How to ask a girl out
1. Judge whether she is in the emotional window.
Vacancy not only means that she has no boyfriend, but also means that she has no man she likes. Generally speaking, it's easy for girls to ask out during the empty window period. At this point, the girl's emotional state is blank. If she is just bored, if you invite her, she will basically promise you. Since you can ask girls out, that's half the battle. A colleague had been asking a girl out for a long time before, and she couldn't even ask out, which was a long way from success. I told him a secret book, Yunkun Ji Bao Dian, so that he could learn how to fall in love. After that, it was 10 days. He successfully invited two girls and invited me to dinner for three days, expressing his gratitude. Actually, I'm very happy. If you have a brother who also wants to divorce, you can learn to improve your love thinking, which is available online. You can find it by searching.
Judge her condition
When you invite a girl, you are likely to encounter some unexpected situations, such as she can't come because of something temporary and suddenly doesn't want to go out. So before inviting, you should find out her status, see if she is suitable for dating, and then decide whether to invite after your simple judgment.
3. Vague invitation
If you can't judge whether a girl wants to date you, you can test it by fuzzy invitation. A vague invitation is when you tell her that you plan to date her and see if she wants to date you. For example, you say: Next time you come out for afternoon tea, tell her what you think and see how she answers you. If she says yes, you can formally invite her next time.
4. Catch the signal that she wants to ask you out.
Sometimes, a girl really wants to ask you out, but she usually doesn't tell you directly. She gave you more hints. For example, she wants to have dinner with you She might say: I'm hungry. When she keeps stressing this sentence, she just wants to have dinner with you. If she tells you repeatedly which movie she wants to see, she just wants to invite you to see the movie, so be sure to seize the signal.
How to send a date invitation
1. Learn to expect management when dating.
Many boys think that dating must be formal. If you give a girl a feeling, the next date will be a very formal process. She will subconsciously look at you with a formal standard and have very high expectations for you. If you only have a little problem, she will deduct your points. But on the contrary, you told the girl in advance from the beginning that this is just an ordinary meeting, just to meet a friend, so she won't have too high expectations for this process, and she won't ask too much of you. Maybe her whole date was six points, but you gave her one point by moving a chair like a gentleman, one point by improving the meal in advance, and one point by giving her small things such as napkins. In an environment with low expectations, it is easier to give you extra points.
2. Grasp the home court advantage
You ask a girl out, of course you need to control the home court. For example, if you often come to this store and are familiar with it, you can choose to bring your sister to this store. Because of familiarity, you will appear more natural and confident. Even if something unexpected happens here, you can always handle it well, instead of being more flustered than girls when facing the problem, so as to show your reliable side to girls.
Step 3 clear up the dating process in advance
Is it just a procedure for you to invite girls to dinner? Of course not. You should have an idea of what you need to do from meeting to leaving, especially when you meet a girl for the first time. It is inevitable that you will feel strange when you meet for the first time. No matter you or he, once this strangeness cannot be eliminated, future activities will only be more embarrassing. * * * Doing the same thing together can easily bring the two sides closer. For example, if we go to clip dolls, play billiards and bowling together, the key is not whether we have fun, but whether we are happy and whether two people participate in this process.
Wrong invitations must be avoided.
1, after the opening remarks, the invitation was sent out in less than ten sentences.
2. The other party keeps giving you a reply of "Oh, Hehe" or an IOD with an expression, and you still insist on choosing an invitation.
3, do not understand each other's preferences, blind invitation. She likes movies, so you have to take her for coffee.
4. When inviting, you need to be exposed too high, fearing that the other party will disagree and send a lot of words to convince the other party to come out. (the result can only be counterproductive)
5. The invitation time is not well chosen. For example, if you want to invite a girl to dinner at night, you won't go until four or five o'clock in the afternoon. If you don't give the other party time to prepare, you are likely to be rejected immediately. )
6. Stick to the invitation. Many friends have the firm will not to stop until they reach the Yellow River, not to hit the south wall and not to look back. After being rejected by a girl once, continue to make an appointment the next day, be rejected again, and make an appointment the third day. Until it was hacked.
Matters needing attention in chatting with sisters
1, kept silent for minutes.
It seems that there is nothing to do but chat. Its value is so low that my sister can feel it.
2, don't be too arrogant, deliberately cater to the sister.
Many brothers are principled in the face of low scores and can stick to their own framework when speaking, but they are completely panicked in the face of high scores. For example, I really didn't expect you to reply me. I thought you wouldn't talk to me anymore. Hello, goddess. What is the goddess doing? You are so beautiful. I don't think I deserve you. And so on similar low-value language. These low-value languages will make my sister feel that you and she are not from the same world. Originally, my sister didn't think she was a beauty, but under the contrast of these languages, my sister thought she was a beauty, and you were a low-scoring man who circled around her.