In the early morning of March 1 March, 2065438, two groups of men and women gathered in the streets of Sanya, Hainan, and the two sides clashed and fought wildly together. Seeing the police car passing by, the fighting crowd quickly dispersed and fled the scene, and a young man was killed in the street. The police arrested a man suspected of being involved in a fight on the spot. The police investigated deeply and found that the dead man was only 14 years old. This incident was caused by a conflict between two women. The police arrested 24 suspects, of whom 18 was underage. (Legal News 20 150422 Lost Adolescence)

1. Comments on why girls jump into the river

Life is the foundation of everything. No life means losing everything. However, the phenomenon of not cherishing life sometimes happens.

Xu is a senior three student, 18 years old, and his grades are above average in his class. She stole clothes from the clothing store many times. Last time she stole clothes in Gezi store, the owner Xiaoqing launched a "human flesh search" on the Internet. Then Angie was forced to apologize to the clothing store and pay back the money. She hid the truth from her parents and classmates. Finally, she committed suicide by jumping into the river.

There are different opinions about the causes of suicide. Perhaps it is the psychological pressure of approaching the college entrance examination, perhaps she is ashamed to meet people under the questioning of her classmates and parents, or perhaps the comments of the public after "human flesh search" make her even more ashamed to meet people.

It is worth noting that "human flesh search" without the consent of the police is an infringement, which exposes almost all information such as people's names, photos, telephone numbers and addresses.

In any case, the final outcome is sad. Because of poor psychological endurance and indifference to life, they left endless grief for their loved ones. Cherish life, not only do not commit suicide, but also do something beneficial to others and society, reflecting the value of your own life.

2. Review of The Girl's Suicide Letter

On February 6, 20 15, 13: 35, according to the program announcement, I was still waiting in front of the TV and began to read the girl's suicide note broadcast continuously in the newspaper. I feel depressed after reading it. Close your eyes. This real case deeply touched me, and a strange feeling came to me.

First of all, let me give you a synopsis of the story: it happened in an afternoon on1October 20110, in Dongjuan Township, Qu County, Dazhou City, Sichuan Province. /kloc-Yuanyuan, a 0/3-year-old girl with delicate writing and rich feelings, left home and disappeared after leaving two suicide notes full of desperate words, and was searched everywhere by her relatives. The police have ruled out the possibility of homicide through investigation. Yuanyuan's death was accidental drowning.

See appendix 1 at the end of the article for details: stills and text description of the suicide note of the girl, and appendix 2: Dazhou 13-year-old girl left two suicide notes: write down desperate words and throw them into the reservoir.

A 13-year-old girl committed suicide, which is really touching. I've been thinking: why? Will the tragedy happen again? Tracing back to the source, several sources have emerged at present.

First of all, the board should focus on the problems caused by the phenomenon of "left-behind children". The dual structure of urban and rural areas has led to a huge gap between rural areas and cities. In order to make a living, many rural parents go abroad and entrust their children to others. Children who are far away from their parents and lack care are prone to problems in learning and psychology (personality, emotions, etc.). In fact, children are reluctant to leave their parents. Yuan Yuan once said: She will understand that adults earn money, but she will not let her parents go.

Secondly, school education is also to blame. At present, the orientation of the whole education system is still exam-oriented education, which emphasizes intellectual education and ignores other education. The only criterion to measure students' quality is their academic performance. There is a saying: exams are teachers' magic weapons; Dot is the lifeblood of parents. Under the background of such school education, Yuan Yuan, who has a lower-middle grade and strong self-esteem, naturally feels inferior, and the reason is self-evident. She is afraid of being laughed at by her classmates and even going to school. At school, she often vented her boredom by tearing notes and other abnormal ways.

Third, psychological counseling for teenagers can not be ignored. In the face of dealing with complex interpersonal and emotional problems, adults are sometimes at a loss, constantly cutting and confusing. However, it is not easy for boys and girls who are in the eventful autumn of adolescence to properly solve various emotional relationships (such as affection, friendship, love, etc.). ), especially the problem of puppy love among teenagers. Yuan Yuan, who is not deeply involved in the world, has her ignorant little love and is still in online dating. She is afraid that others will play with her feelings and hurt her, but reality is always scratching her. X, a male netizen who talked with her about everything, suddenly disappeared from the internet after a period of contact. She was heartbroken and thought that X was a complete liar. She confided the secret only to her best friend, Huan Zi.

When a girl is depressed to the point where the world collapses, it is obviously useless to tell her friends. At this time, if there is a psychological counselor to help her comb in time, there may be room for recovery. Therefore, the author thinks that mental health education is indispensable, and it is essential to set up psychological consultation room and open emotional hotline.

Finally, a good social atmosphere will bring warmth and hope to the lost teenagers. If social workers and volunteers pay more attention to "left-behind children"; If there is less intrigue in this real society and online world; If the school considers that there is only a wall between her home and the school and agrees that Yuanyuan does not live in the school, it will not cause Yuanyuan to "stay behind"; Assuming the conditions are met, maybe the tragedy will not be staged! look forward to ...