After giving birth to the baby, I cried and asked my husband to help me suck Orange Pa's mommy's life, which can be said to be a prelude to pain. Before, she always thought, "When I become a mother, I must kiss and feed it to 1 year old! Unexpectedly, just after giving birth to a baby, after drinking hair, milk tea and milk drinks, he was immediately announced: "You stuffed milk! "practical nurse want to help her * * *, a press and burst into tears. Orange Pa said unjustly, "I thought childbirth was the most difficult stage. I was so painful that I didn't even dare to touch it, and even my head began to hurt ..."
In the middle of the night, when Orange Pa doesn't know what to do, it is the most effective way to let the baby or husband suck, but at this time, the baby can't wake up when sleeping, so let the husband help him suck. Although I felt strange and awkward after smoking, I still sucked out a little milk. She smiled and said, "That painting will never be too romantic. My husband is nervous when he sees me crying, and he is in a hurry ... "As for breast milk. Orange Pa relayed her husband's feelings: "Sweet, the taste of milk is better than expected! 」
Less than three months after the birth of her son Lynn Lynn, Orange Pa lived in a "breast milk hell". Without forcing his son to spend the night or drink milk at a certain time, the baby has to drink it every two hours, and the rest of the time is spent sleeping and milking. She feels "crazy"! Finally, I insisted on breastfeeding for 4 and a half months.
Postpartum nightmare: Orange Pa's figure began to walk on the mountain, with long hair under his arm and smelling like a boy. Not only that, he gained 74 kilograms when he was pregnant, and he was very bloated when he was born. In addition, he still has some male hormones left on him, and a lot of hair and pigments are deposited under his armpits. "There is the smell of smelly boys, just like when he went to cram school in junior high school, physical education class boys were all sweaty, which would be secreted at that time. Orange Pa described: "I don't know how long this life will last. At that time, I felt that life was hopeless. 」
During pregnancy, her weight soared by 22kg, and "Shangshang Player" saved her from gaining 22kg during pregnancy. After giving birth, she was like a deflated balloon. After half a year, she lived a sloppy life due to child-rearing, which was seriously out of touch with society. Orange Pa became very confident. At this moment, she took over the location host of Shi Shang Player. She is a fan of this festival, so she has a feeling of joining the dream team, which makes her gradually find the center of life, and also stay with mommy and her. It took about a year and a half to become confident. Through work and exercise, she slowly recovered her original posture. She said, "Exercise is very helpful for me to lose weight, which not only improves my spirit, but also gives me more strength to take care of my children and restores my hope for life. 」
Besides, Orange Pa said that her son was her "favour". After becoming a mother, her mentality has changed a lot. "I used to live as I please. I can eat whatever I want, even if my stomach is bad, it's good to pull it every other day! But after having a child, in order to make him eat healthily, he began to pay attention to the ingredients of food, became more self-disciplined and changed his taste. He used to love sweets, but now he doesn't touch sweets very much, and gradually becomes a muscular body that is not easy to gain weight after childbirth.
Mommy should be fashionable and keep a little distance from her children. Orange Pa shared her experience. She wanted to be a relaxed, happy and fashionable mother. "It is better to keep a little distance from her children and not stick with him for 24 hours! Stay-at-home mothers can spend some money to hire nannies and help with their children. It's also good to go to a movie, a SPA or a cup of coffee once in a while. After leaving children for a period of time, they will be filled with happy feelings. In fact, children can also feel the negative emotions of mommy, which has a negative effect. " It is better to be apart than to be newly married, and distance will bring beauty! " 」
The son shouted calmly, Mom, can I touch you? My son is very attached to Orange Pa and has a good relationship with his mother. Children look the cutest, but many funny things have happened! For example, Grace recently likes to touch Orange Pa's * * *, because most of them are office workers, and her son can't wait to shout on the bus: "Mom, can I touch your * * *? Hehehe. " Orange Pa was a little embarrassed when the nearby passengers heard someone snickering, so Education En said, "You can touch your mother's * * *, but no one can touch it except your mother's * * *! 」
The whole family is delicious, and the son skips non-staple food and eats adult food. The common interest of the whole family is "eating", so after six months' grace, he ran around with food, eating and drinking. Most babies enter the stage of non-staple food at 4-6 months, but Orange Pa doesn't have to ask his son to eat mud products, but let him taste adult food in a small amount of meals. Seafood and crabs are not taboo, and neither is his son. "Interestingly, Grace tasted the sour taste of lemon. Despite her wrinkles, she clamored for more. Later, she liked to put a thin slice of lemon in her mouth. " Do you eat spicy food? Orange Pa also smiled and said, "He couldn't stand spicy food after he tasted it, so he never touched it again. Since Grace was born, she seldom got sick, her stomach was good, and she seldom had diarrhea. The couple let him decide what he wants to eat, sweet, bitter, sour and spicy, just like the taste of life. He always has to taste it himself before he knows what it feels like.
Four-word educational motto: Speaking of Orange Pa, it is not only popular with the audience, but also in the entertainment circle. Do you have any special ideas about educating children with such a zero-negative evaluation style? She mentioned that after giving birth, she thought about what kind of parents she wanted to be. "Because of grace, I have become a self-disciplined person, so I hope to be a mother who keeps her word!" "I hope to naturally establish children's prestige and belief in her, instead of making children afraid of her through punishment." Promise grace one thing, try to be 99%! Let him feel that he listens to me, because his mother is a trustworthy person and truly agrees that what she said is correct. 」
There is no difference between who plays the bad COP and who plays the bad COP with her husband. If you want to scold, you will be punished together. You will not be punished by your father today. Mom, there's a back door. Grace is in a rebellious period recently, and often looks at adults and deliberately says, "I just don't want it!" " Once, he insisted on playing and refused to eat. Her husband said to him, "well, if you don't eat now, you won't have anything to eat tonight." Dad wants to put away the rice, and even grandma doesn't have to drink it. After hearing this, Orange Pa, although a little reluctant, reached an agreement with her husband, refused to give him a meal for one night, and did not secretly agree with her son: "Dad won't let you eat, and mom will give it to you later." "Because of their consistent parenting style, Grace has learned a lesson and won't be so unreasonable next time.
Husband and wife * * * wear clothes and regularly date super sweet husband Lin Qianyuan. As a drummer in Tizzy Bac, he is also a "zero-negative husband". He is talented and excellent at cooking, and he arranges all the meals at home. When I first got married, before my husband went abroad to work, in order to be afraid of Orange Pa's hunger, I specially stewed a pot of sparerib soup and put it in the refrigerator. I packed the ingredients and frozen them for a week, so that she could cook them as soon as she took them out. "Husband is not good at making surprises or romantic tricks, but he is very warm-hearted! 」
Besides taking care of Orange Pa's stomach, Lin Qianyuan, who studies fashion design, is also her consultant. "When I go shopping at ordinary times, my husband is shopping and I am there. He will help me choose clothes. Usually I ask him about the matching and color of his clothes first. He is my clothing consultant and mentor, and even he bought shoes! " The point is that Orange Pa is about the same size as her husband, so she can wear clothes. On the day of shooting, she came to the set wearing her husband's coat and trousers, which is as fashionable and stylish as her style, and is an alternative interest between husband and wife.
Lin Qianyuan has a unique idea about the collocation of parent-child clothing. Orange Pa said, "He shouldn't dress exactly the same. He will create parent-child clothes and lovers' clothes in small details, and will grasp some of the same elements, such as shirts, pants and socks, so that the whole family looks whole, but they will not be dressed exactly the same. 」
With grace, Orange Pa insisted on an idea: "Don't let the children be the third party of husband and wife, but deliberately arrange the date!"! And carefully write it on the calendar, you can't "go to the movies" or eat, but really go on a date, at least 1 time a month. If you don't do this, you will unconsciously focus on the child, and the relationship between them will become just the father and mother of the child, not lovers. My son has magic, which changed Orange Pa from a withdrawn person to a fearless person. Orange Pa talked about himself. Originally, he was a very withdrawn person. As long as he doesn't work, he will hide. When he comes to a new occasion, he will choose a corner position, hoping not to have contact with anyone. Grace's birth opened her heart. She emphasized that from infancy, a son is a child who likes people. He will greet people when he sees them, and he will hug him when he goes to work. Because of his enthusiasm, Orange Pa must also interact with passers-by. " Gradually, I am not afraid of strangers and new environment. This is a great gift he gave me. 」
Although I never get enough sleep after having children, raising grace every day will bring amazing discoveries. Orange Pa said, "Recently, I want to take my son to Hokkaido to play with snow, because I watched a ski movie on TV, which made him get carried away! Even if it is the same snow, watching it with children will make you feel different; As a mother's life journey, full of expectations. Enjoy it with Orange Pa!