yourself wander. Try to get happiness from some small things.
For example, calm down and tidy up the room according to your favorite style, and listen to your favorite music when your child is asleep. If you are really tired, then when the child is asleep, follow the child to sleep until the big thing wakes up.
1, do today's task list, learn time management, make plans and make answers.
2. Change into a clean household clothes. Comfortable and soft household clothes are necessary uniforms for full-time treasure mothers at home.
3, learn to receive, tidy up the room, and learn to give up.
Decorate your home with new styles regularly to keep your life fresh.
5. Plant flowers and grass and water the aloe vera on the balcony.
6. Organize the old photos and archive the photos in the mobile phone according to time.
7. Disinfect children's toy picture books regularly.
8. Take a nap, take a nap with your child and allow yourself to rest. A stay-at-home mom is not a 24-hour iron man.
9. Turn on the cloud music, choose a favorite singer, hum along and relax completely.
10, chasing a favorite variety show, entertainment also increases knowledge.
1 1. Make a video call to parents and in-laws who can't live together and say hello.
12. Chatting with her husband WeChat, the old couple should be as sweet as love.
13, insist on bookkeeping, daily expenditure and income, and achieve rational consumption.
14, do skin care in the morning and evening to remind yourself that good skin needs to be adhered to every day.
15, foot bath, 20 minutes before going to bed every day, which is helpful for sleep.
16, make a cleansing mask regularly to deeply clean the face.
17, weighing, keeping in shape and body shape management
18, make a hairstyle you like.
19, cultivate a hobby and stick to it for a long time, which can be reading, writing, photography and cooking.
20. Talk to your husband often, understand and care about each other's needs, and do a good job in family division.
2 1. Make a healthy and nutritious breakfast, a bowl of miscellaneous grains porridge, a side dish and an fried egg. A beautiful day begins in the morning.
22. Pay attention to your favorite food bloggers and learn to cook with tips.
23, learning baking, you can make complementary food for your baby, or you can make dessert for yourself, full of happiness.
24, eat some fresh fruit every day, vitamin supplements.
25. Of course, if you are tired, you can have a rest and order takeout.
26, learn to do postpartum yoga, yoga practice changes women, not only shaping, but also inner peace brought by the integration of body and mind.
27, you can also do aerobic exercise, exercise can make up for the loss of progesterone after childbirth, and can also help your mother quickly recover postpartum body and regain self-confidence.
28. Make a timetable for your baby. Managing children's time is equally important.
29. Organize children's bookshelves and toys and update children's reading lists.
30. Accompany the children to do manual work. Remember, it's done with children. Many times, let the children do it themselves.
3 1, building blocks, playing high and playing with children can also find childlike innocence.
32. Puzzle, challenge with children 1000 puzzles.
33. Practice writing and buy two copybooks, one for the children and one for yourself.
34. Create some parent-child interactive games that can be played at home to enhance feelings.
35, parent-child reading at night, a good picture book is warm and novel, giving children positive energy and making children fall in love with reading.
Get up early, set the alarm clock at 6 o'clock, and form a good habit of getting up early.
37. Seize the prime time in the morning, study for 30-60 minutes in the morning, seize the prime time in the morning and improve yourself.
38. Learn English, learn the language, keep improving, and better enlighten the baby in English.
39. Learn the basics of photography and improve the level of sunbathing in your circle of friends.
40. Learn the basic knowledge of investment products such as wealth management, insurance and funds, and understand that if you don't manage money, money will ignore you.
4 1. Try to do sideline business, not to earn much money, but to enrich yourself and find yourself again.
42, learn to praise, husband, children, in-laws, praise others will make you more open-minded.
43. Learn to show weakness in front of your husband. Let him do what he can't do and let him learn to bear it.
44. For others, don't easily promise what you can't do.
45. When you are in a bad state, travel to clear your mind.
In short, as long as we don't give up on ourselves, we can bloom our own flowers no matter where we are. As full-time nannies, we are only temporary, and children also need an active and happy mother.
Finally, I want to send a word to your precious mothers. You just work hard, and the worst result is just a late bloomer. Give this sentence to everyone on the road and to every full-time nanny who still has dreams.