However, some people's life with beauty as the main theme has been replaced by bitterness and bitterness shortly after marriage or even just after honeymoon, and the gorgeous flower of love has been covered with dust. Of course, there are various reasons for this, but it has a lot to do with the fact that the couple did not discuss a long-term family plan in the future during their honeymoon. Newlyweds must be soberly aware that a sweet married life is not just a 30-day honeymoon. But to live a lifetime. In this long time, many things will undergo new changes. Therefore, husband and wife should agree on a "family constitution", which should be mutually bound and abided by. There are many specific plans that newlyweds should make. To sum up, three plans should be made.
(1) Family planning. Family planning is the most realistic problem faced by every newly married family. Two people should have a unified understanding, so that "a couple can only have one child". At the beginning of marriage, both parties need to save their energy, concentrate more time and energy, do a good job in study and work, and make greater achievements in their careers. If you don't do a good job of contraception from your wedding night and let your little life fall to the ground in a hurry, you will be anxious and break the normal law of life. At the same time, this little life needs food and care, and it costs two or three hundred yuan a month, which makes the family's economy suddenly tense. Some young people worry that it will be difficult to have another child in a few years. In fact, there is no scientific basis for this. 25-28 years old is the best reproductive period for women, which is good for both mother and baby. Therefore, newlyweds should not rush to have children, make a good birth plan first, and take effective contraceptive methods according to their work, health, economy and mood. Having children after 2 ~ 3 years is of great benefit to individuals, families and countries.
(2) life planning. Building a new family is inseparable from the economy, that is, without money, nothing can be done without money. A wife who can't live independently without her parents and a husband who lives on gifts from others can say that they don't have the minimum conditions to establish a new family. Of course, this doesn't mean that you can't accept the support of your parents. Especially nowadays, young people have low wages and high living expenses, so it is certainly better for parents to give them some support. But for young individuals, marriage cannot depend on their parents, but on their own efforts to support themselves. It doesn't matter if you earn less. You can make good arrangements and live as smoothly and comfortably as before. This requires a person to be responsible for financial management, or a wife or husband. Whoever has time and ability will take care of it, and what to eat and buy every day is discussed by two people. No matter who manages money, it is necessary to plan various uses according to the total monthly income, and it is best to leave some savings for buying clothes, big items and urgent needs. In addition, if the income is low and the economy is tight, you can make a daily household account, record your daily expenses, grasp the actual monthly expenses, and find out the problem of overspending, so you can pay attention to it in the future.
(3) Work and study plan. Family is the cell of society, and husband and wife are partners in life. Therefore, the new socialist family must attach importance to learning, making the family not only a place for human beings to thrive, but also a classroom for couples to learn, help each other and improve constantly. The bride should regard the honeymoon as a new starting point for husband and wife to study together, adhere to the family study plan, and arrange a series of study contents in combination with personal interests and work, which can not only improve her ideological level and scientific and cultural knowledge, enrich and enrich her family life, but also renew and consolidate her love. Couples working hard together can broaden their horizons, mind, temperament and psychological state, and make family life warm and happy.